Eye contact - the state in which two people are aware of looking directly into one another's eyes.
Eye contact feels good when its a shared experience, otherwise its feels like one person is imposing his visual will on another.
But just because making eye contact doesn’t come naturally to you, doesn’t mean you should just shrug your shoulders and accept this predisposition.
Gary Numan: "Eye contact is something I find incredibly difficult. I count all the time when I’m talking to someone to make sure I do it right. Anything less than two seconds is considered rude, more than five seconds is too intense, so I have to look away. I worked that out myself. I find conversations incredibly stressful."
and post notes and photos about your poem like John Anderson.