Foundations of Marriage

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This is a poem I wrote a long time ago - when I was married the first time and when I was writing as Regina Hill:) - I'm not sure if Blue Mountain Arts holds the copyright, but it is posted all over the internet on wedding planning sites - so maybe it has helped someone.
 

Love, trust, and forgiveness are the foundations of marriage. 

In marriage, many days will bring happiness, while other days may be sad. 
But together, two hearts can overcome everything...
In marriage, all of the moments won't be exciting or romantic, 
and sometimes worries and anxiety will be overwhelming. 
But together, two hearts that accept will find comfort together. 
Recollections of past joys, pains, and shared feelings will be the glue 
that holds everything together during even the worst and most insecure moments. Reaching out to each other as a friend, and becoming the confidant and companion that the other one needs, is the true magic and beauty of any two people together. It's inspiring in each other a dream or a feeling, and having faith in each other and not giving up... even when all the odds say to quit. 
It's allowing each other to be vulnerable, to be himself or herself, even when the opinions or thoughts aren't in total agreement or exactly what you'd like them to be. It's getting involved and showing interest in each other, really listening and being available, the way any best friend should be. 

Exactly three things need to be remembered in a marriage if it is to be a mutual bond of sharing, caring, and loving throughout life: love, trust, and forgiveness.



November 8, 2019
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Date: 5/15/2020 9:28:00 PM
Well penned, Regina. I sure hope your name is associated with your poem on the internet. Nice that your poem got so much publicity. Bravo ~
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Date: 11/20/2019 7:41:00 AM
wow, love trust and forgiveness is so true. You wrapped up three things that build a great foundation for a marriage. I agree with everything you wrote. Beautifully expressed RR...thank you for your participation and congratulations on your placement. x:-)-luloo
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Date: 11/19/2019 10:44:00 PM
Hi Gina congrats on your win
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Date: 11/19/2019 6:26:00 PM
Congratulations on your win :) hugs
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Date: 11/19/2019 4:19:00 PM
Regina congratulations on your top win!;)
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Date: 12/17/2015 3:44:00 PM
REGINA, Congrats on your old best poem. HUGS **SKAT**
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Date: 9/14/2014 3:27:00 PM
A great poem and also great advice. I do hope it helps some young couples and not so young also. Thanks for sharing. have a blessed day... Lucilla
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Date: 9/4/2014 6:41:00 AM
i am not surprised it would be posted all over the net. it is a great piece of poetry. thank you.
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Date: 9/4/2014 4:34:00 AM
Great advice, my dear. Yes....those three are essential. Love is not just a feeling, but a decision. I'm touched by your write. Bless you.
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Date: 9/4/2014 3:16:00 AM
Dear Regina, no two people will agree on everything. As you say so eloquently, "love, trust and forgiveness" are the keys to a lasting marriage. Just recently Sara Kendrick celebrated her 52nd anniversary. Surely she knows the message in your poem is true. Love, Carolyn
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Date: 9/4/2014 12:05:00 AM
It should be presented to all couples entering into marriage - wise words indeed Regina! Hugs jan xx
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