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Blog Posted:3/7/2017 8:18:00 AM

Trolls on Soup

 

I was contacted by Heidi Sands this morning about someone posting a vile and filthy comment on a poem she posted yesterday and as well attacked another commenter on the same poem. This person had no name, no avatar and no poetry. How people can become a member of soup without a name is beyond me but it happens. I have seen it a few times. Heidi is not a premium member and is devastated by what has happened so I offered to post a blog for her apologizing to anyone this person may have offended and to assure the members of soup that is was not her and she has no idea who this person is.  Sadly this happens, I have seen it more times than I care to remember, so this blog is being written to bring it to your attention and hopefully the attention of the admin here. Heidi has also written to the admin. She also deleted the poem so that no other members of soup could be attacked via her writings.  By replying to this blog, you will be replying to her. Thank you for your support in this matter. 



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Date: 3/11/2017 4:53:00 PM
I had to check out the blog that inspired Tom's troll song and can say this isn't at all what I expected. Good grief. Heidi is too sweet for someone to use her wonderful poetry as an avenue for filth or ludeness. I hope she reposts the poem - none of us should have to fear sharing our poetry here.
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Date: 3/10/2017 7:31:00 AM
One other question. If this does happen, how is the comment deleted that someone else makes inappropriately without deleting the poem?
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/10/2017 8:49:00 AM
Ok thanks
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/10/2017 8:07:00 AM
TPS has the ability to delete comments, replies, blogs, poems and can terminate an account at any time, Heidi. Depending on the vulgarity or threat level, TPS will either warn the member and remove the offending comment, or boot them right out the door.
Date: 3/9/2017 4:11:00 PM
Thanks for the input Cyndi :)
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/11/2017 8:15:00 AM
I am sorry to hear that you were attacked, and that your Soup chums were attacked, as well. Kooks are everywhere -- in real life and in cyber world. I worry more for the under 17 crowd. The kids who are Soup members. We all should look out for each other.
Date: 3/8/2017 5:27:00 PM
Is this crap still happening? Soup brings out the best in people, it really does! And it brings out the worst. I think due to several reasons. 1) People open up here and reveal their deepest hurts, regrets, rages, religious and political views, pet peeves, personal Quixotic windmills and hate-ons 2) People recognize themselves in those revelations (whether directed at them or not) and they don't know how to deal with the whole "killing me softly" scenario. So they go into attack mode. 3) They are cheesed off at the world and play Master of Misery here on soup 4) they are just jerks 5) Mental illness 6) Jealousy 7) They misread you and lash out. Shake 'em off! TPS can find them and ban them -- though they come back in different disguises. Some learn their lessons and follow Soup rules. Some (usually those with severe personality disorders) can not seem to help themselves and actually implode on some blog or on someone's poetry page. It's like the hate is bigger than they are and they can't fight its grip on their lives. I've seen it before, here. So, just keep TPS in the loop, block what you can and keep your chin up. There are many more good people here than bad apples. I know you may feel down... but you weren't wrong about this place. It is good. But there is no utopia on this planet. We are all flawed and those flaws are magnified in our art-- poetry.
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/11/2017 8:47:00 AM
"I may never put my hands on my hips again," Captain Janeway. Okay, I'll fess up. I like trolls. Their hairy arms, their unibrows, the way they sweetly grunt-whine. They make wonderful pets. "Dance, Trolly, Dance!" ;) Hugs... off I go...
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/11/2017 8:04:00 AM
Favourite original episode: The Trouble with Tribbles. Favourite quote from Next Generation: Earl Grey, Hot. Couldn't stand Deep Space Nine. I don't believe resistance is futile. And I may have been a Klingon warrior in another life. PS. Number one should have taken a number two. A little too constipated in his acting.
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/11/2017 8:00:00 AM
You're all talking Trek, you sexy things! You had me at "warp speed." The story goes that my dad used to rock me to sleep while he watched the original Star Trek on the television, pre-PVR, pre-VCR, I think even pre-remote. (1966) I've been smitten ever since.
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/10/2017 8:19:00 AM
And now back to my novel... mystery suspense in twelve weeks? I'm starting to threaten goats on my bridge, turn into anti-social, bloodshot-eyed, drooling, toe-jam Troll. Have fun, chums!
