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To My Dearest Children - Potd

Dear Children,

I can only give you a deep love that lasts
The span of my lifetime, nothing less.
On a quotidian basis, you will feel 
The warmth of my embrace.
You will inevitably make mistakes,
And it's okay to make them. 
You learn and grow from them.
They make you a better human being.
Never be wounded by constructive criticism;
Welcome it, give it to others when warranted..
They also help people learn and grow.
Don't be defined by your shortcomings,  
You're human because of them.
Trouble me with your troubles, anytime.
Yes, my dear children, you can talk to me 
About anything, and I mean anything!
I promise always to be emotionally available,
To tell you uncomfortable truths about life, 
To be of comfort to you when you feel pain,
To dry every tear I see you cry,
To help push you to the summit 
Of the highest mountain,
To help you reach the pinnacle 
Of any dream you may dream,
To do my best in explaining the confusing,
To protect you from harm of any kind.
Never be less than who you truly are.
Shine your light in this word, my dear child.
Always strive to do your level best.
Always trust your instincts,
And faithfully follow it; never question it!
Always treat people with respect and dignity.
Waste no time with toxic people 
That want to bring you down.
Waste no time dwelling on conditions
beyond your control; God is always at the helm.
Practice patience, it's really a virtue. 
Believe in God and say your prayers, always.
It costs absolutely nothing to be 
A good person. It gets you far in life.

Copyright © Edward Ibeh | Year Posted 2023

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Valsa George Date: 9/26/2023 9:24:00 PM I missed seeing this gem as POTD. This is an invaluable credo of behavior. How I wish this to be read by every child. I feel we are almost alike in our thinking. This is more or less the same advice, I give to my children not at a stretch, but in piecemeal and I am confident that they rise upto my expectations. Belated Congratulations on your well deserved POTD, dear Edward Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/27/2023 2:13:00 AM Thank you very much for the awesome feedback and congratulations, Valsa:-) Most obliged.

Kim Rodrigues Date: 9/13/2023 7:17:00 PM Congratulations on POTD, Edward! Trouble me with your troubles, anytime. Yes, my dear children, you can talk to me About anything, and I mean anything! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/15/2023 9:45:00 AM Thank you very much for the visit and congratulations, Kim:-)

Hiya Sharma Date: 9/9/2023 7:33:00 PM God is always at the helm.. What a profound and heart-touching this is which reflects as the perfect and the most evocative letter to the children.. You've incorporated truths of life, words of wisdom and care in your beautifully crafted lines.. Truly wonderful! Heartiest congratulations on the well-deserved POTD! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/15/2023 9:44:00 AM Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congratulations, Hiya:-)

Deb M Date: 9/8/2023 7:25:00 AM How very beautiful Edward a poem full of love and wisdom for your children! Congratulations on POTD…lDebx Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/15/2023 9:43:00 AM Thank you very much, Deb M:-)

Sotto Poet Date: 9/7/2023 5:48:00 AM Edward, that is truly remarkable advice to impart upon your children, and I strongly believe that every parent should take heed of it. I must extend my sincerest congratulations to you for receiving such a prestigious honor as the "POTD" Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 10:24:00 AM Thank you very much for the feedback, visit and congratulations, Lasaad:-) It's always great to hear from you, my friend.

Panagiota Romios Date: 9/7/2023 4:27:00 AM Late on congratulations on your POTD! Great work! Pangie xx Login to Reply Panagiota Romios Date: 9/7/2023 5:39:00 AM Edward, how generous of you! Thank yo GoodNight, Pangie Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:10:00 AM Nah, it's never too late for a visit, my friend. Thank you very much, Pangie:-)

Tom Cunningham Date: 9/7/2023 12:34:00 AM That's great advice to give your children Edward and that every parent should take note of. Congratulations to you on the honour of POTD Tom Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:10:00 AM Thank you very much, Tom:-)

Sally Eslinger Date: 9/7/2023 12:18:00 AM Congratulations on your potd. After my 1st read, i think i commented that i agreed & wanted our boys to read this & have for their kids…that it should be copied to fb for easy sharing. I’m a tech nitwit but i can try to do that if no one else can, ?? Tremedous Love throughout this poem! Thank you! My hugs, sally Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:12:00 AM Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congrats, Sally:-) I'm glad this poem resonated with you, my friend.

