Notes About The Poem

538,000 children in the USA are waiting for a home. They either have been orphaned or their parents have relinquished rights.

 

I Do Not Have a Mom

I don’t have a Mom the eleven-year-old says.
Do you have a Dad? I ask him. He shakes his head ‘no’.
Who takes care of you?
I live in a group home.
You don’t have a foster mom or a foster dad?
He shakes his head ‘no’.

I am flummoxed. I have never met a group home child.
He comes to my room later, because I want to know him.
He tells me that his parents gave up their rights to him.
Last year when he was ten; he had “issues”.
I am horrified. I see tears for a second, but they are gone fast.
He has brothers who used to beat on him and a sister.
The sister is ten, and he misses her.

We talk for quite a while. I am sad for him until he tells me
“Things are better in the group home than they were before.”
I ask what is good about the group home, and he cannot pinpoint anything.
I ask who he talks to, and he tells me that he talks to the staff.
I see him later in the day laughing with friends. His new family now.
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Copyright © | Year Posted 2019

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Mcintosh Avatar
September 28, 2019 at 2:37 AM
It's sad, but I believe group homes have a lot to offer if they're good ones. Some baptist homes where I'm from offer a lot of advantages. I know you work with children, but am not sure exactly what you do? Soupmail me if you don't mind and we'll get to know one another... Bless you
Krutsinger Avatar
September 28, 2019 at 3:30 AM
I am an elementary school counselor. I go class to class teaching children how to be respectful, kind, cooperative, and responsible. I teach them to find the good in each other, and to build each other up. I teach them how to solve their problems peacefully, and I teach them the golden rule. In my spare time I counsel children who are sobbing because they were as good as they could be and their parents still fight, divorce, or give them up.
Bauer Avatar
September 17, 2019 at 10:19 AM
so sad, caren, but described so well here...
Krutsinger Avatar
September 18, 2019 at 6:15 AM
Thank you Ilene. It was the saddest thing I had ever heard from a child in person except for the rape stories. They are worse in my mind.
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