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The Downs Syndrome Child

Someone near and dear to me Has a child with Downs Syndrome, Who, more often than not Is beyond difficult to control. The little boy is six years old But acts as if he’s two, He can’t speak at all, just yells a lot Throwing wild tantrums until he’s blue. He likes throwing things around As if everything’s a toy, And has difficulty distinguishing Between bad behavior and pure, ecstatic joy. (And his mother is a nervous wreck, always picking up after the boy). His fingers are his eyes at times As textures are his friends, If he doesn’t like the way it feels He won’t go there again. And he likes to lay down on the ground Balling up like a boulder, Until someone comes to pick him up While he gives them his cold shoulder. It’s difficult to fully describe All the nuances of this child, The range of his emotions From anger and sadness to his beautiful, blissful smile. (And his mother is a nervous wreck, walking many lonely miles). They wonder about his future And those around him always near, And wonder how much happiness Will follow him through the years. Will he learn to play an instrument Or dance and sing a song, Is it possible he will marry someday Will true love come along? Will he find friends who will love him And treat him sweet and kind, Or only those who will shun him And close him off like blinds. (And his mother is a nervous wreck, And losing her own mind. His mother is a nervous wreck And loves him All the time). © Terrell Martin, 02/26/2025

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Date: 3/5/2025 4:27:00 PM
I don't know if I could handle this kind of thing. Honestly this sounds like autism to me. Maybe he is a combination of both. Either that,not a severe case of down syndrome. Many I met have been very sweet people. I often wonder gods purpose with these matters. For example parents whose children are born sociopaths. So scary. I loved the refrain you used here.
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Date: 3/6/2025 7:13:00 AM
Hi Andrea. Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts. We also wonder if he has autism, as more children than ever before are being diagnosed these days. Thus far he hasn't been officially diagnosed as such, but I agree with you and have been encouraging my daughter (the child's mother) to have him tested and his case reviewed. It's a complicated situation but hopefully, she can make that happen in the near future and additional assistance may be on the horizon. In the meantime, we all provide unconditional love and support to both her and our grandson and leave the rest up to the good Lord above. I'm glad you liked the refrain and thank you again for your kind thoughts. Best to you, Terrell
Date: 3/2/2025 12:50:00 AM
WOW Terrell what a powerful,heartfelt, real, honest write. I hope his mum has strong support around her and gets to have some respite time to time to relax and recharge. I worked with special needs children and adults my whole working life. I have seen the toll it takes on parents and families etc….there are many hard times but there will be joyful ones also. Beautifully expressed my friend!! Debx
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Date: 3/3/2025 3:34:00 PM
Hi Deb, my apologies because I thought I had responded to you earlier (yesterday) but apparently not. In any event I'm SO GRATEFUL knowing your background including knowledge, experience and expertise in dealing with the special needs community. Your understanding regarding the background and depth of this poem is both uplifting and heartwarming to me. The words "Thank you" could never come close to describing the depth of my appreciation. All the Best to you & yours, Terrell
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Date: 3/2/2025 12:51:00 AM
Oops l forgot to say…Congratulations on POTD!!! Debx
Date: 3/1/2025 6:11:00 PM
Terrell: This is a most important POTD! It is a spectrum condition. "... friends who will love him And treat him sweet and kind," that will be me! Thank you- Best -Ken
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Date: 3/3/2025 3:25:00 PM
Ken, my apologies for the late response but life's been hectic these past few days. I sincerely appreciate your insightful and exceptionally warm and uplifting response to the poem which completely surprised me as a POTD! Thank you again and I owe you a visit as soon as possible. Best, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 9:32:00 PM
powerful write. you just describe a day or two, but the pain one goes through the challenge is unbearable. Only divine strength can help to cope with it dear poet. Faith. hugs to mother & child. Keep them happy. I know of a mother who did not give up on her son she carried around for six years, her prayers and grit payed, the child got strength to walk on its own at the age of seven. Faith again.
