Get Your Premium Membership

Real Men Cry

It’s been drummed into our heads, ever since we were little males: Boyz to Men don’t cry But Jesus wept Seeing my grandmothers crying at night, sitting on their beds, made me feel so sad and helpless inside I wanted to wipe the tears away from their damp, moist eyes Why they were crying was a mystery to me, all they ever did was make me feel happy Society said a man had to be strong, show no weakness, no wet display from pain Keep intact his macho respect But, I would come to learn real men do cry: Even the bravest man ever, Jesus wept As an older man, I now better understand why people cry Not always necessarily from physical pain, it’s deep emotional hurt that prompts the tears So many scars on the soul, from so many falls suffered over the years Disappointments, unrequited love ... Acts of hurting others, bereavements and such These are some of the reasons why real men cry, watering the bed where sorrows slept I’m not ashamed nor deny that I often cry, for I was taught: Even the only man without sin, Jesus wept

Copyright © | Year Posted 2017




Post Comments

Poetrysoup is an environment of encouragement and growth so only provide specific positive comments that indicate what you appreciate about the poem.

Please Login to post a comment

Date: 7/24/2017 12:05:00 PM
Hi Freddie, I totally agree with your well written verse. Real men do cry. It takes one comfortable in his own skin to do so. Because he is not concerned with other folk ( society's ) opinion of him. Well done my friend:-) Alexis
Login to Reply
Date: 7/24/2017 8:05:00 AM
Every man should read this. The pain or trauma needs to exit the body some way. Better to be expressed through tears instead of aggression. Well expressed Freddie.
Login to Reply
Date: 7/24/2017 5:40:00 AM
Oh yes we do Freddie. Nuff said.
Login to Reply
Date: 7/24/2017 1:08:00 AM
There is no shame whatsoever in crying Freddie, in fact I have the greatest respect for the ones who do, provided of course there is a valid reason for doing so. Fake crocodile tears wont cut it though, like politicians sometimes do to get the votes. I love your poetic style,and I like the fact that you are manly enough to admit your New Age Sensitive Nature.....Maria
Login to Reply
Date: 7/23/2017 5:01:00 PM
A sad, but beautiful poem, Freddie; such valid points. Emotional scars never seem to stop hurting. I've known people who've spend a lifetime in therapy and still cry in their sleep. Well penned.
Login to Reply
Date: 7/23/2017 1:55:00 PM
I loved this poem. This is so true Freddie. Real Men do cry! You put this together so well. :)
Login to Reply
Date: 7/23/2017 10:29:00 AM
I've always thought it takes more strength for a man not to be afraid of showing his tears of emotion then to try holding them back...or not feeling enough to shed a tear. Good one, Freddie. There is no shame in crying.
Login to Reply

Book: Shattered Sighs