Washing and Drying Up


Each night after the evening meal
there was never a discussion
as to who would wash the dishes
and who would do the drying up.
My mother was the washer,
my sister and I did the drying up.

Hot steam would rise from the sink 
before plates were plunged
deep in foam and scrubbed
with a brush - we would wait,
tea towel in hand to pounce
on the first plates to come out,
rinsed and white - 
dishes were easier to dry 
than heavy pots
and fiddly knives and forks.

It was a time for talk, for laughs
and sometimes snuffled back tears -
everyday life lived within the space 
of our touching elbows. 
I can still feel the tea towel 
in my hand wet and warm 
with those blessed memories.

Seventy years on, I bend down
and load the racks of a dishwasher
with soiled tableware from
the evening meal.  Its quiet whirr
will fill the winter silence
and play a soulless ditty when 
the washing and drying up
is done.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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Lane Avatar
June 10, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Nostalgic moments from our childhood days are pleasant thoughts that bring smiles to our lips and perhaps a bit of a melancholy mood. You've shared yours so realistically by telling of the feel of the tea towel, warm and wet. That's a talent that few have to recreate a scene so clearly.
Willason Avatar
June 10, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Always like mining what I can of the past, present and sometimes the future, to discover the meaningful, encourage the muse to whisper in my ear. Fortunately it comes, at times, with a little, special detail that makes it jump. Thankyou my dear friend for your ongoing encouragement...it matters.
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