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Blog Posted:10/31/2007 2:00:00 PM

Comfort zones.

We all have them. Things, times, or events in which we do not wish to challenge with spontaniousness. We take pleasure in our comfort, knowing with an acute sense of certainity that we are "safe", in this place, or that things will get better, etc.

Personally, I have a love/hate relationship with the concept of comfort, if one can imagine that. I love the way I feel when I am in a routine mode, or knowing how relatively safe I am from harm or embarrassment or failure, yet I hate how I cling to it. I mean, it's great and all, I'm not imposing any idea that we should get rid of comfort zones, but what I'm saying here is that comfort is a crutch.

I'm also not saying we should all go insane and start sky diving and jumping off cliffs, but what I want to get across to you guys is that we need to live a little bit.

Try something different in a while, like go out to a new resturant, or vacation somewhere else other than where you usually go. Take a different route to work, take extra curricular classes (I recommend Latin Ballroom!) Update your style, etc etc. you know, live a little. Comfort is great, but trying something new and exciting is sometimes even better.

This can relate to poetry too. I know personally I really stick to my guns and write free-verse, and usually talk about the same things. But I really feel like I need to step it up and change my outlook on poetry, on my writing style. I was in a huge slump, but now I realized that perhaps all the creativity in my areas of comfort are diminishing. Then I read a whole bunch of poetry from you guys and realized how many of you are experimenting with different topics, styles, and forms.

so I guess

It's time to engage in my life, in my writing, it's time to start kicking butts and taking names.

P.s Good luck to all of you in the November contest!



