When I choose to speak

I’ve learned to move through this world
at a pace that feels honest to me—
not slow, not fast, just real.

People mean well, I know.
They offer paths, perspectives,
suggestions shaped by their own lived truths.

Sometimes I listen closely, sometimes I don’t.
But I’ve come to understand
that I’m allowed to choose when I open the door.

Not out of stubbornness,
but because not everything fits
the shape of my life.

Engaging isn’t something I’ve subscribed to,
it’s something I offer…
and only when it’s right.

My silence isn’t avoidance,
it’s trust in myself, a space I keep clear
so I can hear what matters.

And if I do step in,
if I join the conversation,
take the advice, follow the lead,

it will be because something inside said yes,
not because I felt I had to…
not because I was expected to.

That choice, that freedom,
is how I stay sincere, valid,
and true to myself.

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Date: 5/22/2025 2:16:00 PM
you are a wise man indeed Mark! hugs jan xx
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Mark Massey
Date: 5/22/2025 4:00:00 PM
Thanks again Jan, but I still trip over my mouth from time to time. I think its the Texan in me.
Date: 5/22/2025 8:23:00 AM
Mark l just love and agree totally with your beautiful gentle words....perfectly and respectfully conveyed! Debx
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Mark Massey
Date: 5/22/2025 4:01:00 PM
Thank you, Deb
Date: 5/22/2025 8:00:00 AM
Mark, no one holds a Sceptor or sits on a throne on the site with power to control how we react to the poetry of others. We are here because we enjoy writing and reading poetry. No one has the right to tell us or even suggest to any of us what we should or should not do with regard to when or why we should open a door to anyone, particularly if we don't find a reason to feel it worthy. Definitely not from anyone who contributes more negativity than poetry. Thank you for being true to yourself
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