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Why oh why do I have to learn Of poets compelled to leave here – it causes me great concern There are people who mock us, Then there are the poets here who block us I can ignore them - they don’t cause me alarm But there is a different type of person, they can cause great harm Hiding behind their keyboard, wearing a veiled disguise There are those who stalk, victimise and terrorise They need teaching a lesson and kicking hard right in their flies! I know it’s not just the ladies who suffer this type of abuse Guys can get hooked in and trapped like in a noose These childish idiots need to go home and play with their dolls Please contact soup admin to get rid of these pathetic trolls Please, please, please don’t leave our group We need you here posting your poems on Poetry Soup 3rd June 2015

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Constance La France

Date: 7/23/2015 1:09:00 PM

Jan, back to read this powerful write, it seems quiet at the moment but we both know those cliqueicky cliques are in the background lurking and thanks for visiting my poem, dripping sweetness

Jan Allison
Date: 7/23/2015 1:11:00 PM

Quiet is not the word at the moment reads and comments are at a premium but contests have closed so i have a lot of winning poems to read later:-) hugs Jan xx

David Brown

Date: 6/8/2015 9:23:00 PM

How sad that these venues can become the hunting ground for mentally unstable people. I am a little naive, I thought that they only frequented dating sites and Twitter. Nice work in raising awareness and still having some fun.

Jan Allison
Date: 6/9/2015 1:12:00 AM

Thanks David I don't do social media - and I know skype accounts can get hit by 'men in uniform' trying to prey on vulnerable women - I even wrote a poem about it lol:-) Hugs jan xx

Vera Duggan

Date: 6/6/2015 7:36:00 PM

Excellent piece of work Jan, since Peter has been on we have had a few issues, in fact I have blocked a couple of them, a couple of women getting too friendly, we are here for poetry not dating etc., I think I told you what happened a few years ago on a poetry site, so we both won't put up with it again, these sites need to be looked in to, good on ya! for bringing it to our attention...........Vera........

Jan Allison
Date: 6/7/2015 12:04:00 AM

Thanks Vera - it is not just the 'dating issue' it is the hounding stalking and victimising that is so so wrong - I wish they would install an alert button I have asked numerous times - to me it is more important than a link to twitter or 2facedbook:-) hugs Jan xx

James Fraser

Date: 6/6/2015 10:46:00 AM

Applause for posting Jan. If Admin don't take action, then it's time the members did it for them. All sites have to be policed. A few years back one person had about 7 accounts, for comments from said 7 aliases were strikingly similar. The Soup did nothing. They have a moral obligation to root out such, and as I say police their site. The laws are becoming stronger, flout them at ones peril. Terrific poem girl, hugs//James xxx

Jan Allison
Date: 6/6/2015 10:50:00 AM

Thanks James - from the comments I have received it is obvious there is need for an alert button to soup - I have asked for it on numerous occasions so offensive poems and people could be dealt with speedily! Hugs Jan xx

Eve Roper

Date: 6/5/2015 6:00:00 PM

Jan, I love your strong opinion. I have only run across 2 that I know of. I just turn the other cheek, you know which cheek and try to remember not to catch myself getting into their space again, a 7 . Hugs Eve

Jan Allison
Date: 6/5/2015 6:07:00 PM

Sadly Eve it can wear people down so much the only thing they can do is leave:-( Hugs jan xx

Paul Callus

Date: 6/5/2015 5:23:00 PM

Jan, you did well to bring this subject to the attention of our members. Both stalkers and hackers exist, not just on Soup, but also on other sites, FB, etc. Vigilance is strongly recommended. Hugs // paul

Jan Allison
Date: 6/5/2015 5:36:00 PM

I agree Paul so so sad to see lovely people forced to leave here because of the actions of a sad sick individual who thinks nothing of victimising and stalking:-( Hugs jan xx

Nette Onclaud

Date: 6/5/2015 1:12:00 AM

i have kinda witnessed moments like this on soup and it really makes me want to scream.. what makes a person so obsessed with such action and behavir?.. now, i hope you don't go blockin' me, jan.. huggs but ouch ( this new episode on soup)..

Jan Allison
Date: 6/5/2015 2:57:00 AM

I have one person blocked but that was for my own personal reasons and is not the one who is making a hobby of blocking people. Thanks for dropping by Nette - I would never block you :-) Hugs jan xx

Arthur Vaso

Date: 6/4/2015 11:07:00 PM

Loved this, however I will say this, overall I think there is far more great wonderful people as you, and in any large group you will always find a few bad a apples! THe best solution is so very simple, ignore the rest, and focus on the best!!!!!! Did I say Moi? LOL

Eve Roper
Date: 6/5/2015 6:02:00 PM

Like your advise, Arthur:~)

Jan Allison
Date: 6/5/2015 2:54:00 AM

I agree entirely Arthur there are a few bad apples in all aspects of our lives but the effect t can be so bad that they can take no more and leave - that is the sad thing:-( Hugs Jan xx

Harry Horsman

Date: 6/4/2015 3:07:00 PM

So glad you wrote this Jan, there as been many poems like this written in the past and will have to be in the future,,,this sort of behaviour keeps on keeping on and in many ways also some very subtle,,and we keep losing poets,,,we need to stick together i've been around now for 5 years here on soup,,and it is so good to see old friends and many of them still here,,Again good on you it is a good poem and the message superb...

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 3:10:00 PM

Thanks Harry I am so saddened to read the comments of others who have had issues - to think someone is so mentally unstable to do such a cruel thing to stalk and terrorise another person is so so sad:-( Hugs jan xx

Carrie Richards

Date: 6/4/2015 1:54:00 PM

After many years since joining Soup, this community has grown beyond expectation, and although most everyone has been friendly,sincere, while kindness has flourished, the element of risk is always a concern.I hope that most of us are wise enough to use caution, how much to reveal, who to trust with our personal information.Even at that, it is daunting that someone can know too much and use it for evil purpose.I hate to see a friend inclined or forced to leave for such a reason.How sad is that..