Akkina Downing Date: 9/6/2023 7:20:00 PM Wise words comes from a loving parent. Great poem, Edward, and congratulations on POTD. :) Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:13:00 AM Thank you very much indeed, Akkina:-:)

Brandy Nicole Date: 9/6/2023 6:36:00 PM Dear Edward, while this thought holds so much truth, I'm curling it deeply around my heart. "It costs absolutely nothing to be a good person." The world would be a better place indeed, if they read your letter and practiced every word within. This is beautiful and uplifting. You are an amazing, friend, poet and father. Congratulations, on Poem of the Day. Many wonderful blessings to you. :) Hugs, Brandy Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:14:00 AM Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback, the congratulations, the compliments and visit, Brandy:-) Most appreciated, my friend.

Darlene De Beaulieu Date: 9/6/2023 4:22:00 PM Hello Edward, This is good advice for your children. I sense you are a father to your children. Congratulations on the POTD Also I am making this my fav. God bless. /Darlene\ Login to Reply Darlene De Beaulieu Date: 9/7/2023 11:40:00 AM Hello Edward, you are welcome my friend. Your welcome for the fav. Blessings my friend. /Darlene\ Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:16:00 AM Thank you very much for the lovely visit, comment and fave, Darlene:-) It's always a delight to hear from you, my friend.

Tania Kitchin Date: 9/6/2023 1:57:00 PM Ed, a sweet poem, congratulations on POTD! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:14:00 AM Thank you so much, Tania:-)

Arlo Parker Date: 9/6/2023 1:02:00 PM POTD to be sure! Enchanting. :-) Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:18:00 AM Thank you very much, Arlo:-)

Beryl Edmonds Date: 9/6/2023 11:40:00 AM Edward I read this with tears in my eyes, what a wonderful poetic guide for your children to follow all of their lives. No doubt you are the kindest father anyone could wish for, your children are truly blessed. Congratulations on receiving the honour of poem of the day… Belle Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:20:00 AM Thank you very much indeed, Belle:-) I'm glad this poem resonated with you, my friend.

Mike Gentile Date: 9/6/2023 11:18:00 AM Edward, congratulations on your POTD honors, for this wonderful and heartfelt write! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:20:00 AM Thank you very much, Mike:-) Most appreciated.

Constance La France Date: 9/6/2023 10:49:00 AM Edward, such a beautifully penned poem and congratulations on receiving the deserving POEM OF THE DAY honor Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:19:00 AM Thank you so much, Constance:-) Most obliged, my friend.

Bill Baker Date: 9/6/2023 9:06:00 AM Wise words to share with those you love and have brought into this world, Edward. Congratulations on your POTD honor, my friend! Thanks for sharing. Bill Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/7/2023 5:21:00 AM Thank you for the wonderful feedback and congrats, Bill:-)

Paula Goldsmith Date: 9/6/2023 8:45:00 AM Congratulations on your POTD win. A lovely write. Wonderful ending. Have a blessed/great day............ Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 12:59:00 PM Thank you very much, Paula:-)

Linda Alice Fowler Date: 9/6/2023 7:53:00 AM What lovely advice wrapped exquisitely. Congratulations Edward! :) Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:56:00 AM Thank you very much, Linda:-)

Vijay Pandit Date: 9/6/2023 7:00:00 AM Back with BIG congrats on POTD, Edward. Enjoy your special day, my friend. Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:49:00 AM Thanks again , Vijay:-) Your unwavering support means a great deal to me, my friend.

Malabika Ray Choudhury Date: 9/6/2023 6:34:00 AM Congratulations, Edward, on your POTD poem. You have penned a beautiful poetic piece with all the advice children, yours and mine - all need to hear. You are not only a great poet, you are an exemplary father! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:47:00 AM Thank you very much for the congratulations, compliment and visit, Malabika'-)

Janice Canerdy Date: 9/6/2023 6:25:00 AM What a wonderful, moving poem~~ inclusive of SO much all young people need to hear from their parents. CONGRATS, Edward! Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:48:00 AM Thank you very much, Janice:-)

Ink Empress Date: 9/6/2023 6:04:00 AM “Waste no time on dwelling on conditions” what a beautiful and wise advice amongst many other, that you’ve penned here so seamlessly. Congratulations on POTD. Well deserved Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:51:00 AM Thank you very much, Ink:-) It's always a delight to hear from you, my friend.

Heidi Sands Date: 9/6/2023 5:36:00 AM Congratulations for POTD Edward.! Enjoy :) Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 7:50:00 AM Thanks again, dear Heidi:-) Most obliged.

Jan Allison Date: 9/6/2023 4:22:00 AM Many congrats on POTD Edward, I hope your new arrival will love this (when they are older) as much as i do:-) a big fave:-) hugs Jan xx Login to Reply Edward Ibeh Date: 9/6/2023 5:16:00 AM Thank very much for the congrats, well-wishes and fave, Jan:-)

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