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Blog Posted:10/31/2013 12:18:00 PM

For me, it is extremely important that I thank my audience for reviewing my work and posting feedback and comments. If someone has taken the time to read, review and
comment on one of my pieces, it’s imperative that they be thanked for their
endeavor. I make sure to thank each and every person who leaves me replies on
my poetry. I think it’s the proper, correct and respectful thing to do. I
cannot begin to fathom not being gracious enough to say, at the very least, “thank you”. I don’t pretend to understand why anyone would not be grateful enough to convey appreciation for the audience taking time to read, review and comment. The idea or prospect of not doing this is utterly lost on me.

I realize and understand a lot of people struggle with time constraints; perhaps someone is unable to say a quick “thanks” at that very moment and maybe it takes a few days to get back to the reviewer. I, myself, due to illness, have been unable to thank someone in a timely manner, but I always go back and state my appreciation at some point, because I feel it is the right thing to do. Even if someone is unable to thank every person
individually, I think it’s important to at least write a quick note on the poem, thanking everyone for commenting in one encompassing post. And if this is somehow inefficient, then I hope it is being accomplished via SoupMail and/or in comments back so someone.

Reading and reviewing is the lifeblood of this site, I think. Without it, The Soup would be very dull, indeed. The point I am making (and I hope my message does not get misconstrued) is that I think it’s important to be gracious, and be verbal about it. It doesn’t take long to say “thanks”. I appreciate people who appreciate their audience. I hope to never lose this sense of gratitude.

I am not picking on anyone; it’s every poet’s prerogative whether or not they feel this is an important aspect and experience of The Soup. I am not assigning blame or guilt or pointing fingers. Just because I believe it is important and imperative does not mandate or require anyone else to follow this example or practice and believe the same thing. It’s just the right thing for me, and I hope it’s also important to many of you out there as
well.

Even though I have done so individually, I want to personally thank every single person who has read and/or reviewed my work. I deeply appreciate it. I hope this blog isn’t perceived as offensive; if you find it to be such, let me apologize well in advance. Thank you for reading.



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  1. Date: 10/31/2013 11:28:00 PM
    hey, here is a blog I can totally agree with!! When I first came here, I was so intent on getting to know the site, I wrote down the names of every single person I'd commented to, just to get a feel for the place and who were the friendly ones. I think about half replied to me. It says a lot about human nature! In numerology I'm a five. That's the addictive personality that likes to have fun, and also the one most likely to thank anyone for just about anything. So a lot of it has to do with personality, my friend. That's just how it is, whether we like it or not! (not to mention, our upbringing)

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    That Archaic Poet Avatar Just That Archaic Poet Date: 11/1/2013 9:00:00 AM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    Glad that so many of you agree; thanks for reading and replying, Andrea :)
  1. Date: 10/31/2013 8:06:00 PM
    I agree, Chan...my feeling is...most of all...poets should be encouraged to "keep writing"

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    That Archaic Poet Avatar Just That Archaic Poet Date: 11/1/2013 9:00:00 AM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    Thanks for reading, Jimbo :)
  1. Date: 10/31/2013 4:55:00 PM
    Many times i leave my thanks for viewing my posts when I visit that persona 's post..cause yes of course every comment needs appreciation..I just dnt leave it in the reply box..Yes appreciation is important.

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    That Archaic Poet Avatar Just That Archaic Poet Date: 11/1/2013 8:59:00 AM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    I think so, too; thanks, Charm :)
  1. Date: 10/31/2013 1:07:00 PM
    I'm glad you're not mad at me after reading my comment. : D I was testing you, the "acidity" of my comment was on purpose. There are not many Soupers who accept the "I don't like it" ... feel free to visit my humble poems, BUT ... just to say what you dont like. : D

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    That Archaic Poet Avatar Just That Archaic Poet Date: 10/31/2013 1:22:00 PM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    Of course I'm not mad, Ruben; I can't be angry for getting what I was asking for. I appreciate what you did, and I will definitely check out your poems when I get back from grocery shopping :)
  1. Date: 10/31/2013 12:37:00 PM
    It is important to note than the only bad critique [also] is NO critique. There are comments such as I can identify with what you have written, which is nice, but won't help you become a better writer, some folks want only comments [and nice ones] and with all the folks on the site it is hard to know who's here just for fun & want only 'comments' and who's here to grow in the art of poetry & would like serious critiques. I give both & TRY to remember who wants what BUT sometimes I'm not careful enough!

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    Guzzi Avatar Debbie Guzzi Date: 10/31/2013 5:27:00 PM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    Hey a Hmmmmmmm isn't a bad thing, a hmmm usually means the content isn't clear and I'd like it to be so I could better enjoy it!
    Chircop Avatar Charmaine Chircop Date: 10/31/2013 5:14:00 PM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    Your support helps me enjoy poetry and your constructive critiszm helps me grow..You know you were one of my best haiku tutors Deborah.So for that I'm still grateful and Ruben helped me many times through poetry too..Not now of course He is very busy but am grateful for earlier times..Have a gr8 even. : )
    O. Avatar Ruben O. Date: 10/31/2013 12:56:00 PM Block poet from commenting on your poetry

    You know that I love your hmmmms. : D

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8/9/2014 Only God Knows and Time Will Tell Rhymechange,god,time,
4/3/2014 Anti-Psychotic Rhymepain,
3/22/2014 Science Friction Rhymespace,stars,
3/21/2014 An Exercise in Versatility Versepoetry,self,
3/19/2014 Pas de Deux Rhymelove,
3/18/2014 Do Not Read and Operate Heavy Machinery or Equipment Rhymedream,heart,poems,
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2/20/2014 Psychomanteum Rhymeheart,spiritual,
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