Criticism of Others

Earlier this morning I was enlightened by a poet's post and felt the need to express my thoughts in the following lines ~

It's far better we write to please ourselves
and ignore the negative criticism of others
   than to write in order to please the public
      and forfeit our integrity and self-respect
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Sambourne Avatar
December 20, 2021 at 7:20 PM
So well written! True words that touch me thoroughly. Too often contest NA's dry my poet's pen. I really appreciate your posting. It's a gem. Brian
Lane Avatar
December 21, 2021 at 4:51 AM
Don't let the lack of positive judgement on anything you write prevent you from having your pen ready, Brian. It's only one person's opinion against yours, and to my comprehension, the poem's author is the one that counts.
Neumann Avatar
January 10, 2020 at 5:37 AM
True story. Who is the public anyway. Kind wishes, Kai
Lane Avatar
December 21, 2021 at 4:49 AM
The public is anyone who reads our poetry. Thanks, Kai.
Radice Avatar
January 8, 2020 at 4:54 AM
This speaks to me Lin. 'Life's Rich Tapestry'. Just recently I received what could be perceived as a negative comment about one of my poems. However, the main criticism was that the poem made the person have to guess. I love the idea of that :) Sometimes reading people's comments about poems tells you more about the person commenting than the poem itself.
Lane Avatar
January 8, 2020 at 5:02 AM
ahh, Gary. First, I'll thank you for reading me. A tapestry is woven with threads of different colors (people). My point is: never allow negative criticism to undermine the worth of your poetry. If we wrote so that one with a closed mind could decipher every line, would we be untrue to ourselves? I love the way metaphors challenge the mind and go below the surface for clarity. Yes, we can see quite clearly, the mark of a man/woman by their comments. Sharp or obtuse. I'm sure you get my point.
Allison Avatar
December 29, 2019 at 7:18 PM
Wise words indeed Lin:-) hugs jan xx
Lane Avatar
January 5, 2020 at 5:48 AM
Thanks a bunch, Jan.
Iversen  Avatar
December 23, 2019 at 7:27 PM
Remember... nasty, unintelligible, reviews often come from verbose fools. Well put poem Lin.
Lane Avatar
January 5, 2020 at 5:47 AM
I like your thoughts. Thank you, Peter.
Kiser Avatar
December 20, 2019 at 11:36 AM
Yes, absolutely; you pen the truth.
Lane Avatar
December 20, 2019 at 11:48 AM
Thanks for supporting the thought behind this one.
Kitchin Avatar
December 19, 2019 at 6:10 PM
Lin, very wise words! I agree and that is how I write my poems, not for approval from others. I know my poems will appeal to some but not to all!
Lane Avatar
December 20, 2019 at 3:12 AM
As long as we're content with what we write, nothing else matters. Those readers who comprehend our lines will leave a sincere comment. That's gratifying and is encouraging. Thanks for leaving your remarks. They're appreciated, Tania.
Theraven Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 11:43 PM
Lin, I like this genuine write. With much respect for you and all you do. Always temper words that may wound a heart., and remember the golden rule. -Richard
Lane Avatar
December 19, 2019 at 4:48 AM
How very kind are your words, Richard. Thank you. Your use of 'temper' is what people should do before they hurt someone's feelings, but it's the other definition that takes hold, and in the world today, most cannot control it. More's the pity. Good to see you this morning.
Hamilton Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:46 PM
So true Lin, funny how some have so much to say about others writing, but when you read theirs....it's another story. I'm glad I don't pay attention to negativity it can really bring you down( if you let it)
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:50 PM
I used to allow lots of things bother me, but now it all seems so trivial when there are more important things to consider. I know what you mean..."the pot calling the kettle black." Thanks so much for your many visits today, John.
Flaherty Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:05 PM
Love this Lin Truly Inspiring for the Budding Self-Worth is not for other's to decide Rather it's what's inside So why choose to hide it
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:08 PM
If ya got sompin to say, say it! Thanks for the visit, Christopher. Good to see you here.
Ravidas Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 4:05 PM
Truth, truth, truth. There is a simple rule: a reader can like a poem only if the author likes it by himself. It's great to see you enlightened, Lin)
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:26 PM
that would be a pin light, or is it a pin head? bald head? Ok ok, I quit.
Ravidas Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:18 PM
I like words at all. As for shining, the light excites the light even if the light source is in a such hermetically impenetrable room as a someone else's head)
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 5:06 PM
Well, in this case I had to like it first. Otherwise, how would you have read it and witnessed it shining? You are the first person, other than me, that I've seen use, 'ergo.' I rather like the word.
Ravidas Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 4:32 PM
I'm a reader, I like the way it shines, ergo, you liked it first)
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 4:23 PM
It seems some people like to break simple rules. Yep, can you see the light bulb hanging over my head? You're humor amuses me, Kurt. ;-)
Y. Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 1:35 PM
Hi Lin, I totally agree with you. I don't have to add anything more. This is exceptional advise. Have a wonderful day:-)Alexis
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 2:00 PM
Hi, Alexis. By reading and leaving a comment you've added a lot. Thanks so much.
Cunningham Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 1:18 PM
Excellent advice Lin, well said. Tom.
Lane Avatar
December 18, 2019 at 1:59 PM
You are a champion of right versus wrong, Tom. Thank you for leaving your thoughts.
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