Criticism - My Experiences

A family member often criticized me Initially I felt I was bad and cried I lost my confidence, contemplated suicide Then, I realized criticizing others was her habit I never spoke badly to others I was way better than her One day when she shouted at me I answered back You have no right to talk to me like that Every time you speak badly you are tarnishing your own image You also have imperfections, I too can point out But you will not be able to take it Think before you talk She stopped for some days only to start again Then I adopted another strategy I ignored her She would say I am talking to you I would still keep quite She would stop At other times I would just go out of the house She would ask where are you going I would reply I don't like listening to my criticism. Will come back when you stop I would tell my husband about her bad behaviour and her talks Later I realized I was doing what she is doing There is no difference between us I stopped that too Now she doesn't stay with us There's peace at home If someone criticizes you, remember that person is not God You are created by God Everything created by God is perfect Those who are critical are negative people who cannot see positive trait's in others They are not your well-wishers and what they say is best ignored Never bother about others opinion Never criticize them or defend yourself Don't do what they are doing Don't stoop low like them. Follow your conscience Be good, do good always Be confident and positive Our haters deserve our sympathy more than our reaction Such people are miserable from inside Their hate killing them every moment 10.07.2021