I have recently retire from 42 years of church ministry, the last 25 years as an ordained deacon in the Catholic Church. In these 42 years, a huge part of ministry has been ministering to grieving families. At the many wake/vigil prayers at which I presided, there are many picture boards protrayhing the deceased throught the entirety of the deceased's life: from infancy onward. It is the portraits of the deceased that have had the greatest attractin for me.