Sometimes things happen in our lives that tend to spoil things for us just a tad.  Like maybe things are tough at work, maybe you have a problem with a neighbor or a friend, Maybe you have family problems, maybe serious ones, maybe money is tight and the rent is late.                I know things like this are serious and it's easier to give advice than to take it    --- BUT ---          You are not the only person in the world with these particular problems and yes there is a way to work things out if you want to, but you have to WANT TO, you have to have the WILL TO DO IT.  First of all sit down and THINK your problems through and PRAY ABOUT IT. Ask God for His divine help in ALL things. He WILL help you if you ask Him to.  No, your problems WON'T magically disappear. It would be nice but God doesn't do anything like that.  I mean,  look at the world around you. He did all that but He did it in such a way that it SEEMED like natural causes. Scientists argue about it all the time. (Oh it was "THE BIG BANG" that formed the world.) Yeah well maybe so but what caused the bang? At any rate some things are an uphill struggle all the way.. Jesus never promised His followers an easy road. He promised them times of trouble and opposition,  but He also promised to be there with us through it all giving us strength and fortitude to make it.  REMEMBER:  "I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENETH ME.."  Philippians 4:13