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Date: 3/1/2025 4:12:00 PM
Thank you for your thoughts, Thriveni. We all live with the hope that the future will be brighter than the past. Your words of hope, faith and encouragement are music to me and others who are daily faced with the reality of "special needs." But God is good - All the time! And thanks again for sharing. God bless, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 5:38:00 PM
He will, if this poem's true. Read "Meye Alias ARt MEdDler". It's about a friend of mine who had the syndrome but when he was behind closed doors, he spoke like me and you and not with the Syndrome voice. You'd be surprised how intelligent "we" become when we grow up. Just keep on giving love Mom and it's okay to be worn out.
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Date: 3/1/2025 4:33:00 PM
Benjamin, thank you for sharing especially the poem "Meye Alias ARt MEdDler" - I just finished reading and quite extraordinary. Anyone with "Downs" can definitely relate and I'll be sure to share this with my daughter (the boys mother). Kudos to you and the poem both going to my FAVs. Happy weekend my friend, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 3:38:00 PM
Terrell, a powerful poem, congratulations on POTD.
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Date: 3/1/2025 4:37:00 PM
Tania, thank you so much for reading and sending "Congrats." The last thing I as expecting was for this poem to make POTD. Life is full of surprises including good vibes from poets like you. Thank you again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 3:21:00 PM
I would imagine mum is a nervous wreck, and definitely deserves praise for her patience. Hopefully the young one will surprise her someday.
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Date: 3/1/2025 4:24:00 PM
Paul, thank you for reading and responding so kind heartedly. He's already full of happy surprises and hopefully, more to come in the future. Thanks again my friend.
Date: 2/28/2025 2:10:00 PM
So many prayers lifted for this mother and child. Emotional piece.
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:19:00 PM
Thank you, Arlo. I appreciate your thoughtfulness. All the best, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 12:30:00 PM
How very much she must worry, day after day. I care for my special needs brother, he just made 50, he cannot read and his 'processing level' varies from between 6 and 10 maybe, but he is at least verbal. He has anger issues but not as severe. Mentioning all of that to say, I know how much anxiety I carry worrying about him, so I can only imagine hers. It is kind of you to bring the struggles of these parents to the attention of others Terrell.
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:26:00 PM
My heart goes out to you, FJ, and to all the countless other care givers to those with special needs and their families. I know how much of a constant struggle and challenge it is so again, my thoughts and prayers go out to you as well. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts because it helps to connect with others who understand your situation. Have a blessed weekend, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 11:54:00 AM
Terrell, after reading a few comments, I've learned that the child is your grandson. First, I would like to send a few hugs to him and to his mother, and; of course to you. Second, those with special needs, need love and support. Some in our world don't understand the challenge, thus, make each obstacle even harder to deal with. I would like to say how proud of your daughter I am. Even though she's going through so much, she's doing the best she can. I see your thoughts have been chosen as Poem of the Day. Many wonderful blessings to you and your family. Hugs, Brandy
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:33:00 PM
Hi Brandy, and I'm humbled by your sincere kindness that shines brightly through your words of wisdom, comfort and support. I'll certainly pass on your uplifting and heart felt thoughts to her while wishing you a wonderful and blessed weekend and many more days to follow. Thanks again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 10:01:00 AM
Congratulations on your POTD win. What a powerful write you have here. Everyone has a purpose and are a gift. Your daughter needs some time to herself. As simple as a long bubble bath, a day out shopping or lunch with a friend. I will add you to my Soup prayer list. Check out JOB, a chapter in the bible for answers. Have a blessed day/weekend writing away................
