Too Little Too Late

The man to whom I have been wed,
For low these many years,
Has never shared his love with me,
Now wants to share his fears.

I Don't Want To.

My feelings never mattered much,
He told me, don't complain,
And now we're old he thinks that I,
Should gladly share his pain.

Why Should I?

When I am sick he doesn't care,
I must care for myself,
But if it's him then I must do,
All that I can to help.

For What Reason?

I used to try to talk to him,
Tried to build a bond.
He didn't want to hash it out,
And all I did he shunned.

I'm Done Now.

He says that I'm uninterested,
Don't care, not a good wife.
He should have learned so long ago,
Good husbands make good wives.

                                       Judy Ball

"So husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies.
He who loves his wife loves himself for no one ever hated his own flesh
but nourishes it and cherishes it just as Christ also loved the church."
                                                                                  Ephesians 5:28-29

"Nevertheless let each idividual among you also love his own wife even as himself,
and let the wife see to it that she respect her husband."
                                                                                    Ephesians 5:33

Inspired by Russell Sivey's relationship contest
Copyright © | Year Posted 2011

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Loving Iii Avatar
December 7, 2011 at 6:39 PM
the title drug me in. but the content was so powerfull. i began wishing, i hope i'm not that man. but maybe after all these years he's cornered and has to submit. or admit that no one else is listening. if he has to tell you his problems; then insist that he listen to one of yours. or else, counceling. yours john
Ball Avatar
December 8, 2011 at 8:57 AM
Thanks so much John. Glad you liked this. As for him, he is very self-absorbed and always has been. Doubt he's going to change now. God Bless my friend, JB
Dietrich Avatar
December 3, 2011 at 8:47 AM
In case this is complete fiction, don't worry about answering the question I posed!!
Loving Iii Avatar
December 7, 2011 at 6:43 PM
i believe it because it's true all over the world. he has finally caught up with her. but it's like she said too little too late. all i can say is men and women are compleatly different.
Dietrich Avatar
December 3, 2011 at 8:45 AM
Judy, This one makes me feel sad for you. Did you leave him? It makes me want to know!! Congrats on your win. this is TRULY a big letdown!
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:04 AM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Dover Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 8:42 PM
5 Stars! Great Poem, congratulations on your win! Love, J.
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:20 AM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Freeman Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 5:48 PM
Nice one, beautiful job, for the contest Judy. Good husbands do make good wives Judy. Congratulations on your worthy poem first place. Agape, Moses
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:27 AM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you likjed it. God Bless, JB
Stinson Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 5:40 PM
This is tragically written. Congratulations on your placing.
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:33 AM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless,JB
Arno Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 5:04 PM
Congratulations on your win :)
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:42 AM
Thanks so much Jon. Glad you liked it. God Bless,JB
Arowolo Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 12:47 PM
Judy!This is very touchy and emotional...Congrats on your win...
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 11:46 AM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Song Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 10:14 AM
Hi Judy! This is such a great yet common story...I know so many couples who have stayed tortured together thru old age...it's scriptural, I know, but it is also very painful...Congrats on this outstanding win! Luv, Gwendolen
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 12:01 PM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Johnson Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 8:18 AM
Very sad and I am sure it happens. Love, Joyce
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 12:05 PM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Macfarlane Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 8:09 AM
Congrats on your win Judy.....a well written insight on a one-sided marriage. Hugs, CC
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 12:07 PM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Tams The Golden Girl Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 6:27 AM
