It Cannot Be Helped

You want for the crawls and climbs,
sublimes and lemons.

Let the kid run, helplessly,
so he or she strives
for the unreachable star.

“Stop growing!” a mother hollers.
A father has their bags packed.

Shikata Ga Nai, the wise say.

Mother must cry when separated
by the wibble-wabble of time.

Dad must harumph over remnants,
tricycles and toys in garage and attics,
shed tears behind dry eyes.

Most children fall
into another’s arms
and mother must cry.

Shikata Ga Nai cannot be denied.

The silence of empty nest and eventual death.
The middle years of hugs from kids of kids.

Kids calling through the ether,
wondering why their kid must keep growing taller.

You want to tell the secret, but must hint
at the eventuality -
reality it seems,

Shikata Ga Nai -
don’t deny the truth.

Shikata Ga Nai - It cannot be helped.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2024

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November 10, 2024 at 11:51 AM
Thank you for writing for my contest and congratulations on your placement.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 10, 2024 at 12:37 PM
Thank you! I enjoyed!
Hind Avatar
November 8, 2024 at 6:33 PM
This seems really sageful and full of experience, dear Kim. <3
Rodrigues Avatar
November 10, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Thanks, Paige!
George Avatar
November 3, 2024 at 7:15 PM
As time speeds away, children grow up and fly away leaving empty nests behind. It can't be helped. A great entry for the contest. All the best, Kim.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 4, 2024 at 5:41 AM
Thank you, Valsa!
Kovrlija Avatar
November 3, 2024 at 9:05 AM
Great poem!
Rodrigues Avatar
November 3, 2024 at 11:11 AM
Thanks, Vesna!
Manassian Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 3:44 PM
Hard to accept the little ones aren't little anymore. I tell my 30 year old daughter, "You'll always be my baby." Empty nest is hard to deal with. You've brought that to light so well with this piece. Thank you for your visits to my page.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 4:51 PM
I could tell my 40 year old kids but they’d have none of it…lol. I have 2 grown grands, 2 teens and 2 tweens. Watching them grow all too fast. Blessings and thanks!
Buehler Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 3:38 PM
The bittersweet time of children moving out, is well described in this beautiful poem. Well done, Kim!
Rodrigues Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 4:49 PM
Thank you, dear friend!
Cunningham Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 10:33 AM
Great entry for the contest Kim, sadly time marches on and stops for no one. Tom
Rodrigues Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 2:47 PM
We must use ou time wisely! Thank you, Tom!
Lane Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 7:58 AM
Often we say, "If only we could slow down time so we could keep our little ones with us longer," but Shikata Ga Nai. A very good write, Kim.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 2, 2024 at 8:37 AM
Thank you, Lin!
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