Forgiveness Helps Me

When someone violates my trust through betrayal, theft or rumor,
I look into our mutual emotional bank account. 
Is it red, limping, crying and hurting? 
Is it turning harder than a gallstone?
If so, it is going to be more difficult for me to forgive
Which is not my norm; not my norm.

But, if our emotional bank account is full of playful memories,
laughter and mirth, frolicking and friendly banter, 
if she is a lovely pink and green color, 
and she smells like lavender, 
and I can foresee many more lovely experiences 
forgiveness comes automatically, 
without hesitation, and this violation is easily discounted
if not completely dissipated.
Which is my norm, which is my norm.

This serves me well, this serves me well.
For I am from a forgiving family,
Whose doctrine and philosophy is 
That we are all sinners, and all of us have stoned 
At one time or another, or we will.
A forgiving family that understood that
all of us live in glass houses; 
every single one of us.
No exceptions.

When you realize this, it is easier
to see your own mistakes, and recognize
the grace others have given you.
Which helps your emotional bank account
stay enthusiastically loving and giving.
Also helps your heart forgive, which is a balm to you.
A salve on your hurt, a salve on your hurt.
Which works both ways, which works both ways.
Forgiveness for you, and forgiveness for me.
We are all sinners; we are all hurting.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2021

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Dietrich Avatar
January 1, 2022 at 1:08 PM
I love this because I too am a very forgiving person. How the heck else did I manage to stay married nearly half a century. hahaha. happy New Year, dear.
Krutsinger Avatar
January 1, 2022 at 1:32 PM
Happy New Year Andrea!
Wolf Avatar
December 31, 2021 at 1:16 PM
As they say, 'To err is human; to forgive is divine. Keep up the great work, Caren!
Krutsinger Avatar
January 1, 2022 at 1:32 PM
True enough. Happy New Year Gershon!
De Beaulieu Avatar
December 31, 2021 at 11:59 AM
Hello Caren, yes Caren we are all hurting from our past. Some in the Now. I have put my hurt feelings in the past. I am positive and try to be like this every day. Hugs.
De Beaulieu Avatar
January 2, 2022 at 11:40 AM
Hello Ca\ren, Happy New Year. Hugs.
Krutsinger Avatar
January 1, 2022 at 1:32 PM
Thank you. Happy New Year Darlene!
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