Stereotype

I was told I am a "typical black female stereotype" I grew up without my biological father??... My uncle was my dad. Despite this fact I am certain he his the best father figure anyone has ever had. I was told I am a "typical black female stereotype" I have kids and their father and I sometimes have issues??. But he was and there no matter what, for every dirty diaper and all the snotty tissues. He made a promise to them he'd be there every step of the way and has not broken that promise still to this day. I was told I am you "typical black female stereotype" Because I have worn extensions quite often. Yet I refused to put a relaxer on my daughters hair in fear that her tight coils it would soften. I am a "typical black female stereotype" because i nurture my sons. Got forbid I show them affection and they turn out like those "funny ones"?? See I was told the traits of a typical black "*****" is to and I quote "not have a daddy...and have a lot of kids including some? gay boys And not be ****".... But by my standards typical is not all that bad. My uncle was the only farther I eve had And my kids unlike myself know and love their father very much. And I love my sons and nurture them with a mother's touch. So if that makes me a stereotype then I guess? I am one and becoming a stereotype is the best thing I could have ever done.