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The Optimist

Blog Posted:11/8/2024 9:11:00 AM
An optimist isn’t necessarily a blithe, slightly sappy whistler in the dark of our time. To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something.
If we remember those times and places–and there are so many–where people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction. And if we do act, in however small a way, we don’t have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory.
-Howard Zinn
My post script is, no matter the situation, we must not look without, but within, because the smallest common denominators are the foundation all else is built upon - self, significant others, family, neighborhood, etc....don't blame, build - don't complain, contribute, and never allow yourself to be a victim. Pessimists seldom contribute anything useful except more despair...
 
 


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Date: 11/9/2024 6:04:00 PM
Great blog! Don’t be a Pollyanna or do, but remember when life kicks you get back up and help others with the same compassion you are shown.
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Date: 11/9/2024 5:08:00 AM
An optimist is a person who dreams a lot.
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Date: 11/9/2024 4:12:00 AM
you're not one of the happy-clappies are you, craig? lol i'm an optimistic pessimist in that i hope for the best but expect the worst, then i'm never disappointed ;) interestingly, in a study it was found that pessimists actually deal better with adversity than optimists, presumably because they anticipate the worst happening so are better prepared when it does..whichever camp you fall into, it's important to be your authentic self
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Charlotte Puddifoot
Date: 11/9/2024 8:40:00 AM
you're spoiling my saturday, go away and come back when you're miserable
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Tom Woody
Date: 11/9/2024 6:15:00 AM
"if you're happy and you know it clap your hands, if you're happy and you know it clap your hands, if you're happy and you know it then your smile will surely show it if you're happy and you know it clap your hands." (Everybody this time) "If you're happy and..."
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Charlotte Puddifoot
Date: 11/9/2024 5:29:00 AM
my faith in you is restored, can't handle a happy chappie, or a happy-clappie lol realism, yes, i like realists
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Craig Cornish
Date: 11/9/2024 4:35:00 AM
No, not a happy chappie LOL - more like you say I think, more of an optimist/realist? As you say, a sidelong glance at things, because being 100% optimist can leave you disappointed, but then a 100% optimist would say that it's okay because the negative happens for a reason, but I guess that has its level of delusion too.
Date: 11/8/2024 6:32:00 PM
Dear Craig, your blog about cultivating optimism, especially in the face of adversity, is beautifully stated and very uplifting. In times of angst your words are a great reminder to embrace "compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness", take positive action in our lives and reject the self-defeating pessimists. Thank you!
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Date: 11/8/2024 6:26:00 PM
I love that old joke: the pessimist says “things can’t get any worse”, and the optimist says “sure they can!”.
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Kim Rodrigues
Date: 11/9/2024 6:02:00 PM
Love that..lol
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John Lawless
Date: 11/9/2024 7:46:00 AM
LMAO.....I can't believe I never heard that one before...
Date: 11/8/2024 5:43:00 PM
Attitude is everything. Always looking at the lighter and brighter side, helps in many ways. :) Happiness comes from within and it does reflect your personality. :)
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Date: 11/8/2024 1:49:00 PM
Interesting. I consider myself neither an optimist nor a pessimist, but a realist. However, I will never look inward for peaceful resolution, but rather upward. Nice blog
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Date: 11/8/2024 10:19:00 AM
