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"You matter," she said. Those two words. I had been feeling really down of late, like a worm that isn't even worthy of becoming bait. "Listen," I argued, "There are eight billion people on this planet, why should I matter? There are a gazillion stars in the universe, why should I matter?" I explained to her the principle of entropy, that everything tends toward chaos and death, so why should I matter? She needed to understand that I was born without fanfare and that my death will go virtually unnoticed by the world. I matter? Nonsense. The implication is that each person is important, that they have something to contribute, that life has meaning. "Bah," I said. I went on to remind her that millions are hungry in this world. Why? That wars have sent untold innocents to an early grave. That politicians, religious leaders, business tycoons and entertainment czars really don't give a rat's patootie about us. Or me. And then she said something that blew me away and obliterated all of my so-called logical and intelligent responses. She said, "Listen buster, as long as I live and breathe, you matter. As long as there is a God in heaven, you matter. As long as you are loved by even one sentient creature on this planet, you matter. So don't you ever tell me again that you don't." Whew! Point taken. I matter? Maybe we all do. What a novel thought. I might even grow to believe it.

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Date: 12/1/2023 7:58:00 AM
Thank you for reminding me that I am not alone. Sometimes I really struggle with that.
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Tom Woody
Date: 12/1/2023 8:16:00 AM
We all do Levi, even when we're surrounded by people
Date: 10/30/2023 12:30:00 AM
I liked your Narrative, Tom, I also relate to the questioning of our existence from time to time, but I've come to realize that it's not a matter of do we matter in our own minds; it's a matter of do we matter to others. Like she said in your poem, you mattered to her, so you do matter. Likewise, we all matter; it's just not the way we think we do, it's the way they think we do. You matter to me, my friend. Have a great week! Bill
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Tom Woody
Date: 11/12/2023 12:55:00 PM
Very kind Bill. Thx
Date: 9/20/2023 8:51:00 AM
Me too... I believe... Well done... Ann
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/30/2023 4:51:00 PM
Thanks Annie
Date: 9/13/2023 11:46:00 PM
We all matter. The things we do and say have ripple effects out into the world. Both the positive and the negative. We influence, teach, warn and intrigue. I assure you, you matter. There is gravity to what you say. It has impact to those that you interact with. You change their tragectories in life with your words and your actions.
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/14/2023 5:19:00 AM
It's always the goal, to have an impact in some way. Thx Susan
Date: 9/12/2023 10:44:00 PM
The matter..Well?? That matters.' Whats the Matter again.? Well Love..! But its not one you Can grab, Love just is.' As is hate, part of the Fallen state.. only Love ovecomes all.!
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/13/2023 5:24:00 AM
Love does indeed Joe
Date: 9/8/2023 9:46:00 PM
How she has infused life into you with her strong convictions and her positive philosophy on life. Each of us matters to at least a few in the world and all matter so dearly to God ! Each one however insignificant he may seem is created with a definite purpose. When we realize this, a new insight comes into us and our life begins to matter to many more. Lovely thoughts. Thanks for sharing Tom.
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/9/2023 5:51:00 AM
Thanks for your insightful comment Valsa
Date: 9/5/2023 2:30:00 PM
Cogito ergo sum...I think can be paraphrased to say "I matter". The reason may never be revealed in our lifetime...but...
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/5/2023 2:48:00 PM
Thx Jim
Date: 9/3/2023 3:39:00 PM
A "bird's-eye" view of "Entropy" and the "Order"; the "material" of which it's made. Why should any single thing or combination thereof within that process be valued more than any other? These choices are a reflection of 'who-you-are' but not 'what-you-are'. "Beyond thoughts of Good & Evil, there is a field. I'll meet you there". - Rumi
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Robert Warlov
Date: 9/3/2023 6:16:00 PM
Thanks friend!
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/3/2023 4:26:00 PM
Excellent comment
Date: 9/3/2023 2:15:00 AM
Oh wow, this is such a creatively spun, artistic and thought-provoking write, hued with different tones of wisdom.. I love how intellectually you've carved this brilliant narrative, it evokes so many emotions in my heart.. Well, I must quote how you've written the 'entropy' part, it made me laugh a lil because I just completed my high school and am a science student, so having studied different concepts in Thermodynamics, that fact hits strongly haha. Talking on the emotions part, this moved me!
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/3/2023 5:41:00 AM
Thanks Hiya this did pretty well on Insta too. Guess it strikes a chord. You're a beautiful soul
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Hiya Sharma
Date: 9/3/2023 2:17:00 AM
Especially those ending lines.. Absolutely brilliant.. "As long as you're loved by even one sentient creature on this planet" That made me somewhere emotional, this is so heartfelt and deep.. An absolutely phenomenal narrative!
Date: 9/1/2023 7:40:00 PM
You matter, I matter, we’re all matter. Because He loves us, wether we believe it or being ignorant. And I’m very much HAPPY you listened to her :) Great write, Tommy.
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/2/2023 5:47:00 AM
So glad you came back
Date: 9/1/2023 11:48:00 AM
My friend, we all matter. Question is what do we do with that ? If we are kind and help others we matter more. We are blessed if we do that. Good begets good, just like evil begets evil. We walk a straight path towards the light, we are ok. Love- yes if we love we matter even more. God bless you, great poem!
