Notes About The Poem

People are people watchers and they love to point their fingers at everything and everybody. Why is something I don't know. They like to make themselves look smart and in the know. They like to make others look "NOT LIKe US".  They like TO HAVE SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT. And they don't care who they have to hurt to do it. If there isn't a good soap opera on T.V. they will create one right here. They like to be entertaining. They like the spotlight.  The best thing to do with people this is not to give them any ammunition. And remember to try hard not to be like that yourself because people like that never have any real friends of their own. Remember the three wise monkeys:  HEAR NO EVIL, SEE NO EVIL, SPEAK NO EVIL.

Who Goes There, Friend Or Foe

Some folks like to think the worst,
'Cause it's more entertaining;
And they spread those thoughts about,
Your reputation staining;

Because you happened to be seen,
In one place or another,
And not knowing 'bout your busness there,
They began to wonder.

What were you doing there and then,
And who was that you're with,
And rush to put the question out,
Telling kin and kith.

Next thing you know you're on the outs.
Your character's in question.
No one wants to tell you why,
And you learn a hard lesson.

Old friends you thought you knew so well,
And were as thick as theives,
Their friendship now grows icey cold,
And fall as Autumn leaves;

Because someone said they saw you here,
Or there or some such other,
And questioned what you were about,
For some reason or another.

Be careful what you do and say,
And pick your friends with care,
'Cause people make assumptions,
And they just love to share,

The things they think are going on,
Most oft just in their minds.
A real friend just won't listen.
A real friend's hard to find.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2021

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Wolf Avatar
February 24, 2021 at 6:21 PM
A good friend's harder to find than a good 5-cent cigar from Havana, Cuba, drat it!... Maybe that's why we have to wear masks. Maybe there's a big message there. :) gw
Horne Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 11:56 AM
such words of wisdom & truth here, my friend
Ball Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 2:22 PM
Thanks so much Jack. God Bless, JB
Balasubramanian Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 3:32 AM
I prefer to be interovert. People sit talk about others. So much waste of time and it's mostly negative. Better not to tell anything to anyone it will spread. You are right. Another wonderful write Judy. God bless! Take care, Rama
Ball Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 2:47 PM
Thanks so much Rama. God Bless, JB
Buhagiar Avatar
February 22, 2021 at 11:03 PM
Silence is gold. I never gossip on other people. I lost some friends because of that. It does not matter. They were not friends. ~~
Ball Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 2:31 PM
Thanks bunches Victor. If you lose a friend because you won't gossip then you haven't lost anything. Any time a gossip tells you some "news" just remember, when you aren't there they probably talk about you. God Bless, JB
Romios Avatar
February 22, 2021 at 4:18 PM
Judy, don't be disappointed in people.)) We are all human machines, our minds never shut up. We all are constantly judging and evaluating each other. Even people we really don't know. A real friend likes you tbe way you are with all your good and bad points, Listening is an art few have. Mostly people talk but do not listen. Pangie xx
Ball Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 2:52 PM
Right you are Pangie. Thanks bunches, God Bless, JB
Dietrich Avatar
February 22, 2021 at 2:58 PM
yes, it disappoints me when old friendships grow cold. I hardly ever initiate this kind of thing and so I know only too well what you speak of!!
Ball Avatar
February 23, 2021 at 2:56 PM
Thanks bunches Andrea. God Bless, JB
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