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Making Friends

The twisted emotions of fear and apprehension of a new friendship, Sometimes causes surging emotions initially. Rejection and hope may both try to control your emotions, As they flow through you and your heartbeat increases. Life is too short to cower and avoid risk, Cease the moment, give it a chance to begin. A smile and hello freely given, Begs for acceptance and cordial reply. Hey, how are you doing? The seeds are planted, Fate may now give growth or death to a new friendship.

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Regina Elliott

Date: 11/5/2023 7:54:00 AM

Hi Bill, this great poem speaks to me. My daughter is encouraging me to join the senior citizens center in town. So I'll be giving that a try soon. I'm an introverted person, but I need to go. Have a lovely day. ~

Bill Baker
Date: 11/5/2023 10:22:00 AM

Sara and I go on day trips through our Senior Center. They can be a nice change of scenery, and even a little fun sometimes. I'd encourage you to give it a try, Regina. Sara and I are a bit introvertish as we age. I was quite the extrovert, most of my life. Thanks for the nice visit, feel free to Soup Mail either of us if you'd like to chat a little. From the two of us, Bill & Sara

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 9/5/2023 4:05:00 PM

The title got me here. I like these sentiments. I think it’s well worth the risk.

Bill Baker
Date: 9/5/2023 5:15:00 PM

Me too, Richard. Especially as we age and grow older. Friends make life worth living IMHO. Thanks for the visit and comments on my poetry, my friend. Happy days! Bill

Lisa Ricci

Date: 8/30/2023 3:14:00 AM

Hi. Bill. Good Morning. This is good advice for anyone young or old. Interacting and taking chances with making connections is never wrong. Its also a good reminder to take chances on other aspects of life as well. Have a great morning and day. May today be a wonderful day. Peace and Blessings now and always. (smile)

Bill Baker
Date: 8/30/2023 7:25:00 AM

So glad to see you back, Lisa. I hope your visit went well my dear friend. As you mentioned, we need to take chances / opportunities in all areas of our lives. Have a blessed day! Hugs, Bill

Kim Rodrigues

Date: 8/27/2023 7:39:00 AM

Two souls meet and hello! God bless you, Bill! Lovely poem!

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:46:00 PM

As lonely as many are in the world we live in; it doesn't take much to plant a seed. Smiles ~ Blessings, Kim. Bill

Ink Empress

Date: 8/27/2023 7:38:00 AM

I personally have fear or maybe fear of trusting anyone to get too close as a friend, but still, i end up letting many in, sometimes it is due to our past experiences or our environment that puts such fears within us: but like your words here, life is precious , and fears can destroy many great things that can happen so shall we always remind ourselves to take it easy: very heartfelt and wise poem: so sincerely woven : enjoyed reading this

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:56:00 PM

My openness and naivety were costly in both my youth and in adulthood, but I still think to joy of share moments with others is worth the cost. Fortunately, the abuses I've suffered through have helped me to be a more understanding and forgiving person, as I age. Thanks for the visit and comments, Ink, may your days bring joy to yourself and those you care about. Bill

Aurore Severo

Date: 8/26/2023 11:03:00 PM

I found this a very insightful and creative take on the topic, lovely poem.

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:44:00 PM

Thanks for a first visit, Aurore. I'll visit your poetry soon and hope to see your smiling face here often. A poet friend to be in Texas, Bill

Darlene De Beaulieu

Date: 8/26/2023 4:12:00 PM

Hello Bill, I like this poem. Friendship sometimes to grow. It took me several moths when I lived in a town. to make friends with a neighbour across from me. So some friendships take time to grow. My poet friend enjoy your evening. /Darlene\

Darlene De Beaulieu
Date: 8/28/2023 11:35:00 AM

Hello Bill, you are welcome my poet friend. Hugs.\ Darlene/

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:42:00 PM

Thanks for the comment, my friend Darlene. I appreciate the time you give to read and comment on so many of my poems. Hugs, Bill

