Let Bygones Be Bygones - POTD

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Writing Prompts 16 Lines Or Less Poetry Contest, Sponsor - Miranda Hawley. Date originally written: 12/21/2021

     
   My friend, put a pause on throwing punches.
    There's no use holding on to petty grudges. 
   It's much easier to breathe with feuds ended.
     Always accept an olive branch, if extended.

      It doesn't matter the cause of dissension;
      Douse the scorching flame of contention. 
        Forget who threw the poison dart first. 
        Avoid fueling the fire with an outburst.

 Give who wronged you chance to make amends. 
   No sir,  you two don't have to become friends. 
      Don't worry yourself with friendship plans. 
    You don't even have to meet or shake hands.

   Toss your ego aside and be the bigger person; 
     Resolve brewing hostilities lest they worsen 
       And simply just let bygones be bygones.
       They are only pros to doing so, no cons.

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Date: 12/30/2022 7:08:00 AM
Thanks for sharing this. By God's grace, I greet you with the peace and joy of Christmas toward a prosperous New Year along this present: "the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord" (Romans 6:23 of the King James Bible). God bless you.
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Date: 12/30/2022 7:34:00 AM
As always, thank you very much, Beata:-) God bless you, my friend.
Date: 12/26/2022 4:59:00 PM
Congratulations on POTD Edward! I appreciate your sage advice. Hate is like holding a log on fire I've learned, as I'm the only one that gets burned. Happy Holidays. Robert
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Date: 12/26/2022 6:55:00 PM
Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congratulations, Robert:-) Happy holidays to you, too!
Date: 12/25/2022 3:34:00 PM
Wise advice ~ Happy holidays to you and your loved ones, Edward!
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Date: 12/26/2022 8:56:00 AM
Thank you very much, Line:-) Happy holidays!
Date: 12/23/2022 6:43:00 AM
Oh such a lovely thought, especially at Christmas, and always! God bless you! Congratulations on POTD, Edward!
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Date: 12/23/2022 7:22:00 AM
Thank you so much, Kim:-)
Date: 12/23/2022 3:05:00 AM
I couldn't agree with you more, Edward. "My Golden Rule" - "Be the bigger person" Excellent right...belated Congrats on POTD! Charlie
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Date: 12/23/2022 7:21:00 AM
Thank you very much, Charles:-)
Date: 12/23/2022 12:18:00 AM
A good poem. Congratulations on your POTD. Well written.
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Date: 12/23/2022 2:40:00 AM
Thank you very much, Jeanette:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 11:30:00 PM
"It's much easier to breathe with feuds ended", " Forget who threw the poison dart first", "Toss your ego aside and be the bigger person" - Practical hints, (though a bit difficult to practice) to live peacefully in this modern world. Congratulations!
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Date: 12/23/2022 2:39:00 AM
Thank you very much for the comments and congratulations, Christuraj:-) Most appreciated.
Date: 12/22/2022 10:19:00 PM
A passive approach douses flames and forgiveness sets us free. Your poem is inspirational Edward. To suggest being the "bigger person" far from a coward, if you settle differences without violence, is such an important lesson. Extremely deserving of POTD. Congratulations.
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Date: 12/23/2022 2:37:00 AM
Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congrats, Wendy:-) I couldn't agree more!
Date: 12/22/2022 7:04:00 PM
First, I would like to say that I'm placing this in my favorites. (For all the right reasons). Second, this should be printed and placed in every office and school. Third, your words hold so much truth and everyone *needs* to practice them. As I've learned over the years, not every field is for battle. Examine your thoughts, before sharing them. Overlook human flaws, and be kind. Congratulations Edward, on Poem of the Day. My best to you. Hugs, Brandy
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:35:00 PM
I echo your sentiments, Brandy:-) I greatly appreciate the comments and fave!
Date: 12/22/2022 4:33:00 PM
Edward, so many profound thoughts drenched in simple wisdom for maintaining peace between neighbors and nations... "Toss your ego aside and be the bigger person" would resolve many disputes, feuds, and wars. Congratulations on your worthy POTD ~ John
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:33:00 PM
Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congrats, John:-) I couldn't agree more!
Date: 12/22/2022 4:01:00 PM
Wonderful POTD Edward. I love the inspiration shown in the piece. So well crafted. I want to see more of you. Best - Ken
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:29:00 PM
Thank you very much, Ken:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 3:46:00 PM
Great advice in your potd! Congrats
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:28:00 PM
Thank you very much, Karen:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 3:41:00 PM
Congratulations on POTD, my friend. Merry Christmas
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:27:00 PM
Thank you so much, Eve:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 1:56:00 PM
Hi, Edward! Congratulations on the POTD. I have to say it's a phenomenal well-versed poetry piece. Great penning, Edward. Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanza, or Happy Holidays, whichever you celebrate. God's Blessing to you and your family, and friends. Again, Congratulations on POTD. Best of Wishes, William
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Date: 12/22/2022 8:27:00 PM
Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congratulations, William:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 12:50:00 PM
- Congratulations on your p.o.t.d., Edward - Excellent written - Merry Christmas - hugs
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Date: 12/22/2022 1:05:00 PM
Thank you very much, Anne-Lise:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 12:44:00 PM
Great message. Congratulations for POTD :)
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Date: 12/22/2022 1:04:00 PM
Thank you so much, Heidi!:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 11:27:00 AM
A very good choice for POTD, Edward...and, also, a pretty good one for New Year's Resolutions.
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Date: 12/22/2022 1:03:00 PM
Thank you, Jim:-) It's indeed a good one for New Year's resolutions!
Date: 12/22/2022 11:14:00 AM
Great advice and congratulations on POTD honors, well deserved. John
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Date: 12/22/2022 1:01:00 PM
Thank you very much, John:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 10:34:00 AM
Great rhyming and message. Congratulations on POTD~ Warren
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Date: 12/22/2022 12:59:00 PM
Thank you very much, Warren:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 9:56:00 AM
Excellent advice. Sadly, bullies will never do this, and the abused must suffer. If only the whole world could be mature and realize the power of forgiveness and simply being kind oh, and congrats on POTD. Well deserved
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Date: 12/22/2022 12:58:00 PM
What you said is sadly true. If only! Thank you very much, Andrea:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 9:08:00 AM
Congratulations Edward Ibeh on your POTD! Strife over fundamental issues worsen, without practice in a strong belief system, it’s a matter of one’s intentions. Until good practices, the act of contrition may not apply. Let Bygones be Bygones and find a way. Excellent message! ~Anaya:D
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Date: 12/22/2022 12:55:00 PM
Thank you very much for the wonderful feedback and congrats, Anaya:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 7:17:00 AM
Congratulations on your POTD win. A great write filled with truth. If only everyone would forgive. Merry Christmas............
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Date: 12/22/2022 10:27:00 AM
Thank you so much, Paula:-) Merry Christmas!
Date: 12/22/2022 6:58:00 AM
So wise … so true and poignant dear Edward !! Love this and all it represents. Big congratulations on POTD! Hugs and blessings to you yours this holiday season. Susan :)
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Date: 12/22/2022 10:27:00 AM
Thank you very much for the feedback and congrats, Susan:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 6:57:00 AM
Excellent advice in this one, Edward! Congrats for it being selected as POTD. Merry Christmas to you and yours - Bob H
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Edward Ibeh
Date: 12/22/2022 10:21:00 AM
Thank you very much, Robert:-)
Date: 12/22/2022 6:42:00 AM
Back with BIG congrats on POTD, Edward. Enjoy your day.
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Edward Ibeh
Date: 12/22/2022 10:21:00 AM
Thanks again, Vijay:-) Most obliged.
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