Paternal Love

What i always wanted in life Was an ideal dad One who cared about family happiness And could cheer us up when were sad. I always wanted a kind man, one who’s patient And to him his family meant the world I wanted a man to validate me By telling me i was a good girl. I wanted a man who’s discipline Was never angry or severe But a type of discipline That would encourage good conduct when we are far or near. I wanted a man to tell me happy stories And tuck me into bed A man who always told me he loved me And kissed me on the head I still long to be hugged, kissed, and squeezed But i don’t’ expect my future mate to blow my nose whenever i sneeze. My childhood was a mess And i had a dysfunctional family It is the mighty hand of god That has come in and set me free. It is not fair to ask my future husband To treat me like a child But if expects to love him back He must be meek and mild. My future mate cannot play that role Or undo the damage that has been done But Jesus, my adoptive dad can fill this void And through him my victory has already been won.