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( I almost did not post this poem for fear someone would "read between the lines" _ I wrote it out of frustration but mostly disappointment following a discussion I had with a friend _ I have a low tolerance for platitudes )

Really, My Friend

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you’re going to tell me how I feel
is this what our friendship has come to
you are actually going to try to
fill the gap the space my head
with your verbose redundancies and platitudes

please don’t tell me you know how I feel
and stop explaining it in great detail
because you don’t
you don’t have a clue
you really don’t

the truth is you simply have no idea
and I need to process things my way
so don’t try to pollute it
with your self-proclaimed wisdom

you can share
but draw the line between
what is yours from what is mine

I’m struggling as best I can
dealing with memories and emotions 
I need to do this my way
don’t push your beliefs on me
my spirituality is the product of a lifetime



the waterlily
floats atop
the murky water



AP: Honorable Mention 2022

Posted on November 24, 2020
Copyright © | Year Posted 2020


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Date: 1/9/2022 9:31:00 AM
I was reading some poems in "It's Poetry" and found your three. I enjoyed each one which made me want to read more of yours. I'm not sure why I chose this one, but it is emotional and I feel in it the loss you were going through.
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Line Gauthier
Date: 1/12/2022 3:54:00 PM
Thank you so much for your lovely visit and comment, James. Most appreciated ~
Date: 11/25/2020 1:22:00 PM
This is so true Line and the best they could do would be to give you a hug and be there for you... but for some reason some will say things that in fact are quite hurtful ~ for no one can ever know how you feel...more hugs coming your way dear friend. Love Ann xx
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Date: 11/25/2020 6:32:00 PM
Thanks, Ann ~ I thought I would look unappreciative after writing this but the lesson here is Less Is More, never has that been more true ~
Date: 11/24/2020 10:44:00 PM
Many think they know it all, this pull yourself together attitude just does not work, grief is a personal thing that only the person going through it can deal with, and you will Line but in YOUR own way. Tom
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Line Gauthier
Date: 11/25/2020 9:22:00 AM
Thanks, Tom ~ sometimes the most well-meaning intentions fall flat
Date: 11/24/2020 5:44:00 PM
Love the 'rawness' of emotions stretched thin in this write, Line. Go for it! ~ gw
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Date: 11/24/2020 7:27:00 PM
My rant sounds worse than I really meant it ~ normally I would simply roll my eyes. I guess I was not in the mood. Thanks for your understanding, Gershon ~
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