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People often read things into a small gestureor expression on someone's face when they shoudn't. Often whatever you're thinking THEY are thinking is going on ONLY IN  YOUR OWN MIND. So when you tell them they are staring they look up and say," I AM ? AT WHAT?"            Or you say, "you're jealous of her."  And they say, "I am? I didn't know that. Glad you told me."   Or you say, "You look so wistful. This song must remind you of happier times when you were with HIIIMMMMM." And they say ,"Not really. There is no HIIMMMM. I just like this song."          Give a person a break.     Take things at face value once in awhile and don't read underlying messages into innocent things, words or expressions. If someone has a blank stare maybe they just happened to take a trip without leaving the room. They aren't mad at all.                               In short, don't try to put YOUR thoughts in someone else's head. It's like trying to wear someone else's shoes. Most often they don't fit so good.

You stir your iced tea over long, The sugar just won't melt, And someone thinks you're trying, To draw attention to yourself. You're listening to music, Relaxing with some friends, And someone says this song must make, You think of some love's end. You're concentrating on some task; Just work, no time to brood, But sure as shootin' someone thinks, You're in some kind of mood. You sit alone, relaxing, A blank look on your face. You're told you gave a dirty look, And you're put in your place. Again your mind's on something, That requires some thought, And someone's talking to you, But your answer isn't caught. You're told that you are rude and crude, Anti-social to the max, Though you tried to be polite, Show patience though it lacked. The preconceived impression, One may have of someone else, Was probably concocted, In one's mind and nowhere else. Just because one may misread, An unconscious gesture, Or an expression on a face, It's all one's own conjecture. You think you know somebody. You think you know them well. Where you got that impression, No tongue on earth can tell.

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Date: 10/4/2019 9:55:00 PM
This was an outstanding poem. Loved it. Misunderstood...and thinking what someone else is thinking? might be thinking or have thought, or will think, or......... Ouch...that hurt. Love it... I said that but I really meant it. Ann
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/8/2019 12:16:00 PM
Thank you so much Ann. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/4/2019 12:47:00 AM
Great poem Judy - difficult to interpret the thoughts of others and think as they think - it would be good if we were like Mel Gibson with Helen Hunt in the film 'what women want' Mel Gibson has an accident and is able to read her mind and the minds of all other women. A very thought provoked poem. Great work Judy. Hugs Jennifer.
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/8/2019 12:13:00 PM
Thank you so much Jennifer. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/3/2019 10:16:00 PM
I think in most cases I am perceptive but it is good to take pause. I enjoyed your poem. Hugs Rick.
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/8/2019 12:10:00 PM
Thank you so much Richard. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/3/2019 1:59:00 PM
I fear I'm guilty of misinterpretations, but am trying not to judge people. We can't know what another person is feeling because it's impossible for us to step into their life. Patience must be taken to understand. Very compelling verse, Judy! Hugs, Carolyn
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/3/2019 3:34:00 PM
Thank you so much Carolyn. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/3/2019 9:18:00 AM
The preconceived impression, One may have of someone else, Was probably concocted, In one's mind and nowhere else. /. A proverb on its own! I enjoyed this so much...
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/3/2019 3:29:00 PM
Thank you so much P.S. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/3/2019 4:56:00 AM
- Much truth in your words, Judy :) - I prefer my own shoes ... they are not new ... but are good enough to go with :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
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Date: 10/2/2019 9:21:00 PM
This is oh, so true. I remember during my first marriage this was the case so many times. We were young and both of us put our own thoughts onto the other. This poem sums it up perfectly. You did a wonderful job with this one. God bless you, my friend
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/3/2019 3:07:00 PM
Thanks so much Regina. God Bless, JB
Date: 10/2/2019 4:51:00 PM
You wrapped this one up perfectly! Aloha! Rico
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Judy Ball
Date: 10/3/2019 3:00:00 PM
Thank you so much Rico. God Bless, JB

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