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:39:00 PM
Thank you, Paula, and you're so very right about Job and all his patience. It's a lesson we can stand to be reminded of from time to time. I'll also pass your kind thoughts, especially concerning the bubble bath and shopping spree. (Who doesn't like spending a little "fun money" sometimes?!?!) Thanks again for your time and heart felt thoughts of kindness. Hugs, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 9:51:00 AM
Dear Terrell your heartfelt piece is full of love and raw emotion for this mother. The constant worries for her child and hopeful dreams turn into long lasting torment. Those that love most are most affected. My heart goes out to her, lets hope through her friends like you she manages to keep her sanity. I can not imagine what she is going through but she will be there for her child always because that is what Mothers do. How heartfelt this was to read your words went straight to my heart.
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Date: 2/28/2025 9:52:00 AM
Congratulations my friend for receiving such a High Honor of POTD. Will stop by to read more of your excellent Poetry.
Date: 2/28/2025 7:45:00 AM
Many congrats on POTD with this heartfelt piece. The impact of the repeated phrase 'his mother is a nervous wreck' hit home hard Your daughter is amazing as is your grandson in his own special ways! I worked with students with additional needs for 16 years - it is such a shame there is such a lack of understanding when it comes to these issues. hugs jan xx adding this poem to my faves.
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:46:00 PM
Thank you so much, Jan. I'm doubly humbled, thankful and blessed to read comments from people such as you who have a significant amount of experience dealing with those with "additional" needs. I have no doubt you understand their problems and issues very well including the stress and challenges on a daily basis. Thanks again for taking the time to read and respond with such deep thought. All the best to you & yours, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 7:38:00 AM
Important feature on display. Enjoy your special day
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:52:00 PM
Thank you AGAIN (2nd post you've made here today) Tom and I appreciate it far more than you know. It's been a busy day between this SURPRISING POTD selection that I was definitely not expecting along with a ton of yard work I needed to catch up on, I'm pretty well wiped out both mentally and physically. Looking forward to a goof=d rest this evening to recharge for another GREAT day tomorrow. Until then, thanks again and as always...Write on my friend, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 5:17:00 AM
Hello Terrell, Beautiful and powerful. The devotion of his mother is wonderful. What a tribute to the mother in one of the most difficult of circumstances. I hope the boy is able to do some of what is hoped for. Congratulations on POTD, well deserved.
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Date: 2/28/2025 6:23:00 AM
Hello and thank you, Oliver. I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond to this poem concerning those with special needs along with their families and care givers. I wasn't expecting it to me selected as POTD but glad to shed some light on such an important topic. All the best to you and yours and thanks again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 5:08:00 AM
Hello Terrell, Congratulations on your POTD win with this heart wrenching write. Having been a carer I have seen the devotion, love and never a moment’s rest. Sending prayers and Blessings their way, and wishing you a wonderful weekend.
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Date: 2/28/2025 6:18:00 AM
Hello and thank you, Zyrool. Your personal experience in care giving for those with special needs is both admirable and honorable. It's uplifting for me to know that your thoughts and prayers are being sent to those most in need of them. Have a wonderful weekend and thanks again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 4:34:00 AM
Hello Terrell, this one hit deep. The mom's love, the weight, the relentless worry,it all poured through so raw and real. You honored both the struggle and the beauty, and that last line… Wow, it stays with you. As a counselor, at times I worked with an autistic population and could feel the weight. Well deserved, POTD. Winter Blessings, My Dear Friend, Daniel
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Date: 2/28/2025 6:07:00 AM
Hello and thank you, Daniel. As a former counselor with the "special needs" community, your thoughts add and mean so much more to me and this poem than I had expected. I also was not expecting it to be selected as a "POTD" all of which validates the importance of this topic that effects so many families as you well know. I'm extremely pleased and honored by your astute inputs. Thanks again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 4:33:00 AM
An exceptional poem honouring the special children and their mothers. Try to imagine what they go through in life! Congratulations on your POTD with a very touching message!
