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Premium Member " Never Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain Your Choices "

Never deflect your truth for
Borrowed eyes

Every choice you make is
Paid in life-wise 

Voices' conversation is loud but never
Lived your grind

Expect no chorus  when you
Discipline your own mind

Root your steps in what feels
Justified 

Justify nothing- your spirit is
Enough 

Under your skin lives the
Tangible tough stuff

Silence  is power when the 
World wants evidence 

Trust your path even when it
Feels standoffish 

Inside your calm sits the
Truest truism

Fear evaporates  when you
Stand uncuffed

Your choices don't need a
Magistrate 

Anger is boundaries finally 
Speaking 

No weakening to keep
The peace in

Growth hits harder when you
Stop tweaking 

Energy saved is energy boosting

Respect your fire without 
Deteriorating 

Defend nothing- your life ain't a
Trial
Every lesson earned came with
Its own distance 

Faith in yourself stays flexible 

Open only to those who understand 

Ignore the pressure to defend 

Carry your calm like a trusted 
Companion 

Every step you take soars
Stay aligned  with divinity's will

Way Home

Some landmarks are bugging me.
I zigzag.
Centered in this car is an air freshener.
Which I almost listen to as well.
Some landmarks are road signs, or traffic lights.
I’m creative.
The GPS reminds me of turns.
The struggle to make a visual map.
Makes me so embarrassed that I would rather burrow an underground tunnel to get places.
Some landmarks are rotted away for the time being.
That rock with spray paint.
I’m bad with directions.
I’m standoffish as a GPS.
I watch for the clock tower.
Calls in all directions.
Tells me it’s 1:00 pm.
I could climb that tower to look down.
And still not understand the way home.

in the group



in the group of dewdrops which crystallize loose boundedness 
whose coercive force is unmatched among standoffish streets
we maintain the latent misgivings about our absence


Premium Member no one appeared to notice their beauty

four ballerina beauties took a stroll
searching for a tutu they could all agree on
no one appeared to notice their beauty
not a surprise…
standoffish New York city dwellers

Premium Member Queen of Merryland

We had heard of the Queen of Merryland for weeks and weeks.
Everyone wanted to see her, our imagination in high rising peaks.
She came in with an entourage, and we stopped being excited.
She looked persnickety, pinched, angry cheekbones highlighted.

How can she be the Queen of Merryland? My friend swiftly asked me.
Look at her standoffish-ness, which frankly, any dumbbell can see.
I have one idea, I said, it is the one I think which you will have to agree.
She was born into it, the daughter of a King who was not at all merry.

Premium Member Questions

Questions  I often questioned myself, It's not a lack of one's faith
                   
                   yet it's the concerns and matters demonstrated by accounts from

                   people. Questions

                   I often interrogate myself about who, what, when, where, why, and how.

                 Uncertainties, hesitations, battles how I was dealt the hands of these

                 cards. Questions

                No, I'm not standoffish,  hostile, or even antagonistic I'm safeguarding

                 and waterproofing my mental state of mind from people, places and 

                 situations. Questions

                Alternatives, routes are taken to turn back from dark alleys, friendly

               faces lurking to bring naught to dim one's light. Questions

               Acceptance of oneself character healing on a daily journey in nature

              of self importance attentively. Questions


Premium Member Murmurings

Murmurs and mumbles
are sounds mimpathic.
Uttered with sympathetic feelings,
but without the guttural loud utterings
that empathy with heart-felt solidarity
and compassion demands.
Mimpathy falls short of full-throated emotional support.
Mimpathy is standoffish aloof and half-hearted.
Murmurings with mimpathy
are rather pathetic.

Premium Member Golem and Angel

He was in love, deep, romantic love.
She was standoffish, aloof, above,
no need for pointless ideas thereof.
It was forbidden, like fox and dove.

His clay a gritty earthy mixture. 
Hers a sweet creamy marble picture
of comfort, a permanent fixture.
His secret love a proscribed stricture.

So he sat at her feet each long day
writing the love words he could not say.
He greatly feared from her side to stray
lest someone come and take her away.

He searched for the same magic by night
that brought him to life and gave him sight.
Hoping that her stone wings would take flight
and sweep them from this piteous plight.

Premium Member An Acquired Taste

Kids and dogs tend to like me.
The kids because they sense
I haven’t grown up yet,
The dogs sniffing the essence
Of a long-lost puppy inside.

Adults seem to be more standoffish
Probably put off by my lingering puppy grin.
Eventually we find a common ground
As I have been defined as “an acquired taste”.

And cats, self-centered as they are
Often seek my counsel (aka treats)
Sprawl before me in feigned submission
Purring, as cats do, in conquest.

