Empty Nester

I never thought that I would be a mom,
you were an unexpected surprise.
I fell in love with you instantly my child,
My nurturing womb was your first home.

You alone were my absolute everything,
I enjoyed watching you grow up.
But the years seemed to go by super-fast, 
and I am extremely sad you have gone away. 
I love your dad, but I miss you so very much,
he gets on my nerves and makes me so mad.

Your father is loving and so supportive and all
but nothing seems to work,  I think I need help.
Maybe I need to go see a psychiatrist.
Without you my darling I don't seem to exist.

I stay in my bedroom for hours at a time.
I used to be active in the house and chores,
but my to-do list is blank, nothing is on it.
Things around the house are in disarray.

I prepared you very well to go off to college,
But I didn’t prepare myself for when you did.
Your dad tries to cheer me up constantly,
but his efforts are useless and I am in a dark pit. 

I have an appointment to see a shrink next week,
Maybe then I'll find ways to cope without you.
I heard about empty nesters, but I never thought 
in my wildest dreams that would be me.

Copyright © | Year Posted 2023



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Date: 5/4/2023 10:37:00 AM
I hope just a write and not your life, but the empty nest is a hard period on the parents especially the mom. Most of them are going to be okay and will make it just fine on their own. Enjoy a new hobby, a little time to spend for yourself, and get up and get out. Thanks for sharing this one and for dropping by my page. Sara
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Date: 5/4/2023 6:37:00 AM
Though, I have not shared your experience Alexis, Feel for the struggles that you are enduring at this time of your life and wish you well for learning how to cope!!
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Date: 5/3/2023 9:32:00 PM
You choice to get some help with the transition, Alexis. It can be very unsettling and hard to work through. You can do it. I'm praying for you and your family as you adjust. A poet friend in Texas, Bill
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Date: 5/3/2023 9:11:00 PM
Children who have been part and parcel of our life grow up in the blink of an eye and they fly off the nest, leaving the parents feel miserable, especially the mother. I can so well relate to your feeling Alexis. Now I too am an empty nester, but trying my level best to cope with the situation. All the best dear friend.
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Date: 5/3/2023 4:49:00 PM
They grow up so quickly! Perhaps there will be grandchildren to provide much comfort and joy. Blessings :)
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Date: 5/3/2023 1:33:00 PM
WOW!!! What a sad yet wonderful write/story. With kids, one day comes the empty nest day. We are just like the birds. They fly away to their own life. We did to our parents. Be happy not sad with your new life. I also wrote on this. Have a great day.............
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Date: 5/3/2023 1:17:00 PM
Alexis, your nest may be empty but your heart is full of love for your son and husband too. May that love keep you going and glowing, remember your son’s dad will be missing him too. Keep the home warm and inviting, it’s still your love nest and your son will be coming back regularly to the folk he loves best… Belle :)
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Date: 5/3/2023 1:04:00 PM
Wonderfully depicted the travails of empty nesters. Highly emotive write, Alexis--you speak for many with this heartfelt poem.
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Date: 5/3/2023 12:43:00 PM
Alexis, it's extremely difficult when children mature up and abandon their parents. Their absence has undeniably left something vacant in our daily routines.
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Date: 5/3/2023 11:16:00 AM
- So true, the years go by super-fast ... suddenly the nest is empty ... lovely written, Alexis :) - hugs
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Date: 5/3/2023 11:05:00 AM
Too quickly they go from crawl to run. I share your thoughts, Alexis.
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Date: 5/3/2023 10:57:00 AM
It's always a sad time Alexis when your kids grow up and venture out to the big wide world, they certainly leave a void in your life. Tom
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