Growing Up Rich

Growing Up Rich

My childhood home was just four rooms, heated by a black stove in the kitchen.
No phone, no car, a toilet in the basement. Money was tight. The rent had to be paid.

I spent my days in youthful endeavors. Playing baseball in the field where the high school now stands.  My dad, a laborer, walked to work each day, every day. My mom typed envelopes at home for extra money.

At dinnertime my mom would ring a cowbell, calling me home. Responding was not an option. I'd ride my bike home, wash my hands, and join the family at the table. Food was not plentiful, but prepared with love.  I never went hungry.

In my teens dad took ill and could no longer work. Mom got a job at the Woolworth s
I got two paper routes, my earnings split with my parents.

Neighborhoods were tightly knit then. Bad news arrived home before you did. Fruits of backyard gardens were shared, and helping hands lived right next door

School clothes were few in number, but were always clean and ironed. You took them off after school and donned the jeans with ironed on patches. Shoes were passed down from my brother, their lives extended by glued on half-soles or cardboard, cut to shape and stuffed inside. But mostly, I wore my high top P.F. Flyers.

Christmas meant a cut tree with strings of large colored lights. Our stockings were hung on hooks behind the old black stove, to be filled overnight with oranges, apples, candy, and maybe a toy. We thought we were the luckiest kids in town

Sitting here now, reflecting on my childhood, how hard it must have been to make ends meet, but meet they did. The things my folks must have gone without to make sure their kids didn'. We learned early the value of a dollar. They taught me to respect my elders, to know the difference between right and wrong, and to practice it. Their values became my values and stood me in good stead. Their greatest gifts were the love and guidance they provided

I realize now all my memories are good ones. My folks gave me everything it was important for me to have, and although I didn't realize it then, I understand now how lucky I was to have grown up rich.
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Tams The Golden Girl Avatar
November 8, 2011 at 5:28 AM
Congratulations . You bought my childhood back with a crash. xx
Quigley Avatar
November 8, 2011 at 9:34 AM
Glad I could do that Mandy. Thank you
Brown Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 9:53 AM
Congratulations on your win in Debbie Guzzi's sponsored contest "Give Thanks" Bob. Love, Carol
Quigley Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 10:33 AM
Thank you Carol
Susan Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 7:19 AM
great narrative Bob. you captured the essence of being rich that so many people just don't get - by focusing on what truly matters. congratulations on another #1 win!
Quigley Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 10:34 AM
Thank you Susan. Very much appreciate your comments.
Arowolo Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 5:05 AM
Awesome write.Wonderful narrative,very touchy.Congratulations Bob.This is superb......
Quigley Avatar
November 7, 2011 at 10:34 AM
Thank you very much Olusequn
Johnson Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:16 PM
Yes mate we got the best upbringing, before the experts put too many twists n turns in the system...that no longer works ... Well done here! Don
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:29 PM
Yes we did. Thanks Don
Sherman Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 9:50 PM
Well deserved..Bob...Memories...thank you for this piece. Valerie
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:30 PM
And thank you for your kind comments Valerie
Lampkin Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 9:02 PM
Oh my oh my....this one is definitely a winner because it reminds a lot of us about our childhood day. You deserved this win. Rosalyn
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:30 PM
Kind words indeed Rosalyn. Thank you.
Kearley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 7:19 PM
Excelent write you have here Bob.Some of the things you wrote about remind me of my younger years.It helped me to see some of the values I was taught growing up that I never new I had.
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:32 PM
As Judy Ball once said, "we weren't poor, we just didn't have any money". Thanks for the comments Dan
Taylor Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 6:40 PM
Congrats, Bob. Awesome piece. Beautiful story. Enjoyed. Kudos to you, my friend. Well written, well deserved win. Nice going. Best to you and yours. Ralph
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:33 PM
Thanks Ralph. Was happy to share this. Glad you liked it.
Sweetheart Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 6:04 PM
Congrats Bob on a superb first place win with this extraordinary entry of poetic art luv.. brilliant..
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:33 PM
Very much appreciated Linda-Marie.
Freeman Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 5:00 PM
I see congratulations are in order, congratulations on your worthy first place. Agape, Moses
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:34 PM
Thanks John. Appreciate your stopping by.
Johnson Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 4:54 PM
And rich you were as was I to grow up in those days where you or your folks worked for evything you got. Certainly did teach the value of a dollar. Great story and great win. Love, Joyce
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:35 PM
Yup Joyce. You can't miss what you don't know you don't have. Thanks for the congrats
Richards Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 2:24 PM
Indeed, how rich you were, how wonderful to have a family who knew what truly counted, and it is evident those lessons were received with a grateful heart. Wonderful story telling, Bob!
Quigley Avatar
November 6, 2011 at 10:37 PM
Thank you Carrie. Very kind comments.
Suzadail Jr. Avatar
October 12, 2011 at 12:06 AM
They were good days, having so little but rich beyond our dreams. I lived in a row home with 17 kids in the first three homes (each had 3 bedrooms. I used to joke about getting married so young, so I could finally sleep alone. I wouldn't trade that row home for a palace. Vince
Quigley Avatar
October 12, 2011 at 11:37 AM
When I look around today, I again realize how lucky I was. Thanks for stopping by Vince
Ball Avatar
June 26, 2011 at 11:49 AM
Oh Bob! This one is so excellent. Loved every word. Reminds me of something I heard said in a movie I saw once. The mother said:"Poor!! We're not poor! We just don't have any money." Loved this \Bob. God Bless, JB
Quigley Avatar
June 26, 2011 at 12:17 PM
Judy I think you are my biggest booster. Thanks for your encouragement and support. BobQ
Brown Avatar
June 14, 2011 at 6:44 AM
It was a pleasure to read your poetry this morning Bob. Please keep sharing your writing with us. I wish you much inspiration that you may continue with your writing endeavors whatever they may be. Love, Carol
Quigley Avatar
June 14, 2011 at 10:43 AM
Carol Thanks for your comments and the support they bring. It has taken years to find the time and courage to put my thoughts on paper. Nice to know someone thinks they are worthwhile
Flanders Avatar
June 13, 2011 at 12:26 PM
Well, you have said it. Grow up rich in mind and manners with love and respect..what more do i need to read. Enjoyed and very nicely put.
Quigley Avatar
June 14, 2011 at 10:44 AM
Thanks for the support Ned. Glad you liked it
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