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Date: 2/28/2025 6:12:00 AM
Thank you for reading and responding with your very kind thoughts, Malabika. We are all on our own personal journeys in life and those with "Special needs" are faced daily with innumerable struggles and challenges that many of us are not aware of. Thank you again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 4:22:00 AM
Thank you, Terrell, for giving tribute to this hero-mom and her son who has a hard road. You’ve tugged at our hearts. My granddaughters have a stepsister with shaken baby syndrome. The last time I saw her she was out of her wheel chair and hugs everyone (us included) with excitement, jumping upand down. Tears…
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Date: 2/28/2025 4:46:00 AM
Thank you for reading and responding so kindly, Kim. I wasn't expecting this poem to make POTD nor receive the level of love and heart felt attention such as you've conveyed. The number of people affected by and with special needs issues must be staggering and my heart, like yours goes out those who struggle through these challenges daily. Please convey my best thoughts, prayers & warm wishes to those you've described above and enjoy your weekend as well. Hugs /// Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 3:31:00 AM
Raising a “normal” child is hard enough and I can’t imagine this mother’s world. I admire people enormously who devote their lives in such a loving and committed way. God bless the children of God.
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:45:00 AM
Thank you, Keith. Very kind of you to read and comment and I appreciate it very much. Enjoy the weekend. /// Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 2:08:00 AM
I was a teacher in a special education class and I recall despite challenges the kids with the most joy and enthusiasm were Down’s syndrome kids. They too have purpose and are a gift. I am aware they are not typical or perfect but then who really is. May love open up your heart to the blessings and balances of faith. Faving this important poem. Congrats on potd!
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:49:00 AM
Hi Karen, thanks for reading & commenting and BLESS YOU for your service as a special education teacher. I can't imagine the patience, caring and specialized training that must be required for one to hold such an important position. And you're correct, none of truly "normal or perfect" anyway! Thanks again, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 2:01:00 AM
- Having a child with Down syndrome, demands a lot from the parents ... your daughter needs some time to herself sometimes, her everyday life is not all sunshine - Congratulations on your p.o.t.d. ... a topic with taboo emotions, Terrell - hugs
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:52:00 AM
Thank you, Ann, for reading and commenting especially with such caring and sage advice for my daughter. I'll pass it on and hope you enjoy the weekend. Write on, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 12:38:00 AM
So sorry to read this Terrell, I wish your grandson and family all the best. Congratulations on receiving the honour of poem of the day… Beryl
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Date: 2/28/2025 3:56:00 AM
Thank you, Beryl. But there's no need to feel sorry as I wrote the poem merely to bring a little attention to the otherwise larger issue that countless other families must deal with. It's not so much about our family as it is about many others. But thanks again, nonetheless & all the best, Terrell
Date: 2/28/2025 12:34:00 AM
Back with congratulations to you Terrell on a well deserved honour of POTD. Tom
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Date: 2/28/2025 4:03:00 AM
Hello and thanks again, Tom for your second visit to this poem! Being selected for POTD was the LAST things I expected when I wrote and posted it. In fact, I wasn't expecting much response at all to be honest. But thanks to wonderful people and poets like you and other here in P/Soup it's gotten more traction than it probably deserves. But I'm not complaining. Just a little taken aback by the level of response. And once again, many thanks my friend.
Date: 2/27/2025 5:59:00 AM
My wife has a Bible study with a lady who's youngest son was afflicted. He could be a sweet boy but during the studies would often blurt out strings of the worst possible profanities, calling my wife hideous names. To her credit she always managed to keep her composure and understood it wasn't entirely his fault. The boy's mother was always very dedicated to him
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Date: 2/27/2025 12:08:00 PM
Thanks for reading and responding, Tom, especially with your wife's connection to this kind of situation. Of course, we don't blame the child either, understanding that its not his fault he was born with "Special needs" and doing the best he knows how. Living with this kind of a person requires lots of love, patience and reminding that he (and others like him) are a gift from God, no less than the rest of us. And thanks again for weighing in. Happy weekend, Terrell
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