Not Your Valentine

I told him I’m not sure I want to marry
He threw a tantrum like a child
Why are black women like this he asked
But the reasons are as deep as the Nile 

You played and played away your youth
Had women like a litter of cocoa kittens
Then you near fifty and see the truth
You’re alone and need maid for kitchen

You had women who wanted you young
To grow old and hold then procreate
Now you’ve wasted your souls fools gold
You wish to marry before it’s too late

Perhaps I have not included true love
I wonder if this still is your m.o. 
But you haven’t said or showed enough
To make me think that it is so

When I was young I made my bed
As a single mom I had to lay in it
Time went on as my days like red
Roses with thorns skin sun kissed

I think I never met my mate so
Sorry if that you don’t understand
I really am rather content to know
There’s a God who will hold my hand

You are here and I am there
We really aren’t on the same page
Even if you came here dear
I’d only have to say to your face

That poetry is my constant companion 
From youth until my mature years
I don’t think you could mahogany manage
The depth of my years fears tears

I have tried to be a friend to you
Perhaps more in my emerald mind 
But it seems you ignored the truth 
I am not yours to find valentine
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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Romios Avatar
February 8, 2025 at 11:49 AM
I Agree with Hilda. Men come with some strange baggage, dont they though! Be you,! Forget the crazy men, that try to own or destroy you. They smile like Cheshire cats, .some of these cats are out to destroy you with their own pathetic senses of zero worth. You will always triumph! Pangie xx
Jones Avatar
February 8, 2025 at 1:07 PM
Hugs Pangie!
Wolf Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 9:48 PM
I hear that your 'Not-Valentine' can pick up a personal robot who will do the 'maid-thing' for him -- as well as be a loyal lover --- for a cool $175K. Need the link?! ~ King of Kink (Actually, I'm not kidding about the robot and the price).
Jones Avatar
February 8, 2025 at 1:06 PM
No sir I don’t need the link! lol oh my!
Greenhough Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 8:23 PM
I've heard of this. The story of an aging man who needs. Needs care, needs money, needs a maid and companion. When there is no love, it won't work. I smile to read this story.
Jones Avatar
February 8, 2025 at 1:05 PM
Hugs I wish him well but I’m not the one!
Rolland Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 3:08 AM
make the things clear for him, hope he will understand this time. nice reading for all men
Jones Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Thanks Yann!
M  Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 2:23 AM
Wow Karen....a well written and honest poem or 'Dear John Letter' hehe!! Wise move....Debx
Jones Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 4:32 AM
Thanks Deb! No easy way to let him down. He is stubborn!
Bangalee Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 1:16 AM
Pure friendship is the perfect loving seed of Valentine. It's great to read your Valentine poem.
Jones Avatar
February 3, 2025 at 1:35 AM
Thank you Mahtab!
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