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they body shame they spew hate posts dipped in virulent venom vehemence for the voluptuous crazy mad about the curves mocking the well stocked where do they get all the hate wait!!! they manufacture it burning off calories they work themselves into hate hysteria zero sized is no prize what makes thin, in? Beauty goes through phases women through their crazes must fit the body type that's the hype fashion famished emaciated models thigh gap miles wide poking bones they can't hide unhealthy unwell they send the fat ones to hell well.... big booty bullies think they'll get away with what they write with what they say they have no shame lame...they're so lame!! haters will hate to give a damn? it's too late! Beauty isn't a size it's in what you see with your eyes the beauty within is not limited to fat or to thin it's the size of your heart so shut up and get smart Listen to this big girl Take a bow, take a twirl Sexy unbound to size GET WIZE! Be Body Beauty Brave Silence the Shamers Give them a smile knowing what you do about BARE truth: Better to have thick thighs than thick sick minds.... Eileen Manassian I follow Tess Holliday on Instagram and Facebook. I love that woman. It really angers me what haters write to her. Her message is simple: Big woman have the right to feel beautiful too. Plain and simple. Haters...move on!

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Richard Lamoureux

Date: 8/30/2019 4:53:00 PM

6341 views! Impressive. This piece resonates with a lot of readers.

Ronald A. Williams

Date: 8/19/2017 9:56:00 PM

No shame to your game.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 8/20/2017 1:13:00 AM

Thank you, Ronald. Glad you could pass by.

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 4/14/2016 10:04:00 AM

Some great comments here Eileen! This one really resonates with people!!! Hugs Rick.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 8/20/2017 1:16:00 AM

I'm glad it does, Richard. I was worried that maybe I was shaming thin people. I haven't received negative vibes on that, so I guess it's ok. Hugs

Suzanne Delaney

Date: 4/7/2016 4:23:00 PM

Dear Eileen: The world would be so boring if we all looked the same size . Plastic, narcissistic people. What is the advantage of being a perfect size ten if you are vain and self interested. What about the beauty that comes from within.....that is what shines on the faces and exudes from our body language no matter what size. Love you girlfriend.....SuZ

Eileen Manassian
Date: 8/20/2017 1:15:00 AM

Thanks for this awesome comment, Suz. Don't know why I haven't responded till now. I'm touched by the beauty of your words. Sending hugs.

Paul Callus

Date: 4/3/2016 2:33:00 PM

I am glad you have had several lovely comments on this 'slam' poem, Eileen. Sorry I took so long to come visit! I hate it when people make fun of others, especially regarding appearance. Looks and size are not everything...there is much more to a woman (and a man!). Great end stanza:) ~ hugs // paul

Timothy Hicks

Date: 3/29/2016 10:25:00 PM

Sure is a lot of spunk here ... and a great message to share. Beauty standards have changed quite a bit over the years. I remember seeing a 50s poster that literally said, "Put on a few extra pounds for your man." ... can't imagine seeing that today! And Marilyn Monroe? She's considered one of the most beautiful woman, but also would be overweight by today's standards.

Timothy Hicks
Date: 3/29/2016 10:31:00 PM

... it can swing the opposite way though! There's a difference between being a bit on the large side, and being obese to the point it's unhealthy (thigh gaps ... that's just ridiculous though)

Rajat Kanti Chakrabarty

Date: 3/29/2016 12:28:00 PM

Beauty is only skin deep my darling> Good write.

Poet Tacito

Date: 3/26/2016 2:57:00 PM

I love women of all shapes & sizes, but most preferably...their great personalities. I read on things like this more often than should be allowed. This is refreshingly powerful.

Mama Bear

Date: 3/25/2016 4:55:00 PM

We of above average size have more of us to love and our hearts are bigger than the skinny ones who have no heart. NEVER let anyone criticize your size You are beautiful inside and out and that makes them hate what they can not be. We need to love who we are because God never makes a mistake. Hugs to you and love Edith

Richard Lamoureux
Date: 4/14/2016 10:03:00 AM

Amen to that mom! You are one of the best huggers ever!!

Bl Devnath

Date: 3/21/2016 12:46:00 PM

Beauty is in heart not in size, beautiful pen. Clear 7 i feel. Loved always my lovely friend, bl

White Sage

Date: 3/19/2016 4:40:00 AM

wow! how great, well, if any is to open his/her mouth about me, i will gladly appreciate it, it proves that they can hate or like me, but am always bubbling in their mind....excellent take Eileen, superb

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/20/2016 11:38:00 PM

Hello, dear. Thanks for stopping by. I'm sorry it has taken me some time to respond. I've been busy with my husband's return from a long trip. Hope all is well. I appreciate the visit and comments. Hugs

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 3/18/2016 8:10:00 AM

Dropping by to say hi. Just got home last night. I now have three days to enjoy. Hugs Rick.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/20/2016 11:39:00 PM

:) I enjoy your every visit, Richard. Hugs

Rob Carmack

Date: 3/17/2016 6:59:00 PM

When I was 17, I dated a girl that weighed 98 lbs. Sure it was fun to lift her in midair during those friendly times, but like your poem says, you see every bone. Plus, when I hugged her, it was like hugging a five foot seven pencil. To me, a woman is the most beautiful and sexy when she has some extra. I liked your poem.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/20/2016 11:40:00 PM

:) :) :) What a lovely comment. I have extra...and then some! Oh well...At some point perhaps I will need to get myself back in shape. Being a pillow is good for so long. ;) Blessings.