You are absolutely correct, Craig. There's nothing to be gained by having a negative outlook on any situation. It's always the aggressor who claims to be the victim. Having the right attitude can alter one's life.
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Date: 11/8/2024 9:58:00 AM
Nice Craig! Agree...tho I fall incredibly short, I like my Guardian Angel's philosophy St Therese of Lesieux encouraged small acts of kindness, gets me out of my selfish head!
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6/14/2025 Lost and Broken Free versedepression,hope,love,
6/12/2025 Time for Champagne Abecedariansunset,
6/5/2025 Silence Listens Free verseimagination,
5/30/2025 wildflower Monokudream,
5/26/2025 Grey Free versebereavement,death,
5/9/2025 Road Trip Versechildren,
5/5/2025 A Wilderness of Mirrors Free verseconfusion,innocence,life,
3/22/2025 Blue Cheese and Old Pickles Free verseintrospection,
3/11/2025 Shadows Suzette Primelove hurts,
2/24/2025 Listen to Your Eyes Sonnetlove,
2/21/2025 A Vine in Winter Free verseage,youth,
2/12/2025 Undergrowth with Two Figures Ekphrasishope,longing,
2/7/2025 Ivy League Free versecharacter,education,
2/5/2025 The Bard Bequeaths Sonnetfarewell,
1/27/2025 A Light Through Yonder Window Sonnetlove,
1/20/2025 A Birthing Frost Rhymeage,love,old,
1/19/2025 waken Free versesea,
1/15/2025 A Lovely Wither Free versedeath,
1/6/2025 Discontinued? Free verselife,
12/30/2024 New Years Old Wishes Free verseintrospection,new year,
11/26/2024 Obscurity Free verselife,
11/15/2024 Conflagration Free verseintrospection,
11/7/2024 Jolted by Twilight Free verselove,memory,
11/1/2024 Bodacious Rose Free versesensual,
10/24/2024 empty thoughts Free verselife,
10/18/2024 Bird of Paradise Quatrainimagination,
10/14/2024 Haunted Cemetery Rhymehalloween,
10/13/2024 Winter Wishes Sapphic stanzaseasons,
9/29/2024 Awaiting Reality - Tri Rhymeautumn,
9/28/2024 The Frost Bitten Rose Rhymefaith,hope,
9/19/2024 The Picture on the Parlor Wall Free verseart,lost love,love,
8/26/2024 The Stubborn Few Sonnetseasons,
8/18/2024 Moonlight on Meadows Sonnetdream,
8/6/2024 why Haikuintrospection,
7/10/2024 Sea Glass Blank versememory,
7/8/2024 What are WE Sonnetdeath,
6/28/2024 clouds Haikuseasons,
6/17/2024 Yesterday's Wishes Blank verselife,
6/15/2024 The Jig of Emotions Free verselost love,
6/6/2024 The Empty Room Free verseloss,
6/1/2024 The Pressed Rose Blank verseallusion,dream,
5/31/2024 A Meeting of Hearts Narrativelove,
5/25/2024 The Homefront Free verseheartbreak,war,
5/22/2024 Raining in Summer Free verserain,
5/9/2024 When Silence Speaks Sonnethistory,
4/25/2024 The Quicksand of Thought Sonnetloss,
4/12/2024 Forgotten Field of Forever Free versememory,
4/12/2024 A Wish for Spring Abecedarianseasons,spring,
4/9/2024 eclipsed-dodo Dodoitsulove,
3/31/2024 Ethereal Lantern Free versehome,hope,
3/27/2024 Making Music Free versemusic,old,
3/24/2024 Song of the Wind Personificationweather,wind,
3/18/2024 Yin - Yang Free versecreation,
3/16/2024 Let's Tango Free versenature,seasons,
3/10/2024 Woven Worlds Othertruth,
3/2/2024 A Hydrangea's Lament Free verselife,
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1/22/2024 A Terrible Start Limerickfunny,
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1/16/2024 Scentient Sijolove,
1/9/2024 Dorian Gray - A Triple Entendre Quatrainself,
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12/31/2023 Naked Apprehension Free versenew year,
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12/13/2023 winter sky Haikuwinter,
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12/8/2023 Wabi-Sabi Free verselife,
12/1/2023 Always Home Free verselife,
11/4/2023 Daylight Saving Free verseautumn,
11/2/2023 Morning Mood Haikulife,
11/2/2023 The Trail Ends Sign Free verseinspiration,
10/30/2023 Repurposed Evolution Free verselife,
10/24/2023 Cowplops Senryufunny,
10/14/2023 The Unsupervised Stop Sign Free versedeath,life,
10/12/2023 Erinyes Alexandrinehalloween,
10/7/2023 Phantom Dreams Alexandrinedream,
9/11/2023 Edges of a Dream Iambic Pentameterdream,
9/9/2023 Vanilla Shell Free versemorning,
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8/21/2023 Entrenching Reality Sonnetwar,
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7/29/2023 When Doves Cry Sonneteulogy,
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