The Language of the New Generation.

Understanding the new generation. They have their own language. Their own new meanings to the same words. They have their own communication + lingo. Has it not been the same with each new generation in history? They discover a new style that is shocking to the older generations. Adjoining generations seem to listen to each other. At which point do the generations do not want to listen. Where is this gap? Spelling is different for the same words. A lot of abbreviated text is used. There seems to be an absence of books amongst dvds + cds.Has this interior design element been overlooked? Is there a new dictionary to accommodate the new generations? Or is this just how life is?