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Date: 11/3/2007 7:17:00 AM
Follow your heart one thing about comfort zones they stay permenant its you that have to fulfill it with bigger dreams and hopes for a better tomorrow I cannot detach to it so I just dream biger dreams for my expectations in life great write and concept to your surroundings Bella thanks for sharing keep up the great blogs nice to see ya back
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Date: 11/1/2007 2:58:00 PM
Follow your heart dear Bella. Never ever over think yourself.If you do you will come up blank. Whatever you decide we will be here waiting to see the finished product. Love and best wishes, Carol
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Date: 11/1/2007 6:43:00 AM
Glad to see you're ready to go!1 Chaos is a blessing sometimes. I found that my most depressing moments in life came when I wasn't screaming about something or fighting some problem but was sedate and depressed. Good to see you back again. Looking forward to reading your works. God Bless. Vince
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Date: 10/31/2007 9:48:00 PM
Go for it girl! Life is one big smorgasbord. lainie
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Date: 10/31/2007 8:33:00 PM
BELLA!!!!! So great to hear your voice (so to speak). I would expect nothing less from you, you are fiery and fiesty in spirit, I just feel sorry for who ever ges in your way. I hope college is going great for you, and I look forward to reading the fruits of you "BUTT KICKING". My best to you Sweet Bella.
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4/8/2009 Blackguard Free verselove
9/1/2008 Autumn Free verseseasonsautumn,autumn,,lit
8/29/2008 Hussy Free versepassionme,
2/24/2008 Writing Letters Is a Dying Art Free verselove,on writing and words
1/3/2008 Paper Wings Free verselove,me,life,me,
12/7/2007 Grown Free verseallegory,
12/5/2007 Settling Free verselife,night,night,universe
11/28/2007 For You, For You, For You Dramatic Versedevotion,love,sad,me,love
11/28/2007 Catch This Fire Biolove,
10/31/2007 Bush(It)! Free verseparody,political,world,ha
10/12/2007 Bloom Free verseintrospection,men,stars,u
10/4/2007 For-Sake Free versefaith,urban,god,me,time,g
9/11/2007 Face Value Free verseintrospection,urban,visio
9/9/2007 Register the Mundane Biointrospection,beauty,beau
9/1/2007 Cobalt Biolife,me,day,me,sky,
8/26/2007 The Tree Free verseallegory,history,nature,p
8/20/2007 Have You Forgotten Acrostichistory,
8/19/2007 When I Love Myself Free versephilosophy,uplifting,love
8/15/2007 Kamikaze Free versesocial,urban,
8/15/2007 Poker Face Free verseallegory,love,
8/12/2007 Padre Free versefather,life,
8/8/2007 Unburdened Narrativetime,beautiful,old,water,
8/2/2007 Locks Free verseforgiveness,hope,lost lov
7/31/2007 Love Has Worn Thin Free verseurban,visionary,
7/16/2007 And the World Turns Free versepolitical,
7/11/2007 Flatline Carpe Diemsocial,time,urban,
7/2/2007 Rompecorazones Free verselost love,me,me,sleep,smi
6/26/2007 Within the Inky Pages Free versehistory,hope,inspirationa
6/24/2007 Bleeding In a Cup Free verselife,leaving,senses,
6/19/2007 Behind the Sharp Turns Free verseintrospection,passion,
6/11/2007 Visions of the Night Free versehope,inspirational,intros
5/29/2007 Inconsequential Cosmos of Us Free verseallegory,love,passion,urb
5/28/2007 Sacrilegious Free verseconfusion,faith,introspec
5/22/2007 Going Out Tonight Free verseuplifting,urban,
5/21/2007 Middle Class Free verseangst,social,urban,people
5/10/2007 Shifting of Gears Free versedevotion,hope,love,passio
5/8/2007 All American Eagle Free versehistory,passion,people,so
5/6/2007 I Await the Comfort Free verselife,universe,
4/29/2007 21st Century Victorians Free verseon writing and words,care
4/23/2007 Dance Concert Free verseart,passion,school,sorry,
4/18/2007 Anxiety Slaying Vigilante Free versedevotion,love,on work and
4/15/2007 Sacrificing Free versedaughter,loss,mother,sad,
4/12/2007 Coffee Thinker Dramatic Verseconfusion,introspection,p
4/12/2007 I See Myself In Her Free versefriendship,hope,loss,love
4/3/2007 High School Sharks Free verseeducation,life,parody,peo
4/3/2007 The Boy's Respect Free versechildhood,friendship,spor
4/2/2007 The Sweetest Drug Free verseangst,confusion,passion,d
4/1/2007 Arizona Heat Bioangst,life,sad,teen,urban
4/1/2007 I Am Not a Romantic Free versefunny,parody,people,socia
3/31/2007 Woman Concretedaughter,hope,inspiration
3/30/2007 Internal Guardian Free verseallegory,imagination,life
3/28/2007 Whitman Imitation of An Urban Mind Free versepeace,philosophy,
3/27/2007 Master Mechanic Free verseallegory,devotion,funny,p
3/26/2007 Untying of a Love Knot Biolost love,me,
3/24/2007 Burnt Sugar Bioangst,history,people,soci
3/23/2007 La Revolucionaria Acrosticinspirational,introspecti
3/21/2007 Unwritten Conversations Biointrospection,life,on wri
3/19/2007 The Pen Is Just So Much Mightier Free verseart,introspection,on writ
3/13/2007 Consciences Are Thin Free versehope,visionary,
3/13/2007 Love Lasagna Free versefamily,mother,love,
3/5/2007 Bathtub Murmuring Free verselost love,
2/28/2007 The Illusionist Free verseimagination,lost love,lov
2/25/2007 Minds Lost Are Minds Found Free verseconfusion,health,imaginat
2/23/2007 Reversals of Childish Thinking Free verseintrospection,life,people
2/23/2007 Do You Believe In My God? Free verseinspirational,introspecti
2/20/2007 Let's Drive, Shall We? Free verseconfusion,life,mystery,
2/16/2007 S L I C E D Free verselove,
2/15/2007 This Scar of Mine Concretenostalgia,
2/15/2007 Respirator Free versepeople,heart,people,heart
2/13/2007 Tick Tocking Free versefriendship,people,
2/10/2007 Re-Virginized Bioforgiveness,hope,lost lov
2/7/2007 Heal My Land Free verselife,loss,dream,dream,
2/7/2007 Excuse Me, Waitress Bioon work and working,
2/1/2007 Spanish Intuition Free verseloss,me,me,
1/31/2007 Jade Hearts Free versepassion,people,social,urb
1/30/2007 My Block Is My Own Free versenostalgia,me,universe,,we
1/30/2007 Hiphop Is Dead Personificationimagination,loss,music,no
1/28/2007 Plexiglas Free versephilosophy,social,visiona
1/28/2007 Luxury Free verseon work and working,house
1/28/2007 The End Free versedeath,death,day,death,hop
1/28/2007 Death Before Dishonor Free verseinspirational,uplifting,u
1/28/2007 Pawn Free verseloss,me,me,
1/28/2007 Poetry Free verseart,on writing and words,
1/28/2007 The Things We Do Free verseconfusion,social,time,me,
1/28/2007 Devotion Free versedevotion,loss,lost love,l
1/28/2007 Cloud Nine From a Mexican Child Free versefamily,nostalgia,
1/28/2007 Cloud Nine From An Asian Child Free versecaregiving,family,nostalg
1/28/2007 Snowflake Free versenature,science,social,
1/28/2007 Catholicity of Faith Free verseangst,confusion,faith,int
1/28/2007 Bottled Free versesocial,visionary,me,me,dr
1/28/2007 Days Dream Free versehappiness,hope,loss,nosta
1/28/2007 Check It, Check It Free versehope,loss,nostalgia,passi
1/28/2007 I Just Wanna Dance Free verseintrospection,passion,
1/28/2007 It's a Little Funny Free verselove,nostalgia,funny,beau
1/28/2007 My Secret Love Affair Free verseinspirational,love,
1/28/2007 Laughter and Karma Free verseinspirational,
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I Wish Free versedeath,friendship,introspe
Hypochristians I do not know?angst,death,life,people,p
Illegal Free versedeath,family,father,intro
Can You Hear Me? Free verseangst,faith,forgiveness,h
I Am a Large Woman I do not know?happiness,introspection,l
Judge Not. Free verseforgiveness,me,image,love
Love Is Vain I do not know?forgiveness,happiness,lif
Crow's-Feet Rhymehusband,uplifting,wife,
Monday Sans Him Bioangst,devotion,hope,life,
Devils Only Walk Straight Lines... Lyricpassion,god,me,women,chri
Sometimes Heartbroken Free verseangst,love,song-words,me,
Echoes of Yesterdays. Free versehistory,introspection,lif
Dream Me In Black and White Free verseangst,life,love,mystery,p
Castles In the Sand. Rhymephilosophy,
Friday Night Blast. Free versepeople,
Open 24-Hours Free versehistory,life,people,place
Punching Preachers Terza Rimaintrospection,people,soci
E=mc2 Light Versefunny,introspection,life,
The Kid Free versechildhood,imagination,
The Only Answer Rhymehope,love,passion,places,
Realities of Dreams Free verseimagination,introspection
Ready Or Not Rhymeallegory,angst,faith,hope
As Always, Too Late Tail-rhymeforgiveness,life,love,
Moving Lightly Free verseallegory,introspection,li
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Crawling Out From Under You Free verseconfusion,lost love,passi
I Call the Shot Senryulife,passion,
Don'T Touch Me Free versehope,imagination,introspe
Grain of Sand Rhymeintrospection,life,time,
Reinforced Free versesocial,visionary,truth,
Broken Wings Rhymelost love,song-
Night Flame Rhyme 
Specific Moment Is When He Begins To Feel I do not know? 

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