Life, I Surrender

I don't get it we all have our problems we all struggle against defeat we all hurt we cry from pain we stress, and abuse, and run, and hate and love and from love we hate so what is the point? if every good thing ends in disaster if everyone eventually leaves and every pleasure turns to pain and every win, is another defeat, a loss why struggle? why hurt? are we awarded with some prize for overcoming our obstacles or is it all for nothing maybe it would be easier to surrender