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Rylands Raves ... Rumors

Blog Posted by Ryland Matthews: 1/15/2011 2:33:00 AM

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Date: 1/17/2011 3:47:00 PM
As a former reporter, I tend to dig for the truth and not accept things friends say, especially if they are talking about others. In the X-Files Fox Mulder had two great quotes: "The truth is out there" is one and the other is "I want to believe." We can find the truth if we look hard enough, but the tendency to "want to believe" affects our perspectives on many things. You've provided insightful wisdom in this great blog, Ryland. Much to ponder here. Love, Carolyn
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Date: 1/17/2011 2:13:00 PM
Sounds like my workplace, the gossip is unbelievable,that grapevine is wild and winding, I never listen anymore, because exactly like you say, it has been modified so much, it does not even resemble the original.. when someone starts to tell me something, I hold up my hand, "sorry, do not want to hear it" and change the subject ~~
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Date: 1/16/2011 5:42:00 PM
Good blog as usual, Ryland. There will always be gossip. And let's call it what it is,sometimes half truths, at other times, deliberate "lies". I don't call it "embellishing". It's not just a story we're telling. It involves someone's reputation or life. It'd be better if you're curious about something, to ask. And it's the person's right to share with you or not to. Thanks for sharing this, Ryland. Cool! Always, Annalise P.S. Your last sentence is so profound!
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Date: 1/16/2011 2:53:00 AM
Ryland, this "Rave" of yours was like a poke in the ol'.....with a pitch fork, lol. No matter what us imperfect souls try to do, to over come this dreadful thing called "Gossip",like a sheep led to slaughter, we find ourselves in this sometimes, horrific impasse. I so agree with Andrea, "an open book" approach, to avoid being on the roasted end. And cheifly, following the Inspired words of our Creator, to avoid "Gossip" ! Great Rave dear poet ! much love, james
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Date: 1/15/2011 9:06:00 PM
i so agree with you,,, thanks,..p.d.
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Date: 1/15/2011 2:09:00 PM
Well Ryland another grand rave my friend.. human nature is just that... I believe ..go with the flow .. and all will be well ... agree with my friend Andrea.. be an open book .. and light shines luv..
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Date: 1/15/2011 12:19:00 PM
Yes, people surely love to exaggerate and change things they have heard.That is how the urban legends get spread around too. One helpful thing is to show oneself like an open book and if rumors are begun about someone, people will better be able to judge for themselves based on that person's open and sincere character he shows the world.I find very private and secretive people might be opening themselves up more to false rumors just because everyone is making guesses about them. Just a weird thought I had. LUv, Andrea PS good ideas Phyllis discussed.
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Date: 1/15/2011 10:22:00 AM
I like what you have shared with us. You are right we as humans tend embellish what we hear. Maybe it is the media who makes us do what they do. Listen to each station about something that has happened and you wouldn't think it was the same story. My son always tells me, mom you are to trusting, never take anyone at their word unless it is that person who tells you. Rumors can be destructive so we all should watch our tongues. God Bless phyl
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Date: 1/15/2011 7:39:00 AM
and thanks for sharing your thoughts, Ryland-- I always find them worth pondering about-- rumors can indeed unravel lives-- nikko :)
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Date: 1/15/2011 6:02:00 AM
Och, I thought this was about the Fleetwood Mac album. I suppose it all depends on what the rumour/s is/are about. It can be so many things, sometimes you have to intercept the situation with your own thoughts....:)
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