What Qualities Make a 'successful Man'

What qualities make a ‘successful man’, Is it the tambor of his voice, Some lofty goals, a lifelong plan, A steering hand, his knowing choice. Can compassion play a part Or is that interpreted as meekness; Is it wrong to show a heart Without labeling it as weakness? Does strength need to be paraded A steely front for all to see, Is authority degraded When others sometime don't agree? An old proverb said as much: "A wise man is one who listens" Few have had the Midas touch And those that did have breached divisions. Three traits renown - the deadly cluster, The very ones to spell out doom, Bravado, Braggadocio and sheer Bluster, For all they bring is downright gloom. So where's the rulebook, that golden fleece To show the way and light the path, That font of knowledge and inner peace, Assured success without the wrath? Where it exists is inner strength, A willingness to learn whilst teaching too, Consistency and grace to any length, Embracing all of us, not simply you.