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/1/2023 1:41:00 PM
Love makes all the difference in the world. Without it we shrivel
Date: 9/1/2023 10:37:00 AM
This is quite touching and I see signs of wisdom here from you in your philosophical perspective.. when we are alone, God is always by our side..Nice to see you posting and not getting harassed
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Silent One
Date: 9/1/2023 1:41:00 PM
Cats are very loyal
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/1/2023 1:40:00 PM
God and the cat. Thx SO
Date: 9/1/2023 6:20:00 AM
“A single rose, my garden, a single person my world.” This quote by Leo Buscalia says it all. I enjoyed your introspective piece. It matters so therefore by extension you do as well.
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Tom Woody
Date: 9/1/2023 6:51:00 AM
That's very kind. Thx Richard
Date: 8/31/2023 6:09:00 PM
We do all matter, we should and only when we realize that we do, can we start giving others the best of ourselves, and let them feel like they matter too. Pay it forward Tom, let someone else feel like you did when she told you you mattered, enjoyed this awakened moment of grace :)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 6:30:00 PM
Yes, paying it forward is so important. I'm with ya Rose
Date: 8/31/2023 3:53:00 PM
Tom, you are also a poet-part of the collective unconscuios creative! I have been working lately on two poems similarly themed. For some reason, this question bothered me even before i was 10…i clearly recall announcing to my grandma, “If you make one person smile, your life is worth living.” Spread the joy, the love. Your poem here inspires that response!
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 6:29:00 PM
I feel a happy song coming on... Thx Sally
Date: 8/31/2023 2:17:00 PM
sometimes in living our day-to-day lives we can forget our own significance. I guess we can all ponder our own significance at times, doubting ourselves and who we are or what we contribute. Yes, we all do matter. 100% Liked it, Tom! Sara
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 2:42:00 PM
Thx for reading my little narrative Sara
Date: 8/31/2023 1:14:00 PM
Tom, your words are spot on. I stumbled upon this exquisite poem and your message left me feeling inspired and hopeful, as if my faith had been rejuvenated. The way you presented it was flawless, your voice carrying each word with grace and precision. It was truly remarkable how you managed to convey the profound truth that the people we hold dear to our hearts will forever hold significance in our lives.
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 1:19:00 PM
Yes, and you matter too my poetic pal. Have a great day
Date: 8/31/2023 1:08:00 PM
Hello Tom. I say listen to her because she's right. Her explanations are right also. I found this entry and your message encouraging and uplifting with restoring faith. This was executed and voiced well. Thank you for sharing your poetic talent. Have a wonderful night. Take Care (smile)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 1:09:00 PM
We all need the occasional boost. See ya round
Date: 8/31/2023 11:17:00 AM
Your words remind me that: "We are just a speck, on a speck, orbiting a speck, in the corner of a speck, in the middle of nowhere." So powerful, indeed. Also, we are "like beautiful snowflakes-unique, and born for a specific reason and purpose." Yes, we do matter ! Thank you Tom, for being here, for being you. :) Hugs, Brandy
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 11:29:00 AM
Your comments are so awesomely poetic. I'm wanting to stick around. Got a couple of desperate ankle biters harassing me, as per usual
Date: 8/31/2023 9:44:00 AM
I always find something that makes me pause when I read your poems, Tom. Brilliant how you conveyed--those who are dear to us, indeed always matter.
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 9:51:00 AM
Thx Veej
Date: 8/31/2023 6:58:00 AM
This is great Tom. It shows that you matter and you are loved. Have a great day :)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 7:15:00 AM
Much thx Heidi
Date: 8/31/2023 6:52:00 AM
- The world is full of possibilities - remember that you yourself are one of them, Tom - hugs
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 7:15:00 AM
That's very sweet thx
Date: 8/31/2023 2:25:00 AM
You put up a very good argument there mate, but she shot you down with one word.. LOVE. An excellent narrative Tom. We can all learn by it. Best wishes from SV
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/31/2023 5:44:00 AM
Thx for support
Date: 8/30/2023 4:00:00 PM
Yes, we are all God’s creation and we matter to Him! That’s why he bothered to send His only Son here to die for our sins so we that might have eternal life through Him! Great narrative, Tom, and very thought provoking! :)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/30/2023 4:28:00 PM
Glad you liked it Laura. You're welcome here any time
Date: 8/30/2023 2:35:00 PM
A novel thought indeed! The opposite of Entropy is Negentropy—What leads to an increase in the state of organization in a system through the acquisition of information, and this my amigo is why I believe in “enlightment” You matter so much here Tom, she is a special and compassionate one, better half? Halfnhalf lol. I enjoyed reading your passionate thoughts, most try to avoid thinking about the reality. They say "Ignorance is Bliss” :)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/30/2023 4:36:00 PM
And thanks for saying I matter here. Some are trying their best to discourage me. A small handful of imps
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/30/2023 2:45:00 PM
This is fictional mostly, though I've had my moments of self doubt, for sure. I believe in the right kind of enlightenment. For me, the Bible is the primary source, though I read on a lot of different topics to stay informed
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