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/10/2017 8:05:00 AM
Though we've been told by the orange troll that climate change is "fake," Canada has experienced some of uber-strange warm winters, of late. I saw a guy wearing shorts this February. However, all bets are off when it comes to Manitoba. :(
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Cyndi Macmillan
Date: 3/10/2017 7:39:00 AM
HOLY COW! I laughed so hard they could hear me across the street, I swear!!! I'll have to come back. Gotta fly. PS... Trolls within families are not called trolls. They are called siblings. That's what I see in the "noogies" I see below. Sounds like a sleepover. Boys boys, don't make me come up there! hahahaha!
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Doug Vinson
Date: 3/8/2017 8:20:00 PM
Cyndi, I think that is so, but it's not specific to PoetrySoup - I'd say that the online experience frequently makes us "more of who we are," under the cloak of relative anonymity.
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Chris Green
Date: 3/8/2017 5:55:00 PM
Wow, I don't believe I have ever seen it summed up as nicely as this. Bravo Cyndi.
Date: 3/8/2017 12:27:00 PM
Please contact PoetrySoup when this happens. Provide a link to the comment/poem and the name of the person commenting.
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Doug Vinson
Date: 3/8/2017 8:22:00 PM
While I'm a bit intrigued - I don't see how the "no name" comments can be done - I also don't think it matters much at all, since any number of named, registered accounts can easily be made, using "throwaway" e-mail addresses. And believe me - I know. Muhahhaahahahaaa.
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Jan Allison
Date: 3/8/2017 4:48:00 PM
I had a comment today and it doesn't have any name on it - thankfully it wasn't an abusive comment but I can't understand how these comments can be made without having a soup account.
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/8/2017 12:54:00 PM
Hi. Thanks Yes, I did do that. However, there was not a name of the person doing it. Somehow they were able to comment and reply without a name showing.
Date: 3/8/2017 12:43:00 AM
I agree with the definition that Marti gave. 'Trolls' are people trolling for responses - specifically, negative ones. It doesn't have to be really dire, either - it can just be somebody messing with a friend, pulling their chain a little, so to speak. When it's somebody using "bad words" to try and shock people, make them mad, etc., then it's usually best just to ignore them - don't give them the response they want. You're dealing with a child or somebody with a child-like mind.
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Doug Vinson
Date: 3/8/2017 8:16:00 PM
Cheers, Heidi - not that there is any necessarily "good" way to go - more that it's a choice among distasteful alternatives sometimes. In the end, I think the real cure is just to get used to it - as bad as that sounds.
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/8/2017 5:56:00 AM
That is true Doug. Thanks for your input.
Date: 3/7/2017 6:09:00 PM
Continued: no member on this site should be abused in such a way for no reason and it will NOT be tolerated. Also no arguments should be put forth to my friend Chris. As he was just posting with the blog option that I do not have or I could have done it myself. Thanks again for all the respectful poet's responses. I also just wanted the community to know, that I did not send any replies from my poetry that were vulgar as the person somehow did from my account.
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/8/2017 5:58:00 AM
True. Thanks Seeker.
Date: 3/7/2017 6:06:00 PM
Hi. I want to thank Chris for posting this, as I am not a premier member. I also want to thanks others here, who have commented and shown care about outrageous behavior that should not be allowed at this site. It was an outright paragraph of vulgar language and sending reply to a commenter also with vulgar language. It is good for people to be aware, as it can take off if someone decides to act so hateful without realizing it, if you don't check it. It is the first I have seen at this site.
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Date: 3/7/2017 4:14:00 PM
if tim smith is implying that I am a troll for being offended by curtis' avatar than I can live with my conscious. there was only one person that commented... but i'm labled as a troll for what I believe is the most repulsive avatar? good community here. lets gang up on connie. yep lets listen to tim.
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Tim Smith
Date: 3/7/2017 4:27:00 PM
No Connie if you read correctly I said there was a vile comment on his POTD poem from yesterday. If you have a problem with Jerry I suggest soupmail.
Date: 3/7/2017 3:14:00 PM
Thanks for making us aware of this Chris. I am sorry that Heidi and other's have been targeted by this faceless person:-( hugs Jan xx
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/7/2017 6:10:00 PM
Thank you Jan
Date: 3/7/2017 2:52:00 PM
