Choosing Where To Hang Out

What lies between extremes of boredom and bliss for you and those you most love to work and hang with? If your Business As Usual day sends messages within redundantly reiterating how life is always coming too fast too needy too deprived of freedom's more creative recreational climates, seeking more keep it positive atmospheres, then it may help to recall you are choosing to see your time v Earth's timing as a little anemic Win between and among a whole lotta Lose. The alternatives depend on your choice of paradigm. Abrahamic traditions speak of compassionately co-redemptive love where Buddhists might choose Basic Attendance to each now as just investment enough to freely divest of in your co-arising next momentary exhale, ebbing and flowing so inevitably between Empty (0) Now and PolyPathically InterDependent Timeless Eternity these Bodhisattva ecotherapists scarce could bother with any irrational egocentric remainders of fear and suffering transient loss. A Game Theorist might recommend choosing only WinWin intentions and orthopraxis, as would a Positive Psychologist, especially with both verbal and nonverbal, and both internal and external, multicultural communication, biosystemic with also organic ecosystemic healthy outcomes, and not so much LoseLose entropic chaos; game over. A Pronoiac from Beauty and Truth ReGeneration Laboratories, might kindly laugh and empathize yet also suggest turning down your hallucinating paranoia, rather like a head and body cold picked up through superstitious enculturations that learning lives are best played through condemning survivalism, eat or become eaten economic evolution, when all Earth's regenerative evidence proves the also contrary RightBrain balancing LeftDominance, we are both what and whom we have most nutritiously and transubstantially eaten, speaking Left to Right to Left transliteratively, of course on course, and are currently digesting, one life-fulfilling moment through all of eternal Pronoiac Tao Zen(0) Time. One of many differences between Negative Psychology empire-building Competitive EcoPolitics and Positive Psychology empowering CoOperative EcoLogicals Both/And With, is this fundamental matter of choice, balancing ego's freedoms to WinWin with Earth's freedoms from WinLose paranoia about death and dying and associated ecopolitical risks and losses of internal balancing external climate health trends, becoming redundantly hued as Positive especially as nondually co-arising Old School Paranoia regarding climates of anti-ecotherapeutic Anger/Fear terrorist pathology as equivalent to NotNot Yet and NotNot Death, (preferably reiterating as breathing in with out) co-arising permaculturally nutritious self-optimizing self-governing, self-nutritioning designs, each emerging from deep listening learning arts and sciences of Positive Health Attendance, wu wei Tipping Points of not too Yang inviting NotNot Yin's flowing in and out good bicamerally balancing Left/Right contenting humors, Polypathic qualitative time with polyculturally quantitative yummy space bring nondual optimally regenerative outcomes, without degenerative paranoid lost remainders, also known as cognitive-affective dissonance, by psychologists and would be communicators, and also known as anti-empathic mistrust of continuing pathological ecopolitical climates by political and economic cooperative research scientists. The WinWin choice over WinLose merely requires ecoconsciousness. If biological capacity to yet breathe in remains a Win, then the choice factor is all about remembering what you breathe and act out is both for egocentric decomposing ill divestment and of cooperative EgoYang/EarthYin-centric regenerate good investment. If you choose to use your WinLose paranoia to deep learn WinWin healthy wealthier nutritious outcomes, breathing in both health and pathology, to breathe nondual cooperative co-redemptive investment out again. What lies between extremes of more boring egocentric competitions and bliss of Earth Climate Health Yang-Rights for bicamerally balancing you and those you would already prefer to work and hang with?