-LIFE IS NOT A BATTLE FIELD - POTD

Be strong in your beliefs and opinions 
Give and receive them respectfully 
Discuss , debate, disagree , 
Devoid of anger and intimidation 
Be polite and behave graciously

Don’t try and change opinions 
Or what others believe
With intimidation and insults
Just amicably disagree 

Why the desire to be hurtful
Trying to out-speak and outdo 
Using sarcasm just to be heard
Desperate for control and that final word

Stop being childish and hateful
Bullying is not a game
Spewing ugly vindictive words
Is not the way to make positive change

Insecurities play a part with bullies
Due to lack of self worth and self esteem
Feeling stronger in who they are
When humiliating and simply being mean

Strive for a better way
Strive for a more positive you
There are no wrongs or rights
Just different  points of view

Try kindness and compassion
Seek qualities in your fellow mankind
Don’t engage in belittling interactions
Igniting troubled minds

Life is not a competition 
A constant game of tit for tat
Being confrontational and critical
Is not the way decent humans act 

You have created your own personal battle field
Fuelled by antagonism and controversy
It must be so emotionally draining
Being consumed with malice and negativity
Copyright © | Year Posted 2023

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Kaufman Avatar
November 20, 2023 at 4:49 AM
Hi Deb, This is so very well thought out and such excellent advise for all. I forgot who wrote the song? Madonna?
Kaufman Avatar
November 20, 2023 at 4:49 AM
Belated congratulations Deb M. on this POTD. Well deserved.
Horn Avatar
August 10, 2023 at 4:35 PM
There is a lot of thoughtfulness and emotion in this poem. You could use this poem as the basis for writing a. book
Bangalee Avatar
March 12, 2023 at 11:28 PM
superbly written about the life; thoughtful poetic expression; congrats for the POTD
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:47 AM
Thankyou so much Mahtab…..l appreciate your kind thoughts! Debx
Rodrigues Avatar
March 9, 2023 at 11:31 AM
Excellent! Well stated…so many different ways people say unkind things. Always consider the other side. Don’t have to comment if you disagree but hopefully others will listen likewise to a different point of view. Congratulations on POTD, Deb!
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:45 AM
Absolutely true Kim….thankyou so much…..Debx
Messina Avatar
March 9, 2023 at 7:11 AM
Great message and poem, Deb. Belated Congrats on POTD! Hugs Charliex
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:41 AM
Hey Charlie…..thanks buddy….always lovely to see you! Debx
Horsman Avatar
March 8, 2023 at 11:23 PM
Oh wow, Great to see this POTD, Love your mind set and poetry. Deb, all the best, Harry.
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:40 AM
Aww thanks kind Harry….hope you are doing well and feeling a lot better my friend…..Debx
La France Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 8:03 AM
Deb, wonderful poem and congratulations on receiving the POEM OF THE DAY honor, blessings, Constance
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:34 AM
Thanks so much Constance….Debx
Baker Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 7:29 AM
Here, here Deb! Wonderful and encouraging thoughts on how to better enjoy our community here on poetry soup and in the world. Kudos my dear friend for your POTD poem. Enjoy your special day! Bill A FAV for my list! Thank you
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:33 AM
Aww thanks my friend…l always love hearing from you Bill…..Glad you are back. Debx
George Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 2:04 AM
This is indeed a well laid out code of ethics. I concur with all the invaluable canons of behavior you have enlisted, dear Deb. Sorry I missed seeing this as POTD. Congratulations on this gem of a poem that brought you this honor
M  Avatar
March 16, 2023 at 12:30 AM
Thankyou lovely Valsa…..l appreciate your kind words always….Debx
Meadows Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:06 AM
Brilliant poem! It would be so much better if everyone thought this way. I wrote a poem on Poetry Soup called World Peace. Life goes so quickly it would be nice to have peace and kindness. Congratulations on your POTD. Well done
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:15 AM
Wouldn't it Jeanette….peace and kindness sounds so simple but alas! Thankyou so much..Debx
Nicole Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 8:26 PM
