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Decorum

You sat still at Miss Binnington’s No swinging legs or kicking feet Back pressed against chair back Bottom firmly held to chair seat. Children seen but not heard A rule very seldom broken Only in reply could Any word be spoken. The starched table cloth Pristine white and clean Ironed and smooth with Not a wrinkle to be seen. Cake stand with its little cakes Placed precisely in the centre A reverent hush prevailed as we Waited for Miss Binnington to enter, Bearing tea in China cups Delicate and thin Really the only way then To serve tea in. A little decorum followed Until she quietly departed And then, only then, was Our afternoon tea started. Eat as silently as you could As delicately as you were able Only an uncultured yob dare Put his elbows on the table. Seventy years and more years ago Miss Binnington’s now long gone A more crazy and frenetic world As the century rolled quietly on. Children these enlightened days No longer sit silent and in awe - Good manners and respect Don’t seem to matter anymore. Some times things change A little more than they maybe ought to I think sometimes we now Throw out both baby and bath water.

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Date: 1/11/2023 1:18:00 PM
ha! it is hard to imagine children nowadays sitting so quietly and being intimidated by their teacher (or any adult), terry. i don't know if the story reached your shores, but a 6 year-old child shot his teacher during class here in the states. times certainly have changed!
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Terry Ireland
Date: 1/12/2023 3:22:00 AM
Yes I say that sad news Ilene. Over here it’s juvenile knife crime rising, mainly teen on teen. So very sad.l
Date: 1/11/2023 12:41:00 PM
ln my younger day, l remember a child would stand so an adult could sit,,, now as they push past to get the seat, you're in danger of getting hit. A welcomed poem Terry, all too true. Even those brought up with manners these days, find it too uncool to display them. Tis a poem well written and very accurate.
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Terry Ireland
Date: 1/12/2023 3:21:00 AM
Just over 40 years ago a friend, then a Consultant Child Psychologist, forecast this. He said people weren’t disciplining their children becaue the feared their children wouldn’t like them. Sadly how right he was.

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