Self Worth

Can we only judge ourselves
through other people's eyes?
Who's do we look through
to show us truth not lies?

Can we only gauge our worth
from others point of view?
Should we trust just anyone's
or be selective who?

Who gives the better portrait
is it either friend or foe
that shows us what we really are
and what we need to know?

A friend may fear to hurt us
a stranger has nothing to lose.
Who makes the picture clearer
who's opinion do we chose?

Is it how we see ourselves
that tells us how we rate?
Or do we need another soul
to give our value weight?
Copyright © | Year Posted 2011

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Wesley Avatar
June 12, 2011 at 4:10 PM
the push pull of your use of opposites is clever and full of the twists of relationsships. I thought it was great. Thanks for visiting me Emma
Gorelick Avatar
March 27, 2011 at 7:48 AM
Wonderful message..I love the part about " a friend may fear to hurt us"..that stuck home. BG
Horne Avatar
March 22, 2011 at 11:34 AM
Yes, how very true. Great poem, Emma : ) Jack
George   Avatar
March 22, 2011 at 6:08 AM
Very profound and thought-evoking, Emma. Great writing! Thank you for sharing and thank you for your ind comments. Elaine
Taylor Avatar
March 21, 2011 at 5:24 AM
Excellent piece, Emma. Very thought provoking and interesting. Great job. Thanks for your gracious comments. Have a great week. Any relation to Mickey? Best to you and yours. xxxRalph
Fahey Avatar
March 20, 2011 at 3:55 PM
Emma, I emailed this one to my son at college. He struggles with this very thing, as so many of us do. It is going into"my favorites" collection. I will read it often. Thank you! Ellen
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March 20, 2011 at 6:58 AM
A very thought provoking write... Makes one wonder if a mirror is enough...trust the opinions of those close is my moto...Just my thoughts....Michael
Fahey Avatar
March 20, 2011 at 6:35 AM
So thought provoking with such important questions. So often we become too attached to what others think about us. Even to the point that we lose ourselves. Crazy, isn't it? I sooo enjoyed this one! Ellen
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