"Be polite and behave graciously, is the way to make positive change." Yes, I completely agree. While in this world, we should be transformed, instead of conformed. Your thoughts hold so much truth. Congratulations Deb, on Poem of the Day. This is beautiful, deep and powerful, all at the same time. My best to you. :) Hugs, Brandy
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:13 AM
Aww your comment is so lovely Brandy…thankyou…Debx
Chuuk Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 7:09 PM
Deb, congratulations on your POTD. :)
M  Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 11:50 PM
Thankyou so much Fin! Debx
M  Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 6:29 PM
I am overwhelmed at the amount of Congratulations and wonderful comments I have received with this poem. Your encouragement and kind words boost my confidence and self doubt no end… which l feel with my poetry at times….I am sure others feel that way also.l truly do appreciate your lovely words. Sending kindness and cuddles to you all….and again Thankyou ….Debx
Lawrence Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 6:07 PM
Deb … such wonderful messages you have painted with your words . So poignant and powerful! Congratulations on POTD! Blessings, Susan :)
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:11 AM
And such lovely words from you Susan….thankyou so much…Debx
Logan Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 5:48 PM
Sorry to be so late with my POTD congratulations, Deb. Fantastic write!
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:10 AM
Thankyou Jenna…..really appreciate your comment! All good for you? you have been a bit quiet of late…Cheers Debx
Flood Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 3:17 PM
Hearty congratulations on POTD, Deb. Well done, we’ll said and we’ll written. Terry
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:07 AM
Well….thankyou Mr Flood….always makes me smile when l see your name! Debx
De Beaulieu Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 11:58 AM
Hello Deb, Well said./ Darlene/
De Beaulieu Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 10:25 AM
Hello Deb, Thank you. It is nice to see you to.You are welcome. Hugs. /Darlene/x
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:06 AM
Thankyou so much sweet Darlene! Always lovely to see you…..Debx
Slaughter Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 10:50 AM
Bravo, Deb! Wish there was some way you could distribute this globally. An excellent choice for POTD or any other day, for that matter. One note: in Stanza 6, do you possibly mean "strive" instead of "strife"?
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:05 AM
Thankyou Jim for your comment and for letting me know about the strive….Changed it…mych appreciated…Debx
Delaney Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 9:47 AM
I agree, Deb: Control freaks are not pretty. Congrats on your POTD honor, SuZ
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:04 AM
Thanks Suz….lovely to see you…..Cheers Debx
Wolf Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 9:38 AM
Sometimes, though, I think that life is a battle... Congrats on POTD, Deb!! ~ BB
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:03 AM
Yes it can be BB but there are people that create their own! Cheers and thankyou Wolfus ( l love that!!) your partner in cheekiness…..Debx
Rees Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 8:37 AM
So very well said. If only everyone would adopt this modus operandi. Well done!
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:01 AM
Thankyou Peter….l appreciate your thoughts…..Debx
Doll Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 7:16 AM
Deb, congratulations on POTD. Each word of your poem speaks truth~ Warren
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:01 AM
Thankyou so much Warren….Cheers Debx
Goldsmith Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 5:50 AM
Congratulations on your POTD win. A wonderful/powerful write. Love It. Have a blessed day/week writing away....................
M  Avatar
March 7, 2023 at 12:00 AM
Oh Im so glad you loved it Paula….Thankyou for thoughts….Debx
Sands Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 5:36 AM
Great POTD . Congratulations Deb :)
M  Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 11:59 PM
Thanks Heidi….Cheers Debx
Pandit Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 5:26 AM
BIG congrats on POTD, Deb. You delivered such a powerful message. Enjoy your day.
M  Avatar
March 6, 2023 at 11:58 PM
Thankyou lovely Vijay….l value your thoughts….Debx
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