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False Apologies Are Insulting

When I have wronged someone in word or deed and know that I should make amends, I heed my OWN advice: Don’t wait. Apologize. I know, “I’m sorry--BUT . . .” is never wise! That small word turns apologies to lies, for then will likely come words that enflame, implying that the other one's to blame for my wrongs. Did that person hurt me too? Perhaps "I'm also sorry" will ensue. April 25, 2019, entered in Line Gauthier's Apology Poetry Contest Placed 3rd Date: May 3, 2019 Contest Title: It Really Gets Me Going Sponsor: Kevin Shaw June 29, 2022 entered in the Forgiveness Poetry Contest Sponsor: Anoucheka Gangabissoon

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Date: 7/18/2022 9:22:00 AM
Congratulations on your win. WOW!!! A "Lovely" write. I love this one and it is so very true. Years ago, I was told to say "I am sorry." I asked, "What have I done or said that I need to say I am sorry???" They would not tell me of anything. Then I said "why am I saying sorry???" They could not say why I should. I found out later they were jealous of me. I let go and I let God handle it. Have a great/blessed day.......................
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Janice Canerdy
Date: 7/18/2022 10:49:00 AM
THANKS so much, Paula! I have to feel sure I'm wrong before I'll apologize. As I said, I don't put "But" in an apology! Janice
Date: 4/30/2019 10:10:00 PM
I'm taken by your sage advice, i.e., No saying 'I'm sorry, but...' Great! Congrats on your win in the contest, Janice. Best wishes, Gershon
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Janice Canerdy
Date: 4/30/2019 10:36:00 PM
Thanks so much, Line. Janice
Date: 4/29/2019 5:45:00 PM
prudent is your poetic insights, janice... very well crafted!...huggs
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Janice Canerdy
Date: 4/29/2019 6:00:00 PM
Thank you SO much, Nette! Janice
Date: 4/26/2019 4:38:00 PM
I can only echo the sentiments of great wisdom, Janice. I have been the victim of many insults from time to time that I joke about it.
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Janice Canerdy
Date: 4/26/2019 8:20:00 PM
Thanks so much, Ralph. Janice
Date: 4/26/2019 7:19:00 AM
Great words of wisdom in this poem Janice..so well said!
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Janice Canerdy
Date: 4/26/2019 8:07:00 AM
Vijay, thank you so much! Janice

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