Mama Was 35

Yes, she was widowed at a very young age. Mother was only 35 when daddy passed away. Not only was she a widow, but a mother of 12; and 11 of those were still minors at home with her. She didn't sit and cry, but dug deeper and tried harder. Mother was neither a worrier nor a pessimist. I tell you, mother was both a realist and an optimist. She was not a religious fanatic; but she believed in God. I will always remember that mother taught us The Lord's Prayer. After our father passed, there were relatives who offered to take some of her kids to their home and help mother to raise us. Knowing that raising us alone would be tough, she appreciated the help. But declining their offer, mother said no, insisting on keeping all of our family together. Remembering some horror stories about siblings being torn apart, I'm grateful. Mother made lots of bold decisions after daddy died. Keeping us all together was one giant of a move. I'm proud of her for having done so. On this Mother's Day, I'm missing Mama, and remembering just one of her many bold moves. 05132017cjPS