What My Mother Means To Me

In December 1951, I turned ten years old-- 
	Harry Truman was president of the United States, 
		The Korean Conflict raged on a faraway peninsula,  
			The Golden Gate Bridge closed due to high winds. 
	My mother developed melanoma in her left leg. 

In December of 1956, I turned fifteen years old-- 
	Dwight D. Eisenhower was president of the United States 
		The Korean Conflict was over, 
				Asian flu reached pandemic levels, and, 
			Elvis Presley purchased Graceland. 
	My mother died on a hot July 1957 evening in our home,  

And our lives changed forever-- 
	For, you see, our mother meant the whole world to us. 

Elizabeth Agnes Allport Hankins was only forty-two-years old 
	when she passed away, leaving three children: 
		my sister Lois, the oldest at twenty-two, 
			my brother Jimmie, the youngest at ten, 
				and me. 

Two communities mourned the death of our sweet, Godly mother 
	who for a little over five years, through suffering and pain, 
	cared for us kids and taught us how to care for ourselves, for 
	“After I’m gone,” she would say, “You’ll need to know this.” 
We never heard her cry, 
We never heard her complain, 
We never heard her express fear. 
We never heard her question her faith in God. 

For years, no matter where I was living, I would always return 
        on Memorial Day to visit my mom’s grave in 
        	that old, overgrown cemetery in the West Virginia hills. 
One Memorial Day, I suddenly realized something I had not before.  
        My mother never has lain deep in that cold, stony ground-- 
She forever lies in the sweetest, Godliest depths of her children's hearts, 
	She is still watching over us just like she always did, 
		and, because she is always with us,
                       We need never go back. 

FIRST PLACE WINNER
Written on March 28, 2021 
For the “Mother” Contest 
Sponsored by Constance La France
Copyright © | Year Posted 2021

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Radhakrishna Avatar
April 6, 2021 at 11:07 PM
Milton I somehow missed this beautiful poem from your heart and soul! how well you have done this!! Just a matter of course true statements one after the other! A fave!!
Hankins Avatar
April 7, 2021 at 9:07 AM
Thanks so much, Krish. I appreciate your visit and your read more than you can ever know.
Ray Choudhury Avatar
April 1, 2021 at 6:08 PM
Revisiting. This poem made me cry, but I want to read many times. To my faves, Milton.
Hankins Avatar
April 1, 2021 at 8:08 PM
Thanks so much, Malabika. I did a lot of reading while my mother was ill, but to my knowledge she never ever read anything I wrote (perhaps homework). I appreciate your reads.
Krutsinger Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 7:54 PM
This is so true "She is still watching over us just like she always did, " Congrats on your well-deserved win!
Hankins Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 8:07 PM
Thanks, Caren. I'm not much into conventional religion these days, but I'm a true believer in a spiritual world. Deb always called it the greatest journey she would ever make. I suspect she's having a blast!!!
La France Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 8:10 AM
Milt, congratulations on your win in my Mother Challenge, your poem truly touched my heart, well done _Constance
Hankins Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 9:11 AM
Thanks so much, Constance. It was a hard write, but I'm glad I was given the opportunity to express these thoughts through your contest. I appreciate your warm and thoughtful comment.
Ray Choudhury Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 1:34 AM
Congratulations on your win. You brought tears to my eyes by this wonderful tribute to your mother. How strong she was, and how strong is your memory about her! It must have been hard for you to write this poem. Best wishes ~ Mala
Hankins Avatar
March 31, 2021 at 9:11 AM
Yes, Malabika, it was, but I'm glad, through the contest, I had the opportunity to express these thoughts. Thanks for your read and thoughtful comment.
Goldsmith Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 11:55 AM
Congratulations on your win. WOW!!! What a story/write. A wonderful tribute to your wonderful mother. Have a blessed day........................
Hankins Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 12:11 PM
She was very, very special, Paula. Thanks for your visit and your encouraging words.
Poet Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 10:46 AM
Congratulations on your wonderful first place win; I always wish you the best // Las.
Hankins Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 11:18 AM
Thanks so much for your kind comment, Lasaad. I appreciate you.
Medders Tobechi Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 9:49 AM
You have bought tears to my eyes and I am crying profusely. This is very well done and moving. I know that your mom is with all of you forever and truly with the Lord. My faith needed this and I am sure others will also. Congratulations. Love and blessings friend, Janis.
Hankins Avatar
March 30, 2021 at 11:19 AM
Janis, I am so happy that this poem in tribute to my mother was so meaningful to you. I cried while writing it. Thanks so much.
Wolf Avatar
March 29, 2021 at 8:52 PM
You have brought many tears to my eyes, Milt. Powerfully penned tribute to your saintly Mom. Bravo, Gershon
Hankins Avatar
March 29, 2021 at 9:55 PM
She was that, indeed. This one was really hard to write, Gershon. Most of it is written through tears. My brother told me recently that he couldn't remember our mom. What a shame! But, he was only ten when she died, and he's 74 now.
Bauer Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 12:59 PM
a beautiful tribute to your mother, l milton! i love the way your poem flows through time...
Hankins Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 4:59 PM
Thanks, Ilene. It was difficult to write, but I'm glad I did. She has been gone a long, long time, but she's still very near in my heart.
Poet Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 8:46 AM
Very well penned and very touching poem Milton, my very best luck in the contest, hugs//las
Hankins Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 9:13 AM
Thanks so much, Lasaad, and hugs to you, too!
Gauthier Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 7:29 AM
Well penned, Milton. So touching ~
Hankins Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 9:12 AM
Thanks, Line. I appreciate your visit.
Devonshire Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 2:43 AM
It is just the body we bury, Milton. Your mother's spirit does live on in you and your siblings. Sorry to hear you lost her at such a young age. Must have been devastating. I like the way you take the reader back to the '40s and '50s. Very touching poem. (My mother is buried more than a thousand miles away and I rarely get to her grave.) Just keep her memory in your heart. Hugs, Carolyn
Hankins Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 9:11 AM
Thanks, Carolyn. I appreciate your comments. I wasn't sure this was an appropriate contest entry from several points of view, but, I just sat down and started writing about Mom and this is what came out, so I went ahead and published it and entered it in the contest. Mom would be tickled, I think!
Daniel Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 12:27 AM
She must have been a strong and lovely woman, Milton, glad to know about her:) and yes, she lives in your heart:)
Hankins Avatar
March 28, 2021 at 9:10 AM
Thanks, Jo. This piece was pretty difficult to write, but I finished it through the tears. My mom still holds that special place in my heart.
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