I'm a bit 'troll' ignorant. Can anyone tell me the FULL definition as applicable to websites? Have trolls same goals? Thanks in advance ... CayCay
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Chris Green
Date: 3/7/2017 5:37:00 PM
CayCay, it seems Marti has posted a definition above a few spaces.
Date: 3/7/2017 1:21:00 PM
I think the best way forward is to identify the troll, and just try and build bridges with them...
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Charmaine Chircop
Date: 3/8/2017 6:19:00 AM
Come on Ian..The only trolls I build bridges with are the ones from disney ..those trolls witb fluffy coloured hair..that are always happy..and I believe make sad bergens happy.Dont know if you watched the movie :).I do feel sorry that tbere are such people in the world ..who leave insultive comments on otbets..Im not saying constructive critisizm..You know I like that..Jist senseless words..No bridge there dear.x
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Anthony Mark
Date: 3/8/2017 5:19:00 AM
I just done my first official troll....lol...perhaps the Trolling should be identified by its grotesque nature...
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Richard D Seal
Date: 3/7/2017 6:08:00 PM
Would that be a bridge for them to live under?
Date: 3/7/2017 12:54:00 PM
Thanks for posting this blog Chris...Heidi..We had some of these trolls in the past..I 've seen such trolls even when I once was on another site..Just block them..or ignore them..They leave as they come..Hugs.
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Charmaine Chircop
Date: 3/8/2017 6:15:00 AM
What you did was good Chris..You posted a blog to help your friend Heidi.
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Chris Green
Date: 3/7/2017 6:01:00 PM
Thanks Charmaine but now reading some of what is going on I almost wish I hadn't posted it.
Date: 3/7/2017 12:40:00 PM
First, Chris - you needn't apologize for something you did not cause, but are trying to smooth over. Thanks for the heads up - I have not seen such and am also baffled by the no identity issue. What happened is not acceptable, surely an answer will form! CayCay
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Chris Green
Date: 3/7/2017 6:01:00 PM
Ah, I get it now...no problem and it really wasn't a problem anyway. Thanks my friend.
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Caycay Jennings
Date: 3/7/2017 2:50:00 PM
Hey, you - I get all that. We somehow miscommunicated, I think. I was simply responding to this part of what you wrote " .... so I offered to post a blog for her apologizing to anyone this person may have offended and ..." Didn't mean to diminish or emphasis anything incorrectly. I can't wait to hear solutions / explanations, this is such a weird and unnecessary scenario. Again, thanks for blogging about it. Hugs ... CayCay
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Chris Green
Date: 3/7/2017 12:58:00 PM
Oh, my friend. I am not apologizing for anything, I wrote this to help out Heidi Sands who is not a premium member and does not have the ability to post a blog. She just wanted to make sure some attention was brought to it and she wanted to apologize if anyone else who commented on her poem who might have been offended by this person. But thanks for commenting. :)
Date: 3/7/2017 12:26:00 PM
Heidi, don't be suckered into insults, let your heart deceiver what is real and what isn't... Your family here on soup know your quality of work and would never stoop that low.. Like Tim mentioned the person is just wanting attention.. so ignore... I too have gotten a couple of insults I just ignore it I take it as they are just ignorant ?????
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/8/2017 6:56:00 AM
I won't. But I hope the site finds a way to stop people from posting without a name, to stop sabotaging of accounts. As it was worse when they used reply button with vulgar language to commenters on the poem as if it was me.
Date: 3/7/2017 11:30:00 AM
I saw the same person comment on Jerry T Curtis's POTD yesterday in a vile and vulgar manner. Most likely an attention seeker. Ignore them and they will go away.
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Date: 3/7/2017 10:50:00 AM
Heidi, Although these type of things happen on the soup, I hate the fact that it does. I am angry and disgusted that such people are able to get away with it. I hope Administration are able to put a handle on it. Chris, thanks for sharing this blog on Heidi's behalf- Alexis
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/7/2017 6:22:00 PM
Thank you Alexis. I am disgusted too that people have so much hate to post such vulgar things for no reason to others.
Date: 3/7/2017 8:50:00 AM
I think that is awful Heidi, I am so sorry. Nicola Byrne wrote about SoupMails from blank accounts, so apparently it is possible to troll here. I honestly hope that Administrators will act on it and that it is possible to stop it once and for all. In the meantime HUGS from me.
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Heidi Sands
Date: 3/7/2017 6:21:00 PM
Thank you Darren. I appreciate it. :)

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