This is so sad, congrats though on your placing.
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 12:13 PM
Thanks so much my friend. Glad you liked it.God Bless, JB
Brown Avatar
December 1, 2011 at 6:13 AM
Congratulations on your placement in my contest Judy. You all left a piece of yourselves on this contest page. It was so very hard to judge. I am asking you all to read and comment on all the winners here. You will go away seeing into the hearts of all the winners. This was a very emotional contest for me. Thank you all for supporting this contest. Love and blessing to you all, Carol
Ball Avatar
December 5, 2011 at 12:19 PM
Thanks so much Carol. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Song Avatar
October 15, 2011 at 8:27 AM
JUdy...encore performance, please.....is your pen moving yet? ha ha. Hope u are well.
Ball Avatar
October 23, 2011 at 7:48 AM
Thank you so much Gwen. Glad you liked this. God Bless, JB
Sweetheart Avatar
October 8, 2011 at 8:44 PM
absolutely phenomenal Judy and oh so true.. husbands can be this way..unappreciative .. am so happy mine is a rare gem... though he does go into 'bear' mode now and then.. temper but that is all that Italian blood..oh.. great piece.. hope u did well in the contest.. I have to check the list luv..
Ball Avatar
October 9, 2011 at 10:03 AM
Thanks so much Linda. Didn't enter since it's not the correct form. God Bless, JB
Kendrick Avatar
October 8, 2011 at 6:27 PM
It is that way in so many marriages..The man doesn't have a clue..Most don't have any idea what the Bible says and surely don't obey the Word of God..Enjoyed reading your work..Reads like a winner..Good luck..Thanks for the kind review..Sara
Ball Avatar
October 9, 2011 at 10:05 AM
Thanks so much Sara. Actually mine does know his Bible. He just has a very wide selfish streak complicated by tunnel vision. lol God Bless, JB
Kriticos Avatar
October 8, 2011 at 6:00 PM
Very well said Judy. And thank you for your brief poem about the skateboarder who could...n't
Ball Avatar
December 6, 2011 at 8:54 AM
Thanks so much Kyle. Glad you liked it. ;) God Bles, JB
Fraser Avatar
October 8, 2011 at 10:09 AM
Powerful and mixed emotions Judy in this fine piece of poetry. And your so right, there is a lot of this going around. It's surviving it that's the challenge. Me personally, I'm looking forward to being single again, and have time for me. Have a lovely Sunday :)
Ball Avatar
October 8, 2011 at 10:11 AM
More power to you my friend. Thanks bunches. God Bless, JB
Song Avatar
October 7, 2011 at 3:31 AM
This is amazing, Judy...I am speechless at this raw open poem...God is our spouse and we are his bride on our worst days....Love the scriptures. :) Hugs, so much commonality here from yrs past. Gwendolen
Ball Avatar
October 7, 2011 at 4:48 PM
Thanks so much Gwen. Glad you liked it. God Bless, JB
Quigley Avatar
October 6, 2011 at 12:27 AM
Well written Judy. Especially enjoyed the last stanza.
Ball Avatar
October 6, 2011 at 3:05 PM
Thanks Bob. Glad yo liked it. God Bless, JB
Wesley Avatar
October 5, 2011 at 11:21 PM
So sad but so well done Judy, the old fart needs a reality check!
Ball Avatar
October 6, 2011 at 3:34 PM
Thanks so much Liz. FGlad you liked this. God Bless, JB
Zzzzz Avatar
October 5, 2011 at 10:31 AM
Sounds like a lovely bunch of roses...with sharp thorns attatched! I'm sure many readers will be nodding wisely as they read this! Food for thought here! Love, Robert.
Ball Avatar
October 6, 2011 at 3:55 PM
You got that right my friend. Marriage is like a bed or roses complete with thorns. Thanks bunches, glad you like it. It's important to think about your mate now and then and make that person feel special to you. It does a lot for the relationship. God Bless, JB
Macmillan Avatar
October 5, 2011 at 9:48 AM
Judy, I loved that a contest inspired you to write something profound and emotional. I like the contests, but sometimes they are SO restrictive (lines, forms, etc.) that they miss the mark in allowing words to just flow, and the poem to just... become... AND still be welcomed as an entry. Rules may hone skills, but I think that they OUST the true nature of creativity, rigid limitations squelch flow. MHO. :-) This is beautiful, by the way. Stars to you... hugs, Cyndi
Ball Avatar
October 6, 2011 at 5:30 PM
Thanks so much Cyndi. Glad you like it so much. I agree too many rules squelch creativity. Thus I wrote the poem but could not enter it because it was the wrong form. Thanks bunches. God Bless, JB
Neels Avatar
October 5, 2011 at 8:24 AM
A stunning piece you have here Judy, wishing and I love the footnotes you have added to it.. As for the meaning of my niece's name it actually means tranquility or peace If I am not mistaken, God bless you, Wilma
Austin Avatar
October 4, 2011 at 4:10 PM
I love your little asides - very creative. Love, daver
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