The Marriage Rule

Living in a society with high and grounded morals
I chose to break the rule and be single
Scandalous! For a girl
After all, the religious laws I do follow do be clear

A girl shall be seen as a sinner and shall be denied Heaven
If she chooses not to serve faithfully and submissively, her husband
But a rule I broke, the familial
When I did impose my choice to keep on being single

Why, mind you, even as a single, I do engage not in the taboo
I do love my religion, I do believe in it blindly
I do love the promises it offers, the promises of liberation
Of it keeping track of our actions for they do bear reactions

But I do wish to assert my individuality
I do wish to be acknowledged as a lover of poetry
Of stories and of words
In my duty, I do wish to even make my voice heard

Pray, getting married out of love is for me impossible
Love, once, on my heart beats did trample
Getting married would be out of compulsion
A mere consequence of a societal regulation

But should I please this society
Should I forsake my free time, should I sacrifice myself
Should I, out of compulsion, serve a man and bear him children
And let it all engrave on my body, scars, meant to remain?
Copyright © | Year Posted 2016

Poem

Post Comments

Poetrysoup is an environment of encouragement and growth so only provide specific positive comments that indicate what you appreciate about the poem. Negative comments will result your account being banned.

Please Login to post a comment

U.D Palawon  Avatar
August 13, 2016 at 10:39 AM
Hi, Congrats on your win with this wonderful words. It is a motivating for so many girls who choose to keep their individuality. It demands indeed courage to do this in our society! :D Well done. Sunita
Gangabissoon Avatar
August 13, 2016 at 11:04 AM
Thks Sunita :)
Chansarkar Avatar
August 12, 2016 at 9:01 AM
Yes marriage must be a choice not a rule!I love your take on this one Anoucheka!
Gangabissoon Avatar
August 13, 2016 at 11:04 AM
thks Sara :)
Woods    Avatar
July 22, 2016 at 3:54 PM
You should live your own life and not that of someone else's choosing. Our only obligation to society is that of right and wrong (do not murder, steal etc) after that your first priority is you. Marriage is a great convention only if both serve one another. If it's not your thing then don't. Be a symbol of individuality. Thanks for the thinking work out this morning. : )
Gangabissoon Avatar
July 23, 2016 at 2:29 AM
Great words Mark, Thks for dropping by :) Have a nice day :)
Get a Premium Membership
Turn off ads, get more exposure for your poetry, and get more features with a Premium Membership.
Book: Diverse Voices: The Poetry of Human Rights and the Pursuit of Peace