Lifetime Partener

Too tough to choose a Lifetime Partener while entering in conjugal life, as pre-marriage interaction hardly reveals actual character of would -be spouse ! Personality I always take life as a challenge, also holding same views for marriage ! Before marriage he ran after me just being mad, though I rejected him at first meeting. Eventually I couldn't escape and got married. Yes, I admit he was intelligent and too smart to impress. I was compelled to surrender, partly by his influence and partly due to adverse circumstances.. But I became successful to build a happy home raising up two bright brilliant daughters upto my satisfaction. My children were my priority next to my career. First twenty five years ran very well. Daughters were grown up ! My work load was reduced to give full attention to career and also on other social aspects. Just like a thunderbolt without cloud I was hit by his betrayal. By Nature, he was not loyal. That was his inherent character revealed then and onwards. Actually I got scope when I gave full attention to surroundings getting ample time as grown up daughters started to lead their own lives. No question to compromise or to adjust with a Cheater. I gave him emotional divorce. Only solution I selected : TO ignore and discard. If a wound turns malignant, I must go through surgery to get rid of. I did that.