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A daddy on his daughter's wedding day... to paraphrase the famous author, "it was the best of days, it was the worst of days" yes, my dear daughter, it was both of these. It was the most natural of acts imaginable: a father giving away his beloved daughter to his beloved son-in-law to become one in holy matrimony. It was a circle-of-life moment - first, your adoring mother bringing a baby girl into the world; now, celebrating the moment our fully grown daughter crosses the threshold into a loving marriage of her own. It was possibly the hardest thing this father has ever been called upon to do - not because you weren't ready... not because your young man wasn't worthy... simply because. It was the reminder that life is a one-way ticket. The very arrival of this long-anticipated day means the delightful journey you and he and your mother and I all took is forever behind us. No matter how much we may wish for it, there is simply no return flight to yesterday. But, do I believe in you and your husband and tomorrow and next month and the year after next? I do.

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Date: 6/17/2020 8:13:00 AM
This one really struck a chord as I have a daughter who is engaged to be married in January. I appreciate the sentiments and applaud the artistic work of the construction of the poetry. It visually conveys to me a whirlwind, which is descriptive I'm certain of the emotions we Dad's all feel on our daughter's wedding day.
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Date: 6/15/2020 3:31:00 PM
wow she was sure a beauty on her wedding day. I am sure she is still a beauty today! a poem to treasure. For HER to treasure as well. I like how the ending word was the same as what is said in a marriage vow! By the way, my husband would never have felt this way as you wrote feeling. Sadly he did not get really close with our two kids. We did not enjoy our daughter's first husband choice and we told her, and we guessed right on that one!! Both Joe and I were just happy for our birdies to nest!
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Date: 6/16/2020 1:21:00 AM
Aww, thanks for the kind words about my lovely daughter! One birdy has flown, one to go! Appreciate the support my good friend.
Date: 6/14/2020 12:06:00 PM
Beautifully done, the father-daughter relationship as well as the poem, John--congrats!
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Date: 6/14/2020 1:19:00 PM
Thank you LJ, it was nice to relive the memories as I wrote this. Glad you came by for a visit ~ John
Date: 6/14/2020 7:11:00 AM
Dear John, What a lovely picture of a father's mind on a very special day in the journey of life! It reminded me of my father and how he was feeling the day I got married! We had a very strong connection! Thank you for penning this excellent poem. God bless you and your loving family, Mala
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Date: 6/14/2020 1:19:00 PM
Thank you for the generous words and blessings, my poetry friend! I'm glad it brought back pleasant memories to you of your father and your wedding day. This day was certainly a highlight in my life! ~ John
Date: 6/13/2020 11:21:00 PM
Lovely, lovely! … The picture too is heartwarming … From a father who wasn't able to 'give his daughter away' (due to the damage a divorce can do), I am very, very happy for you! Cheers, Gershon
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Date: 6/14/2020 1:11:00 AM
Thank you, Gershon, that is very generous of you. I'm a very blessed man.
Date: 6/13/2020 9:18:00 AM
I Know how a father feels when he gives his treasured daughter to another man - if father and son in law love each other and get on that's marvelous, if not, fathers have a gut feeling. My marriage broke up. I didn't date for years as my son came first.Then, Elias my darling husband phoned me - we had gone out together in our early twenties - he proposed and were married 6 months later - married 20 years now, unfortunately my father had in the meantime died Excellent poem John Hugs Jenny.
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Date: 6/14/2020 1:12:00 AM
Jenny, I always love the personal touches you put in your comments. Thank you for that, and for reading my words with such generous eyes. I happy to hear about your marriage of 20 years, congratulations ~ John
Date: 6/12/2020 3:33:00 PM
Congratulations. What a special poem for this special moment in time. It reached me deeply. Well done :)
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Date: 6/12/2020 5:36:00 PM
Oh, thank you so much Heidi. Very nice to hear from you today ~ John
Date: 6/12/2020 1:23:00 PM
When a young woman leaves her parents to embark on a new life, it can be hard to make adjustments. I can tell your daughter has found a wonderful man and I wish them decades of joy. John, my cousin in NJ is supposed to wed Aug. 15. We're waiting to see if the restaurants can open by then. I'm glad current events didn't interrupt your daughter's wedding day. Beautifully penned. Hugs, Carolyn
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Date: 6/12/2020 1:39:00 PM
So many wedding plans have been disrupted this year. I do hope your cousin is able to have a dream wedding come August. Thank you for your ever so thoughtful words, Carolyn and I wish you all the best. Hugs ~ John
Date: 6/12/2020 7:38:00 AM
I rejoice with you with what you shared. God is good in letting us experience this great life cycle, blessed by His grace so we can share it with others. God bless you.