Laura Breidenthal

Date: 3/17/2016 6:51:00 AM

Those last two lines say it all. I love your spirit, Eileen. I like how you take an issue with society and call the bullies out. It's bold and brave, big and beautiful, smart and attractive. Always, Laura

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:38:00 PM

Bullies have no business bullying others, Laura. They do it because there is something terribly wrong with them. They do it out of pain born of their own insecurities. It really upsets me. Big women are beautiful women, no matter what society says. :) Thanks for the kind visit, dear.

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 3/16/2016 10:41:00 PM

Goodnight Eileen.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:39:00 PM

Richard....I was late to answer, but when I read the post...I smiled. It's morning where you are now. Have a good day, dear.

Anne-Lise Andresen

Date: 3/16/2016 5:51:00 AM

- Too big - too small - Too thick - too thin - For sweet - too sour - In love calculation : 2 + 2 is 4 !!! - The heart speaks in many languages, a wonderful poem dear Eileen - hugs // Anne-Lise :)

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:40:00 PM

Thanks, Sunshine. Sorry I'm late to answer. :) You have the right attitude. Just be happy! Bless you. Hugs

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 3/16/2016 12:00:00 AM

She is gorgeous as are you. This would be a good companion piece with my Figment poem. Well done Eileen. I'm late to the party today but I did manage to write one this evening.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:41:00 PM

I'm late to answer, dear, but better late than never! :) Thank you for seeing me as beautiful. It does my heart worlds of good. Blessings.

Richard D Seal

Date: 3/15/2016 8:24:00 PM

mmmmmmmmmmmm you are gorgeous mwahhhhhhh

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:41:00 PM

Blush blush blush...thanks thanks thanks

Nette Onclaud

Date: 3/15/2016 9:33:00 AM

that media hype about what a perfect figure should be is degrading to women... beautiful poem for all females who enjoy how they look, eileen... huggs

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:44:00 PM

Thanks, Nette. I appreciate the visit. People in Lebanon are very...critical. They are very into appearances. It's hard to be a woman of size here. :( The choice of clothing is limited. Not only that....but plastic surgery is rampant here. Woman are always striving for the PERFECT look. How can they keep pushing themselves to these impossible ideals, I will never know. Thanks for the visit, dear.

Wilma Neels

Date: 3/15/2016 6:50:00 AM

Eileen, unfortunately society are brainwashed by what is popular but in the end all that has no meaning because when its all stripped away your heart and soul that's all that matters. This is an awesome poem - hugs Wilma

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:50:00 PM

That is the truth, my dear...Gospel truth, if I might add. Yes, you are right, Wilma. Wish all people would take what you say to heart. Thanks for the visit. Hugs

Tom Quigley

Date: 3/14/2016 10:47:00 PM

Awesome! Feel it!! I'm working on a poem re our (youngest) 7 y.o. daughter's recent complaints about the size of her legs. Heartbreaking that it starts so young. :-/

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:54:00 PM

OH...that is so so sad. I know. Peer pressure starts at a very early age. Wanting to look a certain way is what causes a lot of girls to become bulimic and anorexic. I hope you can give your child all the support she needs. I was so worried at some point that my daughter would succumb to some sort of eating disorder. So far...she's doing Ok. Thank God.

Daniel Turner

Date: 3/14/2016 9:44:00 PM

Haters gotta hate. Personally, I prefer a woman with a few speed bumps. LOL. I'm not going to cliche' you. Anybody that has life inside knows beauty resides in the heart. Peace my sweet friend:)

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:51:00 PM

OH...speed bumps are nice, eh? :) Thanks. Thank you, Daniel. A much appreciate visit. Hugs

John Lawless

Date: 3/14/2016 8:38:00 PM

As Little Red Riding Hood said "Grandma, what BIG eyes you have. Eileen, I wrote a poem some time ago regarding the perceptions of our interpretations of people. The last line reads "when I don't see them.....will I then be able to see them." Love this poem and its sentiments.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/17/2016 2:52:00 PM

Thank you, John. Can you give me the link to your poem so I could give it a read. I'd love to. I've been carrying this burden with me for some time. I'm glad others can relate to my feelings on the issue. Hugs

Tim Smith

Date: 3/14/2016 7:47:00 PM

Beauty isn't a size it's in what you see with your eyes....perfect lines....be happy in your own skin Eileen...when some one is happy their beauty just radiates.

Eileen Manassian
Date: 3/14/2016 8:02:00 PM

Yes, dear...I'm upset for her. Today some troll posted a pic of her face on Ursula's body(seawitch from Disney's Little Mermaid), with a thought bubble that showed she only has Mac Donalds on her mind. She's pregnant as some other person wrote..I HOPE YOU DON'T EAT YOUR BABY. I don't understand this level of hate. It's beyond me. Why it's it so hard to live and let live. Anyway...thanks for your lovely comment. Hugs