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 1:58:00 PM

I have been very saddened recently to learn a member has been forced to leave because of a stalker - the comments below make me realise how many people have actually been affected and i am sure this is just the tip of the iceberg - none of us really know who is behind the keyboard and I agree caution is essential :-) Hugs Jan xx

Emile Pinet

Date: 6/4/2015 1:11:00 PM

Very well said with grace, dignity and intent. Emile.

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 1:21:00 PM

I am so saddened to read the comments to find it has affected so many people - i hate to see a wonderful poet driven away by the actions of a sick sad person and other poets forced to change their names - sadly we do not really know who is lurking behind a keyboard:-( hugs Jan xx

Constance La France

Date: 6/4/2015 5:29:00 AM

Jan, this is the truth that you write, it has happened to me and I know some men who have been stalked as well. We come here for poetry and have to deal with all this other stuff, the stalkers, hackers, complainers, mockers, know it alls and yesterday my heart was shattered losing a beloved poet friend from this site your poem is so moving A 7 and thanks for visiting my poem, after all these years ...The inscription will be done within the next few weeks

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 6:04:00 AM

Oh Broken wings I am so sorry you have also had to endure this too along with the other troubles in your life and now to lose a friend here - oh life is so tough:-( Hugs Jan xx

Grace Mutindi

Date: 6/4/2015 2:25:00 AM

Thanks Jan for highlighting this issue and thanks for visiting my poem.

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 6:02:00 AM

Thanks for dropping by Grace:-) hugs jan xx

Richard D Seal

Date: 6/3/2015 6:44:00 PM

Blight of the internet I'm afraid Jan, some people just want to ruin it for everyone else. Just have to learn who you can trust an not get involved if they visit you, ignore them and they generally go away. Great poem to highlight this issue. Take care, Richard

Jan Allison
Date: 6/4/2015 1:33:00 AM

Thanks Richard - the internet is great BUT we have to be wary - so sad to see people here leaving because of some moron with nothing better to do than stalk and cause harm:-( Hugs jan xx

Andrea Dietrich

Date: 6/3/2015 5:39:00 PM

AWESOME plea for Soup to hear us, Jan. they really need to kick these sickos off. Unfortunately these creeps use multiple accounts and know how to beat the system. so how can Soup do anything either? No what I mean??

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 5:42:00 PM

Yes multiple accounts are a problem Andrea - the comments here confirms it is an issue and I hope anyone affected will contact soup admin and not let it get to the point they feel compelled to leave:-) Hugs Jan xx

Joseph May

Date: 6/3/2015 5:32:00 PM

This is terrible, I knew there were squabbles from time to time but I had no idea people were being stalked, I hope TPS will take action, and get rid of these trolls...

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 5:40:00 PM

I hope so too Joseph - reading the comments makes me realise how many people actually are affected by these vile people:-( Hugs Jan xx

Anna Hopper

Date: 6/3/2015 5:00:00 PM

I love this poem! It was truly enlightening for me! I had no idea that all of this was going on! Everyone has seemed very friendly and welcoming to me so far. I guess I have been here about 6 months... Hopefully this is a problem that can easily be fixed. Poetry soup has been such a blessing for me. A wonderful way to release my words into the world and have others read. At the same time, reading other's poetry has made me much more wise and aware of different types of poems. God bless!

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 5:07:00 PM

Reading the comments of others on here makes me sad - I am sure you will be fine Anna - but sadly it is happening and lovely people are leaving or have left - i was shocked to read Nette's comment - made it even more real to me - we just need to have our wits about us - anyone can be lurking behind a screen in cyber space:-( Hugs jan xx

Casarah Nance

Date: 6/3/2015 3:44:00 PM

Thank you, I was ready to call it quits after I was treated bad, but there are too many good people and great poetry to let the bad destroy us, you are right, thank you for being a good friend.

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 3:56:00 PM

you are an angel been a great friend to me:-) Hugs jan xxx we can't afford to lose any more lovely people due to the antics of others here - not just stalking but bullying too:-( Hugs jan xx

Nette Onclaud

Date: 6/3/2015 11:03:00 AM

i so wish this animosity stops.. i left soup for 6 months because of some negative energy... well expressed, jan.. hugggs

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 11:12:00 AM

Oh Nette I am so sorry this has happened you you but so happy you came back - i do hope the people who have left come back again one day Hugs Jan xx

Olive Eloisa Guillermo - Fraser

Date: 6/3/2015 10:06:00 AM

Jan, before I received soupmails as like you mentioned above....

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 10:38:00 AM

I've had soup mails Olive but this goes much deeper:-( hugs jan xx

Tim Smith

Date: 6/3/2015 9:58:00 AM

I have heard of this in the past Jan. There are some very disturbed individuals in this world. Unfortunately we are not immune to it here.

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 10:38:00 AM

It's still happening now Tim and it has made me really sad to see people leave due to the behaviour of some sicko and also of people having to change their names and avatars:-( Hugs Jan xx

Eileen Manassian

Date: 6/3/2015 9:25:00 AM

Oh Jan.... :( You know about this? I got a message from a friend who left because of this very thing. It really made me feel bad. It's horrible. Thanks for posting this. I know that it's real...and it happens. :(

Jan Allison
Date: 6/3/2015 10:36:00 AM

Its made me really sad to see people leave due to the behavuour of some sicko and also of people having to change their names and avatars:-( Hugs Jan xx