Grandma

She measured only five foot tall,
With her stooped shoulders, even shorter.
Towered over by her strapping son,
My mother and each other daughter.
Grandma came from sturdy stock. 
On her own strength, she relied
To raise her five young children,
After my grandpa died.

Mother was only six years old,
She could barely remember when
Her daddy died of consumption.
That’s what they called it then.  
There was no such thing as welfare,
So Grandma was left alone,
To find a way that she could raise 
Her family on her own.

Opportunities for women
Before the First World War
Were almost non-existent.
The wolf was at their door.
So my grandma took in washing, 
Ironing and clothes to mend.
The enormity of her labors,
I can’t even comprehend.

I have pictures of her and her family,
All so neatly dressed
In crisp white dresses and starched shirt,
Attired in their Sunday best.
Did her children know her sacrifice,
How this woman had to strive
To see they were fed and sheltered,
And to keep them all alive?

My memories of my grandma,
Are when she was old and alone.
She was frail and ill but managed 
To face life on her own.
She had her little garden,
And planted by the moon.
She bragged that no one in the town
Was eating fresh peas so soon.

I never heard her grumble
About her difficult life 
Or that she had been a widow
Much longer than a wife.
My grandma had the steely will,
That has made this nation grow.
Without her kind, we wouldn’t have
The ease that we now know.

So when ever the days are rainy
And I’m feeling sorry for myself,
I start to remember Grandma, 
Take her album from the shelf.
Surrounded by life’s luxuries
Of the kind she never knew,
I wonder at my grandma,
And the way she battled through.

She barely knew of radio,
And  would have been enchanted
With television and its wonders,
Which we take so much for granted.
Grandma was a true pioneer.
Her road was long and rough.
Her granddaughter should be ashamed.
To claim she has it tough.

I salute you Grandma and love you.
I was  proud to call you Gram.
And no one needs to tell me that
You were of sterner stuff than I am.



Debbie:  Perhaps we could have another category such as  "Provider"





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Deschler Avatar
February 10, 2014 at 2:47 PM
My Grandma had nine children to take care of, and she had to do it all by herself. I could not imagine how tough that must have been. I still don't know how she managed it. I really enjoyed this heartfelt poem, Joyce! It brought back some good memories for me. Congratulations on your win, as well! :)
Mehta Avatar
February 9, 2014 at 7:37 AM
Very interesting theme and nice take on it. congrats on the win, joyce
Bauer Avatar
February 8, 2014 at 7:10 PM
you've really done your grandma proud with this touching poem about her. you've covered all the bases here in a very delightful way - bravo!
Jerden Avatar
February 8, 2014 at 9:17 AM
Great story, Joyce! I see you went back to the archives for this one. Congratulations.
Kayode Avatar
February 7, 2014 at 12:23 AM
Congrats Joyce on your winning with this good one. Up Joyce,up Saehawk.
Grisetti Avatar
May 9, 2012 at 12:21 PM
Congratulations.
Williams Avatar
May 9, 2012 at 11:29 AM
Joyce congrats on your win..David
Brown Avatar
May 7, 2012 at 12:51 PM
Congratulations on your placement in the "Tell us of Women" contest Joyce. Love, Carol
Quigley Avatar
May 7, 2012 at 8:36 AM
A beautiful tribute to your grandmother Joyce. Well done
Dietrich Avatar
May 5, 2012 at 9:11 PM
Excellent portrayal of this goodly and sturdy woman, Joyce. You come from good stock. This one seems familiar to me. Have you written of your grandma before?
Dillard Avatar
May 1, 2012 at 5:21 PM
I'm sure you share that same tough blood that fights to provide and loves with tenderness. Thanks for sharing this story about your Gram. RAY
Horne Avatar
April 29, 2012 at 11:46 AM
Awww, this is such a beautiful tribute to your grandma, joyce. many congrats on your wins too, my friend
Andresen Avatar
April 28, 2012 at 10:11 AM
Beautifull poem you have written abot your Grandma, Joyce!!!!!!!!!! - oxox love from Anne-Lise
Ekpemandu Avatar
April 27, 2012 at 2:24 PM
nice piece dear....
Johnson Avatar
April 27, 2012 at 1:10 PM
WOW!!! What a phenomenal woman she must have been!!!! GREAT DEDICATION THIS WONDERFUL POEM IS!!!!!
Guzzi Avatar
April 27, 2012 at 9:16 AM
Hi Joyce..what a person she was!! Your Gran! The point is woman are so much more than the virgin mother whore architypes Abrahamic faiths have put them in and you certainly have shown us this! Light & Love
Bauer Avatar
April 27, 2012 at 9:03 AM
this is a beautiful tribute to your grandmother. you've painted a very vivid picture of her that does her proud.
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