©10/23/2022

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Premium Member Our Gorgeous Snow Queen

We revere our gorgeous snow queen 
She wears her ethereal regalia with purpose 
Many people shy away, totally intimidated
It is snow queen’s plan, for her heart is fragile
She has been terribly hurt; you can tell by her eyes. 
She is now purposefully frosty and standoffish,
So people will not take advantage of her giving nature. 
Snow queen is hoping to never have her heart broken again
Not only by lovers, but by acquaintances and colleagues
Who take advantage of a woman who is generous and kind
Snow queen’s family and best friends see past her façade.
Sad, but understanding why she has had to build walls of ice, 
She forms a glistening sight, enhancing winter’s diamond-like aura. 
Snow queen wears her frostiness with jewelry like majesty.  
Keeping her heart safe, so no one can hurt her any more.

Premium Member Tiger Tiger - Orange Cat

The sign on the cage read "CAUTION"
I thought, "hmmm..
"wonder who that belongs too?"
The receptionist seemed a bit cool
almost standoffish.
I paid the bill and asked
"so where's my kitty?"
She pointed at the caution cage
and said in a growly tone
"OVER THERE."
"The doctor says he'd appreciate it
if you didn't bring "tiger" in again."
It was "tiger's" first (and last) visit.
He was a little ball of orange fur
with A T T I T U D E....
He aged like a jalapeno pepper
growing hot with a little bite.
As my kitty grew
so did the size of the cage
and the size of the CAUTION sign.
He had a few "good" days.
One in 1998, the other in 2005.
I believe he was the reincarnation
of a serial killer.
If there's a heaven for cats
he's probably the bouncer.

John G. Lawless
8/18/2020

Premium Member Please Dont Judge Me

Don’t judge me;
I know I appeared 
      to be so
    standoffish.
You pursued me
for a long time.
 You greeted me
 every day when
I came to your
  coffee shop.
 Sometimes you 
wanted to give me
   the coffee for 
        free.
I declined every 
        time.
You tried to give
     me roses,
But I didn’t accept
        them.
One day you just
stopped abruptly.
  However, you
 didn’t know that
I was secretly in-
  love with you.
And my wall was
  about to come 
  crashing down.
Listen, I was just
guarding my heart.
As I child I used to
  be overweight.
I got bullied a lot.
I had no friends .
  As I got older I
got in shape, I ate
   healthier and I
   joined a gym.
I am now a fitness 
  instructor, and I
  own a couple of
         gyms.
On the outside I’m 
     a knockout,
 Open the book and
      turn the page.
 You will see I’m still 
the little overweight 
    girl that’s madly
    in love with you.
I guess the old saying 
is true “ Don’t Judge A
  Book By It’s Cover” 











2-15-2020
Alexis Y.

A Negative Aura Exudes From Within

a negative aura 
exudes from within 
a standoffish shell 
of arrogance 
floating away 
on a swelled headed 
hot air balloon ride 
into the conceited skies
far and wide to never 
grace the humbled town again

Premium Member Now We Stand and Sulk


Now We Stand And Sulk


We were the two 
standoffish 
in a small pond.
One day, 
how I wished 
we got carried away,
to a rubbing 
of our fins and bellies, 
so fond.
Life would have smiled on good fate, 
a favorable life,
how my eyes belay.
Instead gloom frowned on and on,
off and off,
over and over.
At worst it brought me to her,
lost and lost.
When we did get carried away,
on a magic carpet, 
to aquarium land,
our tails touched briefly
to her indifference.
Bubbles shot to the surface,
hers,
big round ones,
made just for me.
I looked at her puffing lips,
bad,
"I hate you."
I look back,
my puffing lips,
bubbling,
to no effect,
"asking why."
She raced away.
See I told you.
Our life now a crayon box 
of pebbles, plastic seaweed,
my votive candles,
and unanswered prayers,
inside a glass box,
us,
swimming inharmonious.
Yet we're petted,
externally,
and not internally
to the puzzlement
of onlookers and me.
Each day passing by,
the two standoffish,
each immune,
to sitting together.

connie pachecho

2/16/18

Beware Those Who Are Not

Beware those who are not,
A little bit bias.
Or a little bit pious.
A little bit selfish,
Or a little bit standoffish.
A little bit sexist,
Or a little bit racist.
A Little bit forlorn,
Or little bit stubborn.
A little bit lazy,
Or a little bit crazy.

Beware those who are not,
A bit of a risk taker,
Or a Muck-raker.
A bit of a snob,
Or a hard case when on the job.
A bit of a joker,
Or a gambler.
A bit of a blower of trumpets,
Or a layer of red carpets.
A bit of a liar,
Or a Town Cryer.

Beware those who are not a little bit,
They will be hard to please,
Whenever there is even a little breeze.
Which makes it hard for them to care a jot,
Every time they lose the plot.
They will never cause just a little harm,
If they decide to leave the farm 
And shoulder arms,
Without any qualms.

The next time you meet anyone who admits to being a little bit,
Don't throw a fit,
Just help them be a little less,
And give them a god bless.
You won't have to worry about them even throwing a little fit,
As you take a little nip
In honour of your new friendship,
When you too admit to being a little bit,
Of a misfit.

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