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The words I write are simple I'm as simple as they come. I'll never be the best poet But I'm an okay one! I write simple rhymes, Expressed with words understood, But I'll continue learning As every person should. So don't look to me for perfection Here it won't be found But if you enjoy simplicity You can stop looking now! :)

I am married, going on 18 years to a sweet heart of a man, Harvey. We have 2 children. Our daughter, Rosalie,is 17 years old and a blessing everyday. Our son Hunter Harvey lives with God until we meet again. He passed away at 2 months old from SIDS.

We are a happy little family living in the mountains of West Virginia. I'm a teacher by profession, an ordained non denominational Christian minister , and I love to write, play ukulele, sing, sew, craft, cook, read/ listen to audiobooks and study my Bible.

I'm originally from New Hampshire but moved here in 2002. We have one little dog, a chihuahua jack Russell mix named Sassy, a gold fish named Sushi, a female calico cat named Sookie, and 2 male cats. The oldest named Salem(he's all black), and a tiny male kitten named PorkChop or Chopper...a long haired orange and white stripe.

(I know we dropped the"S" name for the last kitten... but we are only fostering until our friend can keep him.. Otherwise we'd have named him, Sunny!;)

The LORD bless thee, and keep thee: The Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.( Numbers 6:24-26 KJV)

<3<3 xoxo Love, Crystol


Self esteem Contest:complete instructions+what it's about

Blog Posted:4/24/2025 12:10:00 PM

*Complete contest instructions are in the bold type*

In a society that applauds self esteem and preaches self confidence and self love, too often it is only encouraged because we think it's the right thing to say. In my experience, when a person does exhibit these qualities, they are maligned and whispered about behind a cupped hand.

“ She posts a lot of selfies…she is beautiful buuut…she knows it…if you know what i mean.” Wink wink.

Or “Sure, he's super good at basketball buuut… he's too cocky about it”...etc…

In my opinion, self esteem is healthy and one can still remain humble if we keep in mind that everyone deserves applause sometimes. As a mother, I try to praise my daughter's accomplishments, personality, and intellect more often than her appearance. Still, I hope to instill in her a love of self that includes being comfortable within her own body.

*With this in mind, I'd like you to ask someone close to you, a loved one, to tell you 3 of your best qualities. Write an Ode Poem about yourself that includes these 3 qualities and only explore your positive attributes… Between 10 and 30 lines. You can write it from any perspective you wish, as yourself or as if you're writing about someone else(she/he, him/her rather than I / me or vice versa.)

I realize this isn't an easy assignment to do! Most of us feel awful if we “sing our own praises”, as they say. However, we are fearfully and wonderfully made, according to the Scriptures…and made in the image and likeness of God.

We remain humble when we acknowledge our good points while giving the credit where credit is due. Our Creator, or the god of your understanding, our parents and ancestors, the education we've received, teachers and mentors who have molded us. Just remember, we each also have to work hard and apply those lessons to our lives.

I hope you enjoy this writing prompt and Contest but mostly I hope that by the end of it, you will see yourself in a new light and be proud of yourselves! As well as being aware of how you perceive others who exhibit self confidence. Xoxo, Crystol

P.S. THIS BLOG IS SIMPLY TO EXPLAIN IN AN EASIER TO USE FORMAT. TO ACTUALLY ENTER A POEM, GO TO CONTESTS AND SCROLL TO *SELF ESTEEM CONTEST* DO NOT ENTER A POEM IN COMMENTS SECTION BELOW. AFTER I POST THIS BLOG, I WILL CREATE THE CONTEST... SO IF YOU DO NOT SEE IT RIGHT AWAY, TRY AGAIN IN A FEW MINUTES. THANKS!



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Date: 4/25/2025 5:32:00 PM
It sounds interesting to me. I will certainly have a go! I will ask hubby and hear what he says about my good side. Blessings ~ TL
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Crystol Woods
Date: 4/26/2025 10:01:00 AM
Wonderful! Can't wait! Xo
Date: 4/24/2025 11:50:00 PM
He was groaning as I was twisting his arm, / Even when I assured him I meant no harm. / He muttered and spluttered; / Said something about ‘buttered’. / Then blurted out something about my infinite charm.
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Crystol Woods
Date: 4/25/2025 9:59:00 AM
Lol good one! Hope you enter! Xo
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Suzette Richards
Date: 4/24/2025 11:51:00 PM
It is an interesting concept, Crystol. Will have a look at the contest :) Sorry, I could not resist the Limerick.)
Date: 4/24/2025 1:10:00 PM
I think this is a great theme. It was done ages ago but in a different way. probably you'd get different qualities depending on who you asked!
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Crystol Woods
Date: 4/25/2025 10:01:00 AM
I'm always worried I'll create a contest that already been done but I guess that is inevitable lol. That's interesting Andrea! Ask 3 different people for qualities and see what you get!:) xo

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4/24/2025 Self Esteem Rhymebeauty,body,child,daughte
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4/22/2025 Scarlet thread Acrosticchristian,family,
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3/21/2025 Pass the TP Please Limerickfun,funny,humor,
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MISMATCH - TRI Rhymeanimal,
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