Speaks Volumes

Date: 8/26/2023 3:37:00 PM

Bill your words are so true. A friendship is like a plant. It needs to ne nourished and nurtured, and if it grows and blooms you will have a real friend. Wonderful words Bill .. I love it SV

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:41:00 PM

Thanks for the mindful comments, SV. Have a great week! Bill

Sotto Poet

Date: 8/26/2023 3:36:00 PM

Bill, your talent as a poet is undeniable, as you have the remarkable ability to weave together words that evoke profound emotions and ignite the imagination. Your poem is not merely a collection of verses, but a portal into a world where emotions run freely and hearts beat in harmony. Your insight resonates deeply within me, for I too have experienced the hindrance of fear when it comes to forging meaningful relationships. It is a delightful piece that captures the essence of human connection.

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:40:00 PM

Thank you for the thoughtful comments to my poetry, my friend, and thank you for sharing your personal experiences with me when they align with my poetry. You are a dear friend. Bill

Sara Etgen-Baker

Date: 8/26/2023 3:20:00 PM

A delightful and well-constructed poem, dearest Bill. You're right, sometimes I allow my fear to get in the way of establishing any relationship. I timidly go, sometimes. I especially like the line, "rejection and hope" try to control our emotions. Wise words, my poet bear. Well done! your eastside writing bear

Bill Baker
Date: 8/27/2023 2:38:00 PM

Thanks for you unrelenting support, Sara. I know I'll always get at least one comment on my posted poetry. :-) You're the best! Bill

Anne-Lise Andresen

Date: 8/26/2023 1:59:00 PM

- "Life is too short to cower and avoid risk" ... plant many seeds...I'm sure they will grow...a lovely poem, Bill :) - hugs

Bill Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 2:01:00 PM

Thanks for the visit and comments, Anne-Lise. Have a great weekend, my friend! Bill

Vijay Pandit

Date: 8/26/2023 1:07:00 PM

Endearing thoughts Bill. Enjoyed the solemn voice of your poem.

Bill Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 2:05:00 PM

Thanks, Vijay, a little different for me, but variety is the spice of live ... I've heard. :-) I hope all is well my friend. Bill

Jay Narain

Date: 8/26/2023 11:23:00 AM

Friendship starts with breaking the ice. Nice poem.

Bill Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 2:05:00 PM

Thanks for your comment, Jay. I agree with you, my friend. Bill

Paul Callus

Date: 8/26/2023 10:11:00 AM

Hi Bill; it is not hard making friends once the initial uncertainties have been overcome. ~ Best regards, my friend // paul

Bill Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 2:03:00 PM

I agree, my friend. Thanks for the visit and comment, Paul. Have a great weekend! Bill

Hiya Sharma

Date: 8/26/2023 8:42:00 AM

You're truly a deep soul who reflects upon life with myriad perspectives and interpretations! I'm in awe of the introspective, thoughtful and self-reflective emotions here, which restrain us from taking the risk and flowing with the energies aligned by the universe, either because of fear of rejection flowing in our heartbeats or due to the terrified hope that ceases to emerge. I definitely loved reading this piece and your words of wisdom, always a pleasure reading your brilliant writes!

Sara Etgen-Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 3:22:00 PM

I agree with your assessment, Hiya, of my hubby, Bill. He's a deep, caring soul with so many words to share--bits of wisdom. I'm blessed to be sharing my days with him. Thanks for your kind comments. Sara Etgen-Baker

Bill Baker
Date: 8/26/2023 9:16:00 AM

Thank you, Hiya for your thoughtful and encouraging comments to my poetry. Many times, we miss out when opportunity presents itself, because of fear of rejections and lack of self-confidence. Life is full of risk and everything living is changing; we need to learn to adjust and embrace changes and others we encounter. Poetry Soup has been blessed by your presence here. Smiles ~ Blessings, my friend. Bill