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Thinking of Dad

Well, I guess I’m finally that cranky old Slow Poke: the one who does 25 in a 35—the one who rolls up his driver’s window, when you pull alongside with your rock-n-roll blaring. The one who always signals the same direction whether turning right or left. The one who keeps the kid’s ball when it flies in his front yard attacking the roses--he talks to them, and God alone can decipher their colorful language. But the one who also limps from an old war injury, the reason why we are not all speaking German, and high stepping in Bone-crushing boots. No Rockettes do I speak of. No smiles from that merciless Chorus Line. He was also the generation who dropped the bomb--the big one-- and had lived 50 years with that fateful decision. “It was the right thing to do… them or us” repeated through the decades of nightmares. War is something most young people only write songs about—protest against... smoke a joint and have a beer afterwards…. While brave young men and women leave limbs on the battlefield to protect the right for so many to be thankless fools….

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Date: 6/2/2020 1:50:00 AM
I dare say the "thankless fools" part reminds me of the Viet Nam War; for as a nation we were so disrespectful for those who served and lost their limbs and lives. So totally true. Well done.
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Joe Dimino
Date: 6/3/2020 9:33:00 AM
Will we ever learn?--I lament. I am no fan of war...but, I have a Vietnamese friend, now living in this country, with two children in college who will tell you it was worth it. Though a high price for all. Perhaps too high for some. I get it.
Date: 5/16/2020 12:03:00 PM
Your thoughtful, intelligent (means I agree!) and sensitive writing expresses so much of the folly of life in which we miss the chance, in youth, to learn from and value the experience of an earlier generation. Perhaps it will always be so, but maybe some younger ones will learn from such effective writing as this. Well done, Joe.
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Joe Dimino
Date: 5/18/2020 12:41:00 PM
Hi Geoffrey; thank you for the continued support. We can only hope they do. But much of what we learn in life we feel a need to experience firsthand. Seems to be the way, regardless of the perils. Blessings my friend!
Date: 5/13/2020 10:49:00 AM
A great tribute to your Dad and the courage he had, Joe! I am impressed with this and making it a FAV! I know you will not mind.)) Like you, in many ways, as I age, I get to be more like my parents. Isn't life wonderful? Oh, in San Francisco, they spit on men in uniform! Sad and ignorant. Call them Nanes, too! Panagiota xxoo
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Joe Dimino
Date: 5/13/2020 1:53:00 PM
Hi Panagiota; thank you. Amazing how smart our parents become when we get older. Or how stupid and trivial we realize we are. My father was a lifelong Democrat. He would be shocked to see the Anti American slim buckets his party has become. You would hope we had learned something over the past 2000 years. Going back to square one instead.

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