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Date: 6/12/2020 9:15:00 AM
Beata, thank you for your uplifting and edifying message and for your blessing. God is indeed good. ~ John
Date: 6/12/2020 12:57:00 AM
Wow! You and your daughter are shining in that photo and this poem is no less, time does fly fast and it's a point of no return. But on the way, we make some beautiful memories, which are here to stay:)
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Date: 6/12/2020 1:38:00 AM
Amen to all of your words, dear Jo. It was a wonderful day. The temporary sadness of 'losing a daughter' has been more than supplanted by seeing the fullness of her joy as a married woman. Mixed emotions at the passing of time, but truly I am blessed. Thanks for the lovely visit ~ John
Date: 6/11/2020 11:29:00 PM
What a beautiful picture and you and daughter shine as does your lovely poem I am sure she will cherish. It is very difficult to let our children fly away because of missing them so. I loved your precious sentiments in this special poem! Congratulations on her wedding. Blessings xxoo
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Date: 6/12/2020 12:50:00 AM
Connie, you always say the nicest things, my dear. Thank you for coming to visit my memories of a very special day in my daughter's life (and mine too). Thank you for the blessings and congrats, and your always uplifting spirit. Hugs ~ John
Date: 6/11/2020 6:51:00 PM
You have really tugged my heartstrings with your beautiful poem, John. You should definitely frame it for your daughter if you haven't already. You have managed to capture the feelings of all dads on their daughter's wedding day. Sadly, my dad passed away two years before my wedding, but I had my brother give me away, and he even filled in for the father, daughter dance. It was special, and I know my dad was there in spirit...I love the picture, too. :) Blessings, Rhonda xx
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Date: 6/12/2020 12:35:00 AM
Rhonda, thank you so much for your lovely sentiments. This was actually on page 1 of a book I made for her called 'Giving Away My Daughter' with pictures, memories, poems, and prayers after her wedding was over. I'm sorry about the timing of your dad's passing, but your brother filled in gallantly and lovingly. Blessings to you ~ John
Date: 6/11/2020 5:09:00 PM
Great photo. Your daughter is gorgeous. I’m glad she found a good guy. I like the warmth of this piece. Blessings to them both.
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Date: 6/11/2020 5:21:00 PM
Thank you, friend. Very kind of you to say. We are blesses in many ways. Sometimes God has to gently take something good away from you in order to give you something even better. Blessings, John
Date: 6/11/2020 3:01:00 PM
Thank you for sharing these personal, beautifully expressed thoughts with us, John and what a beautiful picture. I'm intrigued to know the significance of the flags? on the tree. My husband and I will go through this mixture of emotions this August at a much reduced wedding ceremony for our daughter.
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Date: 6/11/2020 4:34:00 PM
Thank you for your wonderful visit and kind words, Wendy. There must be a lot of emotions you and your husband and especially your daughter are going through in the coming months. I trust you are all growing closer as the big transition approaches. The flags on the oak tree were just decorations, no significance. ~ John
Date: 6/11/2020 8:54:00 AM
I am so happy I read this. Thank you for writing this beautiful poem John! I could feel the dilemma of parting and blessed happiness as I read your words. Memories of my own wedding from last year and my parents' emotions raced through my mind. Your daughter is gorgeous. Both of you look so happy. Blessings to your family dear friend :)
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Date: 6/11/2020 4:30:00 PM
I'm glad this made you happy, Aditi. I hope I didn't overstate the sadness of the day, it really was a wonderful day and my wife and I are so blessed to live nearby our daughter and son-in-law and enjoy them immensely. It was just the hardship of moving out of a phase of life that had been a very pleasant one. Thank you for the thoughtful words and for sharing about your own wedding memories. ~ John
Date: 6/10/2020 10:58:00 PM
Brings back memories of when my own father walked me down the aisle - really love the melancholy of 'no return flights to yesterday' but the looking forward imbues with hope - and that 'I do' brings it full circle so meaningfully - beautiful, John!
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Date: 6/11/2020 3:05:00 AM
So glad this could evoke a nice memory for you. I do so appreciate your thoughtful comment, Michelle.
Date: 6/10/2020 8:20:00 PM
love the picture and the poem... it's hard watching them grow up and go out on their own... it's hard knowing their childhood innocence is gone and they are now adults... we wonder where the time went... great write John! hugs
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Date: 6/10/2020 10:19:00 PM
Thanks Sandy. Yep, it is hard letting go. Thankfully my daughter and her hubby live here in town!
Date: 6/10/2020 6:12:00 PM
A beautiful verse John, you look so proud and your daughter looks so happy Tom
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Date: 6/10/2020 6:56:00 PM
Thank you Tom. It was indeed a very special day for both